I really hate rude people. There are so many realms of rude people that it's hard to know where to start. I'm a "Peacel, Love and Mungbeans" kinda person and have worked in various jobs. The thing that annoys me the most is when a person gives money to the cashier and puts it on the counter. The cashier gives the change to the costomer in their hand (seeing that they have their hand outstretched for the change) but the costomer doesn't see fit to use some common manners to give the cashier the money in their hand. Double standards or what?
get fucked, hippie.
no, seriously though....welcome to PD.com.
if you don't like rude people, well, you've come to the right place!
ECH,
is nothing but rainbows and unicorn farts on the inside
you don't happen to be a cashier do you? l
lizzay,
was a cashier, and didn't give a fuck if people handed her money or put it on the counter
I want to eat your hatred.
I couldn't agree more with this. Rude people are cunts and I don't mind telling the bastards to their face.
Even if they just look rude I'll give them torrents of abuse. I just feel so strongly about this issue.
Paging Baudelaire....could Baudelaire please make his way to the thread...?
Quote from: sungoldysue on November 01, 2008, 01:33:13 AM
I really hate rude people. There are so many realms of rude people that it's hard to know where to start. I'm a "Peacel, Love and Mungbeans" kinda person and have worked in various jobs. The thing that annoys me the most is when a person gives money to the cashier and puts it on the counter. The cashier gives the change to the costomer in their hand (seeing that they have their hand outstretched for the change) but the costomer doesn't see fit to use some common manners to give the cashier the money in their hand. Double standards or what?
Do you think the person is slighting the cashier intentionally?
I don't give a fuck about rude people. If they want to be rude, all the power to them.
Hell, manners and politeness are only yet another veil to try and hide the fact that we are all greedy, selfish, monkeyish tribalists.
Rude people are just more honest about it.
FUK U PAYNE!
DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW INSULTING IT IS NOT TO BE HANDED THE MONEY FOR A PURCHASE? :argh!: :argh!: :argh!: :argh!: :argh!:
EAT DIIIIIIIIIIIIIICK
ALL OF YOU SPAGS
:ronpaul:
I hate rude people, so I fuck them in their brand-new orifice until their intestines fall out.
Quote from: Pope Dysnomia on November 01, 2008, 05:19:29 PM
FUK U PAYNE!
DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW INSULTING IT IS NOT TO BE HANDED THE MONEY FOR A PURCHASE? :argh!: :argh!: :argh!: :argh!: :argh!:
Yes, yes I do.
It is insulting NOT AT ALL.
~~~Payne: Used to be a cashier
I WANTS THE MONEY PUT IN MY HAAAAAAAND!
:walken:
I used to pay for food at the supermarket in all coins, until they forced me to goto the coinstar machine first.
In response to Patrick Goddamn Stewart. No I don't think that most people do this intentionally but supconsciously I think that they think that they are supperior and don't need to bother with manners, treating people like they would like to be treated. I wonder how they would respond if the cashier repeatedly put their change on the counter for them to grovel at and pick up if they handed the money to the cashier? And to the Scarlett Reaper, you may have your glut on my anger and I would still have more to share with anybody else who wishes to partake.
Quote from: sungoldysue on November 02, 2008, 06:51:28 AM
I wonder how they would respond if the cashier repeatedly put their change on the counter for them to grovel at and pick up if they handed the money to the cashier?
I wouldn't really care. There are ruder things that can be done to you than having a cashier - heaven forbid - handing your money to you indirectly. :/
Goes up waayyyyyy to the shallow thought of "The way I live my life is better than the way you live yours."
Everybody does it.
Get obar it. ^.^
Quote from: sungoldysue on November 02, 2008, 06:51:28 AM
In response to Patrick Goddamn Stewart. No I don't think that most people do this intentionally but supconsciously I think that they think that they are supperior and don't need to bother with manners, treating people like they would like to be treated. I wonder how they would respond if the cashier repeatedly put their change on the counter for them to grovel at and pick up if they handed the money to the cashier? And to the Scarlett Reaper, you may have your glut on my anger and I would still have more to share with anybody else who wishes to partake.
