I understand both views...
I personally think, that you should live life to your fullest. I'm not sure if the people back then did, because nowadays also many people don't.
Everbody be living inside their own bubble and thinkung life is about them. On the one hand that's right, on the other hand, it's more that that. There's life out there, you have no clue about.
We'Re just tiny little beings in this enormous universe. Sometimes you feel like crap because you think, I'm not worthy...
Truth is, you should stop giving a f..k about what others think, because you do only live once, and nobody will remmeber you... at least not in the way you think they would. So do that crazy thing, call your crush, go to that party, kiss that person, just do it!
Live your life, before it's too late.
You only regret the things you haven't done...