Another reason to hate the world. True or False?

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

The technical definition of a geek describes me quite well.

Oh don't even. I know geeks. I grew up with geeks, and most of my IRL close friend circle are geeks. You're no geek; you aren't worthy of the term.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Just ignore me or something. Wouldn't that solve everything for you?

Actually, yeah, that's what's coming up next. Given that you've proven yourself not worth the effort.

[Resigned Obligatorily]

Well Nigel, I respectfully and remorsefully offer you my condolences. Weather that means anything to you or not. Yes, getting dumped is utterly and humiliatingly trivial compared to the darkness you have endured.

I just really never imagined that such a petty over generalization of a group as diverse as humanity itself would lead to so much indignation. I thought raising this seemingly inconsequential question would be an easy and fun way to lay it to rest further.

I see now that I was wrong to attempt this so crudely because of the possibility that I am talking to someone who has faced real life treachery.

This is in no way a bad experiences contest, but I am no stranger to tragedy either.
Right when I was on my way to my dad's funeral, my childhood pet of 14 years started yelping in pain; had to be brought to the vet on the way and was put to sleep during without getting to say goodbyes. I was alone for months immediately afterward, and life has just never felt the same since.

Thanking you doesn't mean I'm not a complete ingrate, but thank you for the time you have spent answering my unintelligible questions. I understand if I'm irredeemable. Everyone writes me off as bull shit, I'm used to it.

Fuck though, I've had like 5 concussion, how many stitches have you had on your head? The most stitched I've had were 24. I got called hairy potter growing up because of the big scar on my forehead. Dyslexia/adhd and keeping up in school is a struggle involving a lot of effort with very poor grades. If anyone says otherwise who claims to have those things, they are miss diagnosed. I've almost failed every English class I have ever taken and have had to pull a lot of all nighters to receive a failing grade. I have to spell check every single sentence. I'm glad for you guys that you are so fucking literate.

I never once claimed to be a good person or qualified to be a forum poster, I just wanted to try it out. All I have done is spent 3 entire days trying to involve myself in a very eccentric non-pointless on-line community which I think deserves as much attention from people much less shitty than me.

So kill me.....

That being said, however this ends, this has not been a waist of my time, because I am taking self-reform serious.

[Junkenstein]

Boo fucking hoo and bullshit. Grow some balls and take responsibility for your behaviour.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

What the fuck is this wall of bullshit?

I've also had 5 concussions, two of which put me in the hospital, and am epileptic, most likely as a result of repeated concussions in childhood. Do you really want to start playing the "who's had it worse" game? Do you actually think that comparing childhood (or adult) tragedies, illnesses, and setbacks will generate some kind of excuse for piss-poor behavior? For trivializing and dehumanizing other groups of people with "petty overgeneralizations"?

Instead of being a shitty person and then beating yourself up or making excuses for being a shitty person, why not just try to be a better person? Maybe a thoughtful person instead of a thoughtlessly petty overgeneralizing person?

[President Television]

There's also the question of why you'd expect us to care enough to bother reading your sob story when you clearly don't care about half the human race enough not to resort to categorism.

[hooplala]

I strongly suspect this guy is about 15 years old.

[The Good Reverend Roger]

this has not been a waist of my time.

[The Good Reverend Roger]

So, yeah.

Dumb fucking post full of whiny excuses as to why he said a shitty thing.

Angry response

Angry response

Angry response

Roger calls him out on his spelling.

[The Good Reverend Roger]

Fuck though, I've had like 5 concussion, how many stitches have you had on your head?

Stop landing on your head.

TGRR,
Full of lots of useful advice yet doesn't care about your problems.

[P3nT4gR4m]

Fuck though, I've had like 5 concussion, how many stitches have you had on your head?

Stop landing on your head.

TGRR,
Full of lots of useful advice yet doesn't care about your problems.

5??? I used to skateboard, ffs, half of my teens teens were spent concussed. My head has bona fide dents in.

[President Television]

Yeah, I spent my adolescence literally being brainwashed by a misogynist and I don't use that as an excuse to hate women.

[Nephew Twiddleton]

Someone made this list, and I saved it because its an interesting concept.

How wrong is this?
I really think this is true for when you meet people.
This doesn't seem to apply when logic gives up and
a relationship takes over, or when girls are trying
to take pity on someone. Thats usually a friend zone thing anyway.



Literally all women care about.

1. How tall you are
2. How big your dick is
3. How much money you make
4. How much hair you have
5. Your social status
6. How fit you are
7. What car you drive (and other various status symbols)
8. What you do at work
9. How popular you are
10. How handsome you are


I'm hoping that some will try to prove or disprove this, inevitable creating some insight about life.
Either that, or you all can just kill me.

Just seeing this now. Seems like trolling. But, I'll play:

Item 1: I'm the low end of average height, just above the high end of short. I've done well enough in the past.
Item 2: TMI territory, but I've measured it and compared it to reported averages, and I'm exactly average. But the thing is there, the chick's gotta be interested in you in the first place before she even takes a look. And if you're so small at that point that she tells you to put your pants back on, you're pretty fucking small. Chicks aren't interested in the size of your dick until they're actually interested in it to begin with.
Item 3: Hahaha. Yeah, I still have done alright for myself regardless
Item 4: See item 3.
Item 5: See items 3 and 4.
Item 6: I'm not overweight, but otherwise see items 3 through 5
Item 7: I don't have a car at all, nor have I ever owned one. My girlfriend does, and she usually drives unless it's night time and she asks me to because she has shitty night vision, where I am largely nocturnal by nature. I live in a city and can take public transportation, which is a good idea for me considering items 3 and 5. This might also contribute to me doing ok in the item number 6 department, since I walk a lot.
Item 8: See item 3, since it's directly related to that
Item 9: I'm a dork, but I'm generally a likeable person. What do you mean by popular, and by extension, how old are you? I'm 32. Popular isn't really a relevant term outside of high school, since once you reach adulthood, you've probably found a social circle where popularity doesn't really factor in.
Item 10: For a short, bald dude with relatively bad myopia and lack of muscle tone, I think I'm an alright looking dude. My eyes are apparently my prettiest feature. They're more noticeable when the glasses are off or I'm wearing contacts, but I'd say I'm about average.

Assessment: If you're not doing ok in the ladies department, it's your personality. Evidence to back this up: You had 10 items where you apparently have shortcomings and don't have any sort of mitigating personality traits, since these things aren't actually all that important if you're not a jackass.

[Pergamos]

"literally all XXXXXX" statements are never correct. Some people will always be too smart/brain damaged to conform to your chosen demographic.

Not to say a whole bunch of these things won't hold true for a large percentage, given that a large percentage of any group are usually idiots. Ask any anthropologist why the list makes sense and it's pretty straightforward monkey brain wiring. However, as we discussed recently, monkey brain wiring is not fixed. assume otherwise at your peril.

That sounds comforting; yet I am not yet convinced that people care about more than that.
Which leads to my discomfort in experiencing any form of agreement with said monkey.

Either you only care abut those things, in which case why does it bother you that other people are the same way?  Or else you care about more than that, in which case not all people are that way.

If the vast mojority of people were that way; why point out the few abnormalities and give the bulk of the population the credit?

You are assuming you are a special snowflake,  you are probably not.  In this case I know you aren't because I know I'm also an exception as are all the women I have been involve with.  It's generally best to assume other human beings are like yourself unless given some reason to believe otherwise.

[trippinprincezz13]

One time I looked out the window just in time to see my car get smashed by an SUV. Ever since then, I have hated windows.

Don't blame me if that doesn't make sense! I hit my head once when I was a kid (like you've every done that before)