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« on: May 11, 2013, 07:44:35 am »
On those notes, Id like to say that a lot of people are ridiculously superficial, messaging purely out of "oh i like your picture, what's your name baby".
I tend to just message girls that seem to have similarities, like idk, for one, not being religious, or say, that they show a true interest for books, music and art (OTHER than mass media, that really doesn't count for me).
Also, I keep in mind that the ideal place to meet people is in RL, where you actually can have conversations without people carefully strategizing their words and portrayal of themselves. Like really, if I didnt live in the middle of nowhere with a tight budget, I wouldnt even bother. And Im picky on RL, so i also am picky online.
But a lot of people seem to just be mass mailing people they consider attractive with no consideration of mutual interests out of pure desperation or something.