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Apple Talk / 'Butthurt' and being offended
« on: November 03, 2013, 01:18:32 pm »
'Butthurt' is kind of a central concept to PD, isn't it? So what I'd like to know is:

Is there a difference? If yes, what is it?

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Apple Talk / Holist's inauthentic artist watch thread
« on: October 15, 2013, 07:24:47 am »
Well this, I think, is depressingly scary:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ciRNw_oLas

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Apple Talk / Professor Peter Cruse
« on: October 08, 2013, 10:00:18 am »
This is the guy: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peter_Kruse (not a very good Wikipedia page, but still).

This is what first caught my eye (it was put up on the tube by the Hungarian Pirate Party): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Neh34iKn3vI

As it is in German with Hungarian subtitles, I've translated it into English. I caught one serious mistranslation in the Hungarian (I don't speak German), I'd be grateful if any German speakers pointed out any others, if there are any:

"So let's say that first of all the continuous hindering of the organisation of human networks must be given up.

The problem of the hierarchy is that it wants to constrain people and make them predictable. Networks, on the other hand, are, by their very nature, structurally unpredictable. So halting the hindering of the organisation of networks means nothing less than giving up a certain amount of power. That's the problem of hierarchy. 

In actual fact, we have been living in a tradition of preventing the organisation of networks for centuries. That's our problem. Supporting the organisation of networks simply requires stopping preventing it. It requires nothing more, because people naturally organise themselves in networks. Except that it's not all that simple, because it requires the relinquishing of power, and who on earth gives up power willingly? Who is happy to face a situation that they are unable to keep in hand? After all, "we are managers", right? "We keep things under control!"

Yet no man alive can control networks. And that is a good thing. Networks are solution-oriented systems, which have their own, individual dynamics. That's the reason we are forced to organise networks, because the dynamic and the complexity of the external world requires us to do so. We can simply follow Ashby's law: he already stated in the 50's that any highly complex and dynamic system of problems will need a solution that is at least as complex and dynamic,  otherwise it will not work.

So if, in an extremely complex world that is organising itself into networks, we are unable to preserve the freedom to organise networks, we will also, unfortunately, lose the solution. I realise that this sounds very simple, but it is an open intervention in the horizon of power, which makes it very difficult."


(The Ashby he refers to is this guy: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/W._Ross_Ashby - I see he was mentioned once before on PD, http://www.principiadiscordia.com/forum/index.php/topic,17548.0.html, but that was 5 years ago.)

Then I found a seven-part interview with this guy Kruse in English.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lv6qLzKW7zs
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQBj-3JBwQ0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIbt6ruxBSg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qnAjynMp5Lc
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r-aoElig--c
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iaZyRozzNMA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=If7l7q7nFSA

Quite apart from the amusing Dr Feelgood Strangelove (my brain ain't what it used to be) accent, I think his spiel is interesting. And inspires hope.

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Apple Talk / Should kids have smartphones?
« on: October 02, 2013, 09:45:40 pm »
Here's Louis CK with a very funny and at least halfway cogent argument saying they shouldn't.

http://teamcoco.com/video/louis-ck-springsteen-cell-phone

That puts me in a difficult position: as the most important principle of parenting in my life is that people should never coerce others, not even kids, just because they feel they know what's best for them better than they themselves do (they may or may not be right, but it's still not justified grounds for coercion), the (many) kids around this household quite freely help themselves to computing equipment. The 10, the 11, the 13, the 16 and of course the 18-year-old all have their own (shoddy but workable) computers (though the 11-year-old girl's one has been broken for a while and she doesn't seem fussed) - and yet they make eye-contact and are interested in a number of things other than computers (admittedly, at times the number is somewhat smaller thant I'd be really happy with).

I am also failing to find a piece by Charlie Stross about a new kind of person: one who never has to be lost or alone against their will. But he did make that point: what happens when most people are like that? Charlie thinks, and I think I'm with him, that it's not the end of the world, may even be the beginning of tomorrow. What do you think?



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Discordian Recipes / Savoury corn pancakes
« on: January 22, 2013, 10:27:44 am »

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Apple Talk / GAPS
« on: January 05, 2013, 10:32:26 am »
I'm not sure which subforum to put this one in, so I put it here. But feel free to move it if it would sit better somewhere else.

Has anyone had any (preferably extended) experience with the GAPS diet/theory? What are your views?

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Apple Talk / Demanding parents
« on: December 03, 2012, 06:12:29 pm »
Those who lack self-esteem and the capacity to regulate themselves well may become very self-centred adults. Without effective and well-resourced emotional systems, they cannot behave flexibly or respond to others' needs. They tend to be rather rigid, either attempting not to need others at all, or needing them too much. Because they have not had enough experience of being well cared for and well regulated, their original baby needs remain active within. In adulthood, this can in some cases be experienced as a kind of compulsion to get others to meet those needs. People who constantly fall in and out of love, who are addicted to foods or drugs of various kinds, who are workaholics, wo are endlessly demanding medical or social services, are seeking something or someone who will regulate their feelings at all times. In effect, they are searching for the good babyhood that they have not yet had. From promiscuous celebrities to welfare shirkers, such people often provoke exasperation in others who wish they would 'grow up'.