Suppose those people would prefer you to put the money on the counter and
you're the one being rude by handing it to them?
I like to organize my cash on the counter before I put in my wallet.
Maybe you subconsciously think you are superior to people that violate your idea of manners.
Better yet, maybe you subconsciously judge people before they even hand you money. Outside of your awareness you may be behaving (look up micro facial expressions - Paul Ekman) in a way that elicits the money handing behavior that you disapprove of to confirm your earlier judgment of the person in question.
How possible do you think that is?
Having spent many years as a cashier, sometimes it IS rude when people put money on the counter. Not always. It depends on how they do it. Tossing a wad of crumpled ones and change on the counter when you're standing right there with your hand out is rude. Sliding a neat stack of money across the counter, or setting it on the counter while the cashier's hands are otherwise occupied, is not rude.
Some people do prefer to not have direct hand-to-hand interaction, and in that case they will not usually stand there with their hand out expecting their change, they will keep their hands down so that you will put their change on the counter instead of in their hands.
In most ways I think rudeness is just a matter of perspective. I work in a phone center taking in calls and I get tons of people that from my perspective are extremely rude. But I'm sure they feel justified in how they talk to me.
It used to push my buttons pretty good with people like that. Finally managed to get myself to the point that i don't expect manners from anyone.
Although I still try to maintain basic manners myself most of the time. But that's more for my benefit than theirs.
Well, yes, of course it's a matter of perspective! If you're the center of the universe and everyone else only exists to serve you, then how can it be rude to expect them to get it done already?
ALL OF YOU SHOULD SHUT THE FUCK UP AND GET THE HELL OUT OF THIS THREAD, DUMBASSES.
Kai,
Rude motherfucker.
In reply to Net, your probably right. I haven't thought outside of the tiny little box. It's cool to get others input to weigh in against my view. It has a balancing effect. Thanks to all who bothered to respond to what to many may seem like a trivial matter. Now I have food for thought. Now a stupid question, "What are you talking about when you talk about the thread?"
Quote from: YattoDobbs on November 02, 2008, 02:03:47 AM
I used to pay for food at the supermarket in all coins, until they forced me to goto the coinstar machine first.
If you make a fuss about it, they can't force you to go to the coinstar. Since a lot of those Coinstars force you to pay a fee to convert your money, they can't obligate you to use them, because that would be akin to them obligating you to lose a portion of your money.. Plus, since all money printed by the government declares itself "legal tender for all debts, public and private," every store must take whatever form of legal-tender currency you have available. The only exceptions are, of course, online and over-the-phone orders which have disclaimers about what types of payment may be used.
I routinely pay my grocery bills in all coins, because that's what I usually have. The grocer made a fuss the first few times, but after standing my ground they relented.
When I was 16, I worked at a bagel shop. I hated that job, I hated waiting on people, and I made up all these great justifications to hate on the customer.
"I can't believe that guy didn't say Thank You, I mean, seriously.
Unrelated: best part of that job was a game I played with coworkers on Saturday morning. When two guys come in, you have to decide
JEW OR GAY?
are they getting bagels after synagogue? or after their all night ass-romp?
Quote from: Cramulus on November 03, 2008, 04:53:50 PM
When I was 16, I worked at a bagel shop. I hated that job, I hated waiting on people, and I made up all these great justifications to hate on the customer.
"I can't believe that guy didn't say Thank You, I mean, seriously.
Unrelated: best part of that job was a game I played with coworkers on Saturday morning. When two guys come in, you have to decide
JEW OR GAY?
are they getting bagels after synagogue? or after their all night ass-romp?
What if you encountered a customer that was both?
valid and often applicable
The trick is to look for wedding rings, and what kind of car they're driving.
DIS FREAD IS NOW ABOUT GAY JOOS.