bi/poly/gay thread

[Sister Fracture]

I was going to say lay off Danessa, because even if her identity isn't realy her motives might be, but HOLY SHIT, GLORIOUS FAGGOT IS RETURN!

[M. Nigel Salt]

While we're here...

Why do men who have sex with men have no sense of...and this going to sound, well, gay but, romance? Where's the cleverness? The playing with words and sweet-talk?

Why does the old conservative gay pastor send me messages on FB to the tune of "I masturbated to giving you a rimjob the other night, when are you going to let me do that again?" No dinner. No "Hey it's been awhile how are you doing?" No.

Just straight into the nasty. Which, don't get me wrong, I enjoy doing but...

*sigh*

It was the same with the furry.

Welcome to the beautiful world of being approached as a sex object. The only reason women don't get that shit 24/7 is because we shut it down, hard. Guys still try it though. However, just as is true with straight guys in their approaches to women, the vast majority of gay men (as opposed to men who have sex with men, who are an overlapping but slightly different demographic IME) prefer a more dating-oriented, romantic approach to their relationships. A common complaint I've heard from gay friends is about guys who just want to get down to business; one friend said sadly, of the man he was seeing, "It's like I'm just the thing that happens to be attached to my penis". My thought is that you just have to nip that shit in the bud, refuse to tolerate it, and in doing so narrow your dating field to the guys who want the same kind of things you do... which is the quiet majority.

So, my advice, if it's romance you're looking for, would be to look for guys who are looking for a relationship, rather than just sex. Unless you just want sex. Or put an ad out that says something like "I'm not looking for one true love right now, but it's not all about sex; I want candlelight dinners, cuddling and movies, languid make-out sessions. I want to gaze into your eyes as we make sweet, tender love" or some shite like that.

[Dysnomia]

I like to have sex in the missionary position for procreation purposes only.   








Sometimes, if I'm feeling really naughty...it's just for fun!

[BabylonHoruv]

While we're here...

Why do men who have sex with men have no sense of...and this going to sound, well, gay but, romance? Where's the cleverness? The playing with words and sweet-talk?

Why does the old conservative gay pastor send me messages on FB to the tune of "I masturbated to giving you a rimjob the other night, when are you going to let me do that again?" No dinner. No "Hey it's been awhile how are you doing?" No.

Just straight into the nasty. Which, don't get me wrong, I enjoy doing but...

*sigh*

It was the same with the furry.

Maybe they just think you're a dirty lil slut who doesn't need to be romanced.

[Phox]

While we're here...

Why do men who have sex with men have no sense of...and this going to sound, well, gay but, romance? Where's the cleverness? The playing with words and sweet-talk?

Why does the old conservative gay pastor send me messages on FB to the tune of "I masturbated to giving you a rimjob the other night, when are you going to let me do that again?" No dinner. No "Hey it's been awhile how are you doing?" No.

Just straight into the nasty. Which, don't get me wrong, I enjoy doing but...

*sigh*

It was the same with the furry.

Like Nigel said, those fuckers exist in all sexualities. Don't put upo  with that kind of shit. For serious, men (and women, too) can be assholes when it comes to sex, and you don't have to put up with it. Make that clear to them.

[Cain]

 

I should place money on things like this, I really should.  Admins who read my PMs from yesterday know what I mean.

[The Good Reverend Roger]

DAMN ok well sorry for asking and trying to bring a new ideas to the table here. At this point I'm pretty sure I'm being called nasty names and being disrespected because I'm open with my sexuality AND IM BLACK. It's pretty simple to see that this is a place for RACISTS I see the word NIGGER all over well thanks for treating me like a real human being and for being too scared to recognize your sexualness as a human being. PEACE OUT BYTCHES

Thanks, Poptard.  See you next moniker.

[Jenne]

Big, fat whinefest, followed by flounce.

Ok, bye. *waves*

[Jenne]

DAMN ok well sorry for asking and trying to bring a new ideas to the table here. At this point I'm pretty sure I'm being called nasty names and being disrespected because I'm open with my sexuality AND IM BLACK. It's pretty simple to see that this is a place for RACISTS I see the word NIGGER all over well thanks for treating me like a real human being and for being too scared to recognize your sexualness as a human being. PEACE OUT BYTCHES

Thanks, Poptard.  See you next moniker.

You have to give him this:  he chooses a different persona and tries to cultivate it to a point.

[The Good Reverend Roger]

I should place money on things like this, I really should.  Admins who read my PMs from yesterday know what I mean.

You wouldn't have won anything from me.  The moment I saw the intro, I knew who it was.

But calling Poptard when Poptard is obvious is frowned upon, so I kept my yap shut.

[Hoopla]

DAMN ok well sorry for asking and trying to bring a new ideas to the table here. At this point I'm pretty sure I'm being called nasty names and being disrespected because I'm open with my sexuality AND IM BLACK. It's pretty simple to see that this is a place for RACISTS I see the word NIGGER all over well thanks for treating me like a real human being and for being too scared to recognize your sexualness as a human being. PEACE OUT BYTCHES

Hey, I told you what I like... I'm just not into Skype.  Jeez.

[The Good Reverend Roger]

DAMN ok well sorry for asking and trying to bring a new ideas to the table here. At this point I'm pretty sure I'm being called nasty names and being disrespected because I'm open with my sexuality AND IM BLACK. It's pretty simple to see that this is a place for RACISTS I see the word NIGGER all over well thanks for treating me like a real human being and for being too scared to recognize your sexualness as a human being. PEACE OUT BYTCHES

Thanks, Poptard.  See you next moniker.

You have to give him this:  he chooses a different persona and tries to cultivate it to a point.

It's too fucking obvious, though.  There's no craftsmanship.

I mean, he's too BLATANT about pushing buttons, what with the Marine thread and then this one...This entire persona was set up to holler "RACISM", even though none was forthcoming.  Saw it coming from post #1.

Poptard is getting lazy.  I expect more effort from our persistent trolls.

[Hoopla]

WTF does poptard mean and FUCK YOU like seriously OK you can't run all over me like the stupid white women on this board I see how you treat others OH BTW where is all the black members?

Aini raped them all.

[The Good Reverend Roger]

WTF does poptard mean and FUCK YOU like seriously OK you can't run all over me like the stupid white women on this board I see how you treat others OH BTW where is all the black members?

Oh, for fuck's sake, Poptard, you've jumped the shark.  Deal with it, and try again.  This time, show some fucking effort...Oh, yeah, and do your homework.  We have at least one Black member, and she's female.  

You're really starting to slip.  

[Cain]

I should place money on things like this, I really should.  Admins who read my PMs from yesterday know what I mean.

You wouldn't have won anything from me.  The moment I saw the intro, I knew who it was.

But calling Poptard when Poptard is obvious is frowned upon, so I kept my yap shut.

I always like to be sure.

But playing the "we're all a bunch of racists" angle so soon after the "I'm a racist and you're all fools for trusting the smudgy races" angle was just way too obvious and gives the whole game away.

Well, for the few people who hadn't already guessed.