Sucks dude. Really hope things work out for you one way or the other. Hopefully its just a bit of a thing and not a HOLY SHIT OF A THING.
Well, I want to try to keep the family together, she doesn't. I got us an appointment with a marital counselor on the idea that's exactly what we were going to try to do. Apparently, she just wanted me to get a counselor for her and her shit. And for sure, she has SOME shit that needs sorting out. Just sucks that I was sold a bunk bill of goods to get the counselor.
The silver lining, if ther is one, is that I have a great relationship with my mother-in-law who loves me like a son and will be supportive. She knows my wife could never handle the kids on her own in her state, and is onboard with me that we need to find a way that I can keep the house with the kids. Of course we will have to share the kids, as long as my wife ends up somewhere safe someday, but in the meantime, they're staying with me here while my wife is spending nights at her Moms.
Haven't talked to the kids yet and I'm really dreading that. My little girl has a strong sensitive streak and I know this is just going to crush her, which is why I want to try and repair, but my wife could give a fuck. It really pisses me off when I think about it.