Quote from: Luna on July 27, 2012, 10:58:06 AMQuote from: PROFOUNDLY RETARDED CHARLIE MANSON on July 27, 2012, 06:01:24 AMQuote from: Sir Bearington on July 26, 2012, 11:10:02 PM
Aaaah so this thread is about your trouble with the ladies eh?
Companionship isn't a necessity, i myself have made a educated decision to hold out and wait for a bit until i find the best candidate and feel more comfortable. The most which i will give you advicewise is not to be a asshole, it may seem that "good guys end up last" but quite often asshole's relationships don't hold out as long as nicer guys or have as much genuine meaning.
Good guys end up married, and tend to stay that way. If the marriage doesn't last, they don't stay single for long.
The cliche that "girls don't want nice guys" is bullshit. DAMAGED girls don't want nice guys. And a self-proclaimed "nice guy" never is.
This.
Also, genunine "nice guys" who get caught up in something that goes bad, HARD, are the guys who step back, decide, "yeah, fuck that shit," and decide to STAY single until they get their shit back together.
Example: my new guy (which is going spectacularly well, for those who give a shit)... When his ex-wife bailed on him, he didn't even think about dating until... well, ME. YEARS later.
Want the trick to finding a compatible partner? Stop looking.
Seriously.
Don't look for whatever it is you've been looking for. Just, stop.
Live your life. Do what you enjoy. Find NEW things you enjoy, and ENJOY THE FUCK OUT OF THEM. Have a good life, and, most of all, be HAPPY that you can do that.
Then, somebody is going to notice, and be attracted, and things will work out.
I am enjoying myself, i couldn't give a shit about getting a partner so far.
If it happens it happens.