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Started by Mesozoic Mister Nigel, May 07, 2011, 07:28:12 AM

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Don Coyote

#120
May 09, 2011, 07:16:47 AM
Quote from: Nigel on May 09, 2011, 03:26:37 AM
I completely disagree that after the first couple of partners, sex loses its magic. It's not like tape, that loses its stick after being used a few times. It's magical with the right person, if you are in the right emotional space.

Saying that sex loses its 'magic' after the first few partners would be like saying that hugging would.

Coyote, fully enjoys the full gamut of physicality between people.

Mesozoic Mister Nigel

#121
May 09, 2011, 08:37:34 AM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 09, 2011, 07:16:47 AM
Quote from: Nigel on May 09, 2011, 03:26:37 AM
I completely disagree that after the first couple of partners, sex loses its magic. It's not like tape, that loses its stick after being used a few times. It's magical with the right person, if you are in the right emotional space.

Saying that sex loses its 'magic' after the first few partners would be like saying that hugging would.

Coyote, fully enjoys the full gamut of physicality between people.

Yeah, I think that if it doesn't feel like it has magic, then don't have it and work on your personal stuff until you're in a situation where it does.
"I'm guessing it was January 2007, a meeting in Bethesda, we got a bag of bees and just started smashing them on the desk," Charles Wick said. "It was very complicated."

Suu

#122
May 09, 2011, 12:08:37 PM
I think that feelings add a HUGE difference, sure.

I guess what I'm trying to say that your perception of sex changes after time? From "This is something I should do with someone I love only" to "I can do this with anyone and it's okay". Not that everyone HAS that exact same revelation, but hopefully you get my drift.
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Suu

#123
May 09, 2011, 12:09:38 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 09, 2011, 03:26:37 AM
I completely disagree that after the first couple of partners, sex loses its magic. It's not like tape, that loses its stick after being used a few times. It's magical with the right person, if you are in the right emotional space.

Okay, this I'll agree on. :)
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Mesozoic Mister Nigel

#124
May 09, 2011, 03:50:28 PM
Quote from: Suu the Infallible on May 09, 2011, 12:08:37 PM
I think that feelings add a HUGE difference, sure.

I guess what I'm trying to say that your perception of sex changes after time? From "This is something I should do with someone I love only" to "I can do this with anyone and it's okay". Not that everyone HAS that exact same revelation, but hopefully you get my drift.
The thing is, depending on your time and place, "sex with anyone" is OK. It can be fulfilling and affirming in terms of making you feel attractive/desired, but the thing is, yes... it's OK. Just OK. It's not like sex with someone who fills you with butterflies and faerie elf mahadgiques and giddiness. But if you find someone you really like and have fantastic sex with them, or even start having fantastic sex with someone you wouldn't normally like all that much, your brain starts leaking love juice.

So, you have to be careful with that shit.

"I'm guessing it was January 2007, a meeting in Bethesda, we got a bag of bees and just started smashing them on the desk," Charles Wick said. "It was very complicated."

Suu

#125
May 09, 2011, 03:55:10 PM
I lawl'd.

Love juice gets you in trouble. EVERY. TIME.

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Mesozoic Mister Nigel

#126
May 09, 2011, 04:01:10 PM
True story.
"I'm guessing it was January 2007, a meeting in Bethesda, we got a bag of bees and just started smashing them on the desk," Charles Wick said. "It was very complicated."

Suu

#127
May 09, 2011, 04:01:33 PM
Yep.



-Suu
In trouble.
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Our Lady of Perpetual Confusion; 1st Church of Discordia

"Add a dab of lavender to milk, leave town with an orange, and pretend you're laughing at it."

Mesozoic Mister Nigel

#128
May 09, 2011, 04:02:37 PM
"I'm guessing it was January 2007, a meeting in Bethesda, we got a bag of bees and just started smashing them on the desk," Charles Wick said. "It was very complicated."

Suu

#129
May 09, 2011, 04:05:54 PM
STOP SMILING. GAH.



-Suu
No, really. Counting down the days til Friday. Help. This wasn't supposed to happen...
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Mesozoic Mister Nigel

#130
May 09, 2011, 04:11:05 PM
Quote from: Suu the Infallible on May 09, 2011, 04:05:54 PM
STOP SMILING. GAH.



-Suu
No, really. Counting down the days til Friday. Help. This wasn't supposed to happen...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RumflDMoCxw
"I'm guessing it was January 2007, a meeting in Bethesda, we got a bag of bees and just started smashing them on the desk," Charles Wick said. "It was very complicated."

Suu

#131
May 09, 2011, 04:12:18 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 09, 2011, 04:11:05 PM
Quote from: Suu the Infallible on May 09, 2011, 04:05:54 PM
STOP SMILING. GAH.



-Suu
No, really. Counting down the days til Friday. Help. This wasn't supposed to happen...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RumflDMoCxw

:D :D :D :D :D :D
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Our Lady of Perpetual Confusion; 1st Church of Discordia

"Add a dab of lavender to milk, leave town with an orange, and pretend you're laughing at it."

BabylonHoruv

#132
May 10, 2011, 04:21:18 AM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 09, 2011, 07:16:47 AM
Quote from: Nigel on May 09, 2011, 03:26:37 AM
I completely disagree that after the first couple of partners, sex loses its magic. It's not like tape, that loses its stick after being used a few times. It's magical with the right person, if you are in the right emotional space.

Saying that sex loses its 'magic' after the first few partners would be like saying that hugging would.

Coyote, fully enjoys the full gamut of physicality between people.

I've never thought of hugging as magic, although it can be pretty great when you haven't seen someone in a long time.

Sex is great the first few times even if it's not, just because it is new, then you develop some standards. For some people that means it loses it's magic because they don't do what it takes to make sure it lives up to those standards, for others that opens up a whole new level of intensity.
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Triple Zero

#133
May 10, 2011, 01:08:44 PM
"Hugging magick" as a variety on sex magick ... :lulz:
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Luna

#134
May 10, 2011, 01:11:26 PM
Quote from: Triple Zero on May 10, 2011, 01:08:44 PM
"Hugging magick" as a variety on sex magick ... :lulz:

I dunno about magick... but it often makes me feel a hell of a lot better than I did a minute before, and, some days, that's all the magic I really need.
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If Luna was a furry, she'd sex humans and scream "BEASTIALITY!" at the top of her lungs at inopportune times.

Quote from: Nigel on March 24, 2011, 01:54:48 AM
I like the Luna one. She is a good one.

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