Love #2: A Reasonable Suggestion

[Freeky]

I think that for relationships that can't be permanent for whatever reason, TO THE WALL is the perfect way to go about it.  Down the road a few years, you can look back with fondness, and not feel all regretty because it was a half-hearted thing that petered out. 

Throwing one's self fully into something they can have, though, is what I think you were trying to get across, yes?  That is some fantastic advice. 

[P3nT4gR4m]

Love...

It's "just" another brain chemical imbalance.

THIS! Doesn't make it any less real, tho. But it aint anything magical. There isn't "just one perfect soul mate" for you out there, there's millions upon billions of perfectly compatible partners, all you have to do is stop looking to the stars for inspiration and go out there and find one. Another compatible monkey - that's all you need to experience "teh greatest mystery" well, that and the will to follow through.

[hirley0]

5:38 LibYa blood bath bonny i'LLead  oh yeah
Yesterday 6:11PM
the 8.3mm humming bird began at the South end of the ..
BIRD of PARIDIZE plants (Left) and Left to the North (Right}
after preforming for 6 minutes at the nector source
AFTER five min i got out the Shooter & the Sony
shot a candy North of the north end
which Bird did fly twards ? but seamed not interested & Left (Right}

I don't know if TO THE WALL is really what you're going for, in love. Because... well, you know what that means, right?

TO THE WALL is where you take it when you're determined to see what kind of mess can be made, consequences be damned.

I think I understand what you meant, but...

OH
Wait this was 'poised to be a Quote:
never mind i'LL post this theN the Quote & delete it
OK i see more clearly now that i could just back Up 1 step
and SO a post was not reQUired just copy & paste | Go Sq
now where was i?
07:16:34 AM - 04:13:44 AM = 3h-3m-10K Ms |7:27 - 07:21:44 = 6M
Doing F_n Time again

[Adios]

5:38 LibYa blood bath bonny i'LLead  oh yeah
Yesterday 6:11PM
the 8.3mm humming bird began at the South end of the ..
BIRD of PARIDIZE plants (Left) and Left to the North (Right}
after preforming for 6 minutes at the nector source
AFTER five min i got out the Shooter & the Sony
shot a candy North of the north end
which Bird did fly twards ? but seamed not interested & Left (Right}

I don't know if TO THE WALL is really what you're going for, in love. Because... well, you know what that means, right?

TO THE WALL is where you take it when you're determined to see what kind of mess can be made, consequences be damned.

I think I understand what you meant, but...

OH
Wait this was 'poised to be a Quote:
never mind i'LL post this theN the Quote & delete it
OK i see more clearly now that i could just back Up 1 step
and SO a post was not reQUired just copy & paste | Go Sq
now where was i?
07:16:34 AM - 04:13:44 AM = 3h-3m-10K Ms |7:27 - 07:21:44 = 6M
Doing F_n Time again

98% of the time I have no idea what you are saying, but the colors are sure pretty.

[hirley0]

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5:38 LibYa blood bath bonny i'LLead  oh yeah
Yesterday 6:11PM
the 8.3mm humming bird began at the South end of the ..
BIRD of PARIDIZE plants (Left) and Left to the North (Right}
after preforming for 6 minutes at the nector source
AFTER five min i got out the Shooter & the Sony
shot a candy North of the north end
which Bird did fly twards ? but seamed not interested & Left (Right}

I don't know if TO THE WALL is really what you're going for, in love. Because... well, you know what that means, right?

TO THE WALL is where you take it when you're determined to see what kind of mess can be made, consequences be damned.

I think I understand what you meant, but...

OH
Wait this was 'poised to be a Quote:
never mind i'LL post this theN the Quote & delete it
OK i see more clearly now that i could just back Up 1 step
and SO a post was not reQUired just copy & paste | Go Sq
now where was i?
07:16:34 AM - 04:13:44 AM = 3h-3m-10K Ms |7:27 - 07:21:44 = 6M
Doing F_n Time again

98% of the time I have no idea what you are saying, but the colors are sure pretty.

5:45 Bored time, Yeah she Iz

[hirley0]

7:27 am PDt 6 BOARD

[East Coast Hustle]

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Eh, I'm not sure this is really what I wanted to say, at all. Gonna leave it up because deleting posts is for babies.
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I want to write about troubadours and the kind of love those fuckers sang about and how I think that's partially responsible for the clusterfuck we stupid fucking primates have gotten into concerning this horrible, perpetual onslaught of glandular confusion we often find ourselves in.

