PICS VIII: 10% LARGER THAN PICS VII

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Yea, I wonder what they're trying to prove with all that disclosure.  There is a possibility she's just waiting to hear something like - "oh, that's so hot".  Otherwise, I generally ave to learn some still about "expert knot tying", imagination notwithstanding 

Yeah, I don't know. What does she want? Validation? Approval? For me to join her? In general my attitude towards that kind of thing is "Good for you, have fun!". I just don't really care how other people get their monkey on, if they're having a good time then I'm happy for them but hearing the details reminds me most closely to listening to someone go on and on about how cute their cats are and all the funny things they do.

It makes me wonder if she's a bit unsure of what she's doing and wanting validation. I mean, we've all been known to get our freak on and such, but I've never really talked sex with anyone else unless I felt uncomfortable with the situation.

If she wants advice or reassurance, I'd be happy to give it. I'm just not sure, from her behavior, what the hell she wants. And I want her to stop with the TMI because it just comes across as sex-bragging. The kind of sex-bragging that's like what college freshmen do because they're so damn proud of themselves for having sex.

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Yea, I wonder what they're trying to prove with all that disclosure.  There is a possibility she's just waiting to hear something like - "oh, that's so hot".  Otherwise, I generally ave to learn some still about "expert knot tying", imagination notwithstanding 

Yeah, I don't know. What does she want? Validation? Approval? For me to join her? In general my attitude towards that kind of thing is "Good for you, have fun!". I just don't really care how other people get their monkey on, if they're having a good time then I'm happy for them but hearing the details reminds me most closely to listening to someone go on and on about how cute their cats are and all the funny things they do.

Unfortunately, she may not even be oblivious to your being taken-aback.  Perhaps she is intimidated by you and this is how she tries to re-assert being in control.  Because she can't actually get you, she simulates the act by involving your imagination in the recreation of her fantasy.  By proxy, she feels one step closer conquest.  Probably borderline personality. 

I feel dirty just for saying that

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Yea, I wonder what they're trying to prove with all that disclosure.  There is a possibility she's just waiting to hear something like - "oh, that's so hot".  Otherwise, I generally ave to learn some still about "expert knot tying", imagination notwithstanding 

Yeah, I don't know. What does she want? Validation? Approval? For me to join her? In general my attitude towards that kind of thing is "Good for you, have fun!". I just don't really care how other people get their monkey on, if they're having a good time then I'm happy for them but hearing the details reminds me most closely to listening to someone go on and on about how cute their cats are and all the funny things they do.

Unfortunately, she may not even be oblivious to your being taken-aback.  Perhaps she is intimidated by you and this is how she tries to re-assert being in control.  Because she can't actually get you, she simulates the act by involving your imagination in the recreation of her fantasy.  By proxy, she feels one step closer conquest.  Probably borderline personality. 

I feel dirty just for saying that

Is joke?

I don't think she's borderline. Unfortunately, I have fairly extensive personal experience with borderlines and she doesn't fit the bill.

I don't know if she really has any real pathology, just a lot of generalized neuroticism and maybe some really ineffective mechanisms for processing her personal shit.

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Yea, I wonder what they're trying to prove with all that disclosure.  There is a possibility she's just waiting to hear something like - "oh, that's so hot".  Otherwise, I generally ave to learn some still about "expert knot tying", imagination notwithstanding 

Yeah, I don't know. What does she want? Validation? Approval? For me to join her? In general my attitude towards that kind of thing is "Good for you, have fun!". I just don't really care how other people get their monkey on, if they're having a good time then I'm happy for them but hearing the details reminds me most closely to listening to someone go on and on about how cute their cats are and all the funny things they do.

Unfortunately, she may not even be oblivious to your being taken-aback.  Perhaps she is intimidated by you and this is how she tries to re-assert being in control.  Because she can't actually get you, she simulates the act by involving your imagination in the recreation of her fantasy.  By proxy, she feels one step closer conquest.  Probably borderline personality. 

I feel dirty just for saying that

Is joke?

I don't think she's borderline. Unfortunately, I have fairly extensive personal experience with borderlines and she doesn't fit the bill.

I don't know if she really has any real pathology, just a lot of generalized neuroticism and maybe some really ineffective mechanisms for processing her personal shit.

Okay, yes, joke per strict definition, still, the question remains about her inability to register that this is making you feel uncomfortable.  Is she "plain or just playin'"(TM).  Over time, she should have the necessary mirror neurons to process your reaction.  Even if you were really tactful and elegant in your dissimulation,  the "correct" way to recognize and reciprocate such tact would be to comply.  Is she plain or playin'? 

If I may hazard, N.P.D., would be next runner-up (all based on extrapolations of my own conditions).  Not definitive determinations, just lenses to look through [I am not licensed psych-anything]

[Suu]

Poutine with Montreal traditional smoked meat.

This was dinner. Mother. Of. God.

[The Good Reverend Roger]

[EK WAFFLR]

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Yea, I wonder what they're trying to prove with all that disclosure.  There is a possibility she's just waiting to hear something like - "oh, that's so hot".  Otherwise, I generally ave to learn some still about "expert knot tying", imagination notwithstanding 

Yeah, I don't know. What does she want? Validation? Approval? For me to join her? In general my attitude towards that kind of thing is "Good for you, have fun!". I just don't really care how other people get their monkey on, if they're having a good time then I'm happy for them but hearing the details reminds me most closely to listening to someone go on and on about how cute their cats are and all the funny things they do.