The paradox is that people need to have a satisfying experience of dependency before they can become truly independent and largely self-regulating. Yet this feels counter-intuitive to many adults, who respond to the insecure with a punitive attitude, as if becoming more mature and self-regulating were a matter of will-power. It can be hard to tolerate dependent and self-centred behaviour in adults who should be able to recognise the inappropriateness of their behaviour.

But it is not simply a matter of will-power. Even if will-power is invoked to bring about better behaviour, often this comes in the form of a 'false self' who tries to live up to others' requirements to act maturely. Unfortunately you cannot will genuine empathy for others, or a caring attitude to your own feelings, into existence. Imitating these postures is not the same as drawing on an inner experience of them. These are capacities that are internalised through experiencing them first-hand, from having had relationships with people who respond to your needs, help to regulate your feelings, and don't make premature demands on you to manage more than you can manage.

Good timing is a critical aspect of parenting, as well as in comedy. The ability to judge when a baby or child has the capacity to manage a little more self-control, thoughtfulness or independence is not something that books on child development can provide: the timing of moves in living relationships is an art, not a science. Parents' sensitivity to the child's unfolding capacities can often be hampered by an intolerance of dependency. This is partly cultural and partly the result of one's own early experience. Dependency can evoke powerful reactions. It is often regarded with disgust and repulsion, not as a delightful but fleeting part of experience. It may even be that dependence has a magnetic pull and adults themselves fear getting seduced by it: or that it is simply intolerable to give to someone else what you are furious you didn't get yourself. Often, parents are in such a hurry to make their child independent that they expose their babies to long perios of waiting for food or comfort, or long absences from the mother, in order to achieve this aim. Grandparents only too often reinforce the message that you mustn't 'spoil' the baby by giving in to him.

Unfortunately, leaving a baby to cry or to cope by himself for more than a very short period usually has the reverse effect: it undermines the baby's confidence in the parent and in the world, leaving him more dependent, not less. In the absence of the regulatory partner, a baby can do very little to regulate himself of herself other than to cry louder or to withdraw mentally. But the pain of being dependent like this and being powerless to help yourself leads to primitive psychological defences based on these two options.

Most adult pathways are more elaborate versions of these primitive responses. The dual nature of the defensive system seems to be built into our genetic programme: it's either fight or flight. Cry loudly or withdraw. Exaggerate feelings or minimise feelings. Be hyper-aroused or suppress arousal. These two basic strategies also underpin the insecure styles of attachment - the avoidant and the resistant. Whichever way the individual turns to find a solution (and these strategies may be used consistently or inconsistently), he or she will not have mastered the basic process of self-regulation and will remain prone to being overdemanding or underdemanding of others. (Sue Gerhardt)

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Bring and Brag / Mah furst evur webkomik
« on: November 28, 2012, 10:33:23 pm »

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Apple Talk / Does my finger need a stitch or three?
« on: November 21, 2012, 01:18:15 pm »
This morning, as I was trying to chop up a strip of pork ribs for soup, I put the meat cleaver into my finger a bit.



In your expert opinion, does this wound need stitches, or would it be okay just bandaged up?

(Sorry to be making this all about myself, by the way  :lulz:)

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Apple Talk / content
« on: November 08, 2012, 05:56:38 am »
http://blog.holist.hu/?p=764

there ya go

the pictures are all there in big on clickthrough

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Apple Talk / ITT, Holist demonstrates why his "English" is superior.
« on: October 28, 2012, 10:55:40 am »
Great letter, great tone. I suggest two minor corrections for the sake of clarity. I also spotted two typos:

Also, while I understand your religious views on Ggay marriage, I ask you to understand that our system of government and our rights as citizens do not spring from your church.  In fact, the very reason you remain untaxed as an example of how is that you are supposed to be apolitical, just as while, in contrast, the government is not a religious function.  Given that you do not feel constrained to prerserve this separation, I feel I have no choice but to ask my congressional representative to have your tax exempt status removed, with back taxes accruing from 1955 to the present.

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Bring and Brag / holist's tunes
« on: October 24, 2012, 09:21:58 am »
From the first time I had a chance to play with a computer music production system:

http://blog.holist.hu/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/First-Eva.mp3

A bit later, still a computer and me:

http://blog.holist.hu/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Piano-Crickets.mp3

UK band, poor quality (4-track tape-deck), folk song, arrangement mostly mine, whiny top harmony line and bass also mine:

http://blog.holist.hu/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/fridge-buying-song.ogg

Hungarian band, result of an afternoon's stoned improv, single mike onto a reel-to-reel, I'm on bass:

http://blog.holist.hu/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/oszinte_06.mp3

Advertising jingle for a bunch of vitamins. First I sold, recently. I play and sing everything except the fingerpicked guitar:

http://blog.holist.hu/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/vita4.mp3






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Bring and Brag / holist's pictures
« on: October 22, 2012, 02:19:27 am »

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Apple Talk / Minor Miracle
« on: October 16, 2012, 10:19:08 am »
http://blog.holist.hu/?p=739

keeping the pollution to a minimum

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