But that will have to wait until I have some more facts at my disposal since you people are so fond of them, and conversely so harsh with people talking out of their ass which I'm afraid I might do if I rant about troubadours.

SO, instead, I will try and pin down something I can clearly see right in front of me, something I see on a daily basis.

Yes, there are hundreds of thousands of stories and songs and poems and tv shows and movies and well rants and FB posts (kay maybe we're in the millions now) and LJ posts and yadda yadda...all attempts at confused little monkeys to wrap their brains around this one, pesky little thing.

And a rational person will, perhaps not gladly, tell you that these are chemicals floating around and you are wasting your time trying to figure it all out. And maybe they have a point. HOWEVER: what they seem to ignore is that those chemicals are MAKING YOU DO THINGS. They're making you move across the country, or a nation, or the world. They're making you reconsider how you make a living. Those annoying little chemicals are the cause for REAL and OBSERVABLE actions in your life. I think this gives them a little more importance than raw science allows.

I am certainly not going to tell you that.
I am going to lay it down for you.
The Truth about Love, right here folks.

It's really simple.
In fact it's so simple, so completely obvious that I can hardly believe that rational people who are so adept at clearing away the cobwebs that tend to grow in the mind can miss it. Quite shocking really.

When it comes to love...
you take it
to
THE MOTHERFUCKING WALL.

Why in the FUCK would you do anything else? I mean really. In this most deeply personal aspect of your life, nothing to do with religion (I know what you're thinking) or politics (you're wrong about that too) or juggalos or REEFER MADNESS or any of the other things where you would obviously take it TO THE WALL, why would you not do the same for love?

I cannot begin to understand it.

You do it god damn it. You go all the way, you hold nothing back beyond the compromises that make every human interaction worth having possible. And if they can't do the same FUCK 'EM.

Will this lead you to a pain free life full of hopping happy bunny rabbits frolicking in the sunshine and The Perfect Relationship that will last until the end of time?

FUCK NO. Ew.

That's not the point. The point is: If you find yourself relentlessly confused by the barrage of hormones and cursed glands trying to fuck with your happy little universe YUO ARE DOIN' IT WRONG.

Cut through that shit like you do everything else in your life. Ask yourself: Have I taken it TO THE WALL? Have THEY? If either answer is "no" you know what the fuck to do.

Everything else is a fucking excuse.

OR KILL ME.

I think you are spot-the-fuck-on here.

I also think that scares alot of people.

I have a word for those people. It rhymes with "pussies".

Actually, it IS "pussies".

[Salty]

Yeah, after mulling it over for a few days I agree with myself 169%.

We may all experience and express love differently. But I don't think I'm trying to impose or project my idea of love on anyone.

Whatever it means to you, do it to it. And look for other people doing the same. Pull it out from all the way down to bottom of who you are or GO THE FUCK HOME.

Or just keep doing what you're doing. But don't expect me to get all weepy or sympathetic over you bashing your head into the same wall over and over again expecting different results.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

I think my view on love is kind of messed-up right now, honestly. Because I was willing to take it TO THE WALL, but then I didn't, because I'm intense and dangerous and I have destroyed things before. I was careful. Maybe I should have been less careful.

[Salty]

Sometimes delicacy is required to convey what lies at the bottom.

But what's down there will surface no matter what.

IMO, if they can't handle all of you, Nigel, they ain't worth the delicacy.

[Luna]

I think my view on love is kind of messed-up right now, honestly. Because I was willing to take it TO THE WALL, but then I didn't, because I'm intense and dangerous and I have destroyed things before. I was careful. Maybe I should have been less careful.

From what I've gathered, and I may be off-base, the problem isn't so much you being unwilling to take it to the wall, but maybe a tendancy to not be able to see how far someone else is willing to take it.  If you're willing to take it to the wall, you deserve someone who will do the same.

[East Coast Hustle]

I think my view on love is kind of messed-up right now, honestly. Because I was willing to take it TO THE WALL, but then I didn't, because I'm intense and dangerous and I have destroyed things before. I was careful. Maybe I should have been less careful.

No, you're more like the kool-aid man of love. You take it THROUGH the wall.