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Re: Sex.
« Reply #30 on: May 11, 2011, 12:47:03 pm »
Sex is just sex. It should be had as often as possible, with as many people as possible. Allowing your emotions to interfere with your sex life is, IMO, depriving yourself of another awesome way to enjoy life.

Pretty much exactly this.  Just be careful about it. 
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Re: Sex.
« Reply #31 on: May 11, 2011, 01:20:01 pm »
Does it/can it lead to problems? Mentally?
IMO, only if its not consensual, not between mature adults, or if the participants already had mental problems.

I agree in theory but sadly mental problems are everywhere, almost everyone has them.
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Re: Sex.
« Reply #32 on: May 11, 2011, 02:28:20 pm »


People do become addicted to sex, so that could be a possible problem.  

I'm addicted to breathing!  Its dangerous, as there are pollutants in the air which I can inhale causing Air Transmitted Diseases that can really ruin my life, so I have to be careful about where I choose to breathe, but its a natural function that makes me feel good.  Ima keep doing it. 


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Re: Sex.
« Reply #33 on: May 11, 2011, 02:29:37 pm »
Sex is just sex. It should be had as often as possible, with as many people as possible. Allowing your emotions to interfere with your sex life is, IMO, depriving yourself of another awesome way to enjoy life.

The last time we had a thread on this I said pretty much the same thing and I got called a slut!   :|

Personally, I've been celibate for a number of years.  Probably explains why I'm such a fucking bitch.

I think women (in general, men do this too) put too much emphasis on "the meaning" or "the connection" or they add in emotions.  That's all well and fine if you are in a relationship at any phase.  However, sex in itself is something that can certainly be enjoyed without any bullshit attached to it, just because it feels good.  As long as you are careful, you aren't screwing around with someone's significant other or screwing around on your own SO and the other person knows what they are doing, it's all good.

Yeah, waiting on the slut comments to start.....


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Re: Sex.
« Reply #34 on: May 11, 2011, 02:33:19 pm »
Sex is just sex. It should be had as often as possible, with as many people as possible. Allowing your emotions to interfere with your sex life is, IMO, depriving yourself of another awesome way to enjoy life.

The last time we had a thread on this I said pretty much the same thing and I got called a slut!   :|

Personally, I've been celibate for a number of years.  Probably explains why I'm such a fucking bitch.

I think women (in general, men do this too) put too much emphasis on "the meaning" or "the connection" or they add in emotions.  That's all well and fine if you are in a relationship at any phase.  However, sex in itself is something that can certainly be enjoyed without any bullshit attached to it, just because it feels good.  As long as you are careful, you aren't screwing around with someone's significant other or screwing around on your own SO and the other person knows what they are doing, it's all good.

Yeah, waiting on the slut comments to start.....



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Re: Sex.
« Reply #35 on: May 11, 2011, 02:34:47 pm »
You're not a slut. There's a difference.

I have no issues with casual consensual sex between two parties as long as it's safe. Is sex better when there's feelings involved? Absolutely, but they aren't a requirement. I've just found that I've been overly if not completely disappointed before with casual sex. Granted, I haven't had too many partners in my career as a sexually active adult, but out of the 3 total random hookups I've had, I've only been pleased with one.

I could, ya know, also be a picky bitch.
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Re: Sex.
« Reply #36 on: May 11, 2011, 02:38:27 pm »
Sex is just sex. It should be had as often as possible, with as many people as possible. Allowing your emotions to interfere with your sex life is, IMO, depriving yourself of another awesome way to enjoy life.

The last time we had a thread on this I said pretty much the same thing and I got called a slut!   :|

Personally, I've been celibate for a number of years.  Probably explains why I'm such a fucking bitch.

I think women (in general, men do this too) put too much emphasis on "the meaning" or "the connection" or they add in emotions.  That's all well and fine if you are in a relationship at any phase.  However, sex in itself is something that can certainly be enjoyed without any bullshit attached to it, just because it feels good.  As long as you are careful, you aren't screwing around with someone's significant other or screwing around on your own SO and the other person knows what they are doing, it's all good.

Yeah, waiting on the slut comments to start.....



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Re: Sex.
« Reply #37 on: May 11, 2011, 02:44:26 pm »
Celibacy's perfectly valid.

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Re: Sex.
« Reply #38 on: May 11, 2011, 02:45:39 pm »
So sayeth I, some tool in front of a computer, telling you what you already know. aka THE VALIDATOR

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« Reply #39 on: May 11, 2011, 02:53:16 pm »
When I was in high school, I was embarrassed to still be a virgin. True story.
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Re: Sex.
« Reply #40 on: May 11, 2011, 02:57:04 pm »
Between Long Island and Florida, that's not surprising.



Incidentally, since I haven't weighed in yet, here goes:


Sex (and all the physical, mental, and emotional states encompassed therein) is inherently subjective.


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Re: Sex.
« Reply #41 on: May 11, 2011, 02:58:24 pm »
Sex (and all the physical, mental, and emotional states encompassed therein) is inherently subjective.


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Re: Sex.
« Reply #42 on: May 11, 2011, 03:04:50 pm »
Between Long Island and Florida, that's not surprising.

Because I wasn't a Jewish slut and/or popped out a kid before I was 16?

Meh, my sister was slutty enough for all 3 of us. I got the 'NO SEX OR YOU'LL GET PREGNANT AND DIE' talk, my brother got the, 'Wear a rubber' talk, and my sister didn't pay attention to a fucking thing because she was the spoiled rotten baby of the family.
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Re: Sex.
« Reply #43 on: May 11, 2011, 03:08:26 pm »
Hey, I was ashamed I was still a virgin in sixth grade.  Peer pressure sucks.


Took (more than) a few years, but things changed eventually.

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Re: Sex.
« Reply #44 on: May 11, 2011, 03:09:01 pm »
Sex is fun.

Sex is more fun with people I like.

I have found that sleeping with people who genuinely hate me usually goes totally sideways.

Don't sleep with any woman that keeps a jar of human teeth under the sink.

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