Unfortunately, she may not even be oblivious to your being taken-aback.  Perhaps she is intimidated by you and this is how she tries to re-assert being in control.  Because she can't actually get you, she simulates the act by involving your imagination in the recreation of her fantasy.  By proxy, she feels one step closer conquest.  Probably borderline personality. 

I feel dirty just for saying that

Is joke?

I don't think she's borderline. Unfortunately, I have fairly extensive personal experience with borderlines and she doesn't fit the bill.

I don't know if she really has any real pathology, just a lot of generalized neuroticism and maybe some really ineffective mechanisms for processing her personal shit.

Okay, yes, joke per strict definition, still, the question remains about her inability to register that this is making you feel uncomfortable.  Is she "plain or just playin'"(TM).  Over time, she should have the necessary mirror neurons to process your reaction.  Even if you were really tactful and elegant in your dissimulation,  the "correct" way to recognize and reciprocate such tact would be to comply.  Is she plain or playin'? 

If I may hazard, N.P.D., would be next runner-up (all based on extrapolations of my own conditions).  Not definitive determinations, just lenses to look through [I am not licensed psych-anything]

I just told you that I don't think she has any real pathologies. I have known her for seven years and this annoying thing she's doing right now is a recent development.

Why are you so intent on internet-diagnosing my friend?

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

[P3nT4gR4m]

Yea, I wonder what they're trying to prove with all that disclosure.  There is a possibility she's just waiting to hear something like - "oh, that's so hot".  Otherwise, I generally ave to learn some still about "expert knot tying", imagination notwithstanding 

Yeah, I don't know. What does she want? Validation? Approval? For me to join her? In general my attitude towards that kind of thing is "Good for you, have fun!". I just don't really care how other people get their monkey on, if they're having a good time then I'm happy for them but hearing the details reminds me most closely to listening to someone go on and on about how cute their cats are and all the funny things they do.

Unfortunately, she may not even be oblivious to your being taken-aback.  Perhaps she is intimidated by you and this is how she tries to re-assert being in control.  Because she can't actually get you, she simulates the act by involving your imagination in the recreation of her fantasy.  By proxy, she feels one step closer conquest.  Probably borderline personality. 

I feel dirty just for saying that

Is joke?

I don't think she's borderline. Unfortunately, I have fairly extensive personal experience with borderlines and she doesn't fit the bill.

I don't know if she really has any real pathology, just a lot of generalized neuroticism and maybe some really ineffective mechanisms for processing her personal shit.

Okay, yes, joke per strict definition, still, the question remains about her inability to register that this is making you feel uncomfortable.  Is she "plain or just playin'"(TM).  Over time, she should have the necessary mirror neurons to process your reaction.  Even if you were really tactful and elegant in your dissimulation,  the "correct" way to recognize and reciprocate such tact would be to comply.  Is she plain or playin'? 

If I may hazard, N.P.D., would be next runner-up (all based on extrapolations of my own conditions).  Not definitive determinations, just lenses to look through [I am not licensed psych-anything]

I just told you that I don't think she has any real pathologies. I have known her for seven years and this annoying thing she's doing right now is a recent development.

Why are you so intent on internet-diagnosing my friend?

Human nature - he can't help it. Personally I reckon she's a serial killer - all the classic signs

[LMNO]

FYI -- Yoinking the two above images.

[Bu🤠ns]

I wonder what happens when you pull Hamish by the horns.

[P3nT4gR4m]

I wonder what happens when you pull Hamish by the horns.

Awesome. I've met Hamish in person. Lives just a couple of miles away 

[minuspace]

Yea, I wonder what they're trying to prove with all that disclosure.  There is a possibility she's just waiting to hear something like - "oh, that's so hot".  Otherwise, I generally ave to learn some still about "expert knot tying", imagination notwithstanding 

Yeah, I don't know. What does she want? Validation? Approval? For me to join her? In general my attitude towards that kind of thing is "Good for you, have fun!". I just don't really care how other people get their monkey on, if they're having a good time then I'm happy for them but hearing the details reminds me most closely to listening to someone go on and on about how cute their cats are and all the funny things they do.

Unfortunately, she may not even be oblivious to your being taken-aback.  Perhaps she is intimidated by you and this is how she tries to re-assert being in control.  Because she can't actually get you, she simulates the act by involving your imagination in the recreation of her fantasy.  By proxy, she feels one step closer conquest.  Probably borderline personality. 

I feel dirty just for saying that

Is joke?

I don't think she's borderline. Unfortunately, I have fairly extensive personal experience with borderlines and she doesn't fit the bill.

I don't know if she really has any real pathology, just a lot of generalized neuroticism and maybe some really ineffective mechanisms for processing her personal shit.

Okay, yes, joke per strict definition, still, the question remains about her inability to register that this is making you feel uncomfortable.  Is she "plain or just playin'"(TM).  Over time, she should have the necessary mirror neurons to process your reaction.  Even if you were really tactful and elegant in your dissimulation,  the "correct" way to recognize and reciprocate such tact would be to comply.  Is she plain or playin'? 

If I may hazard, N.P.D., would be next runner-up (all based on extrapolations of my own conditions).  Not definitive determinations, just lenses to look through [I am not licensed psych-anything]

I just told you that I don't think she has any real pathologies. I have known her for seven years and this annoying thing she's doing right now is a recent development.

Why are you so intent on internet-diagnosing my friend?

Compartmentalizing helps me sleep at night

[Ed.  Horns growing, for levity, whom might be in Montana on the 9th ]

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RIP 

Watching H.R. Giger - Art in Motion
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sPZaNlYX2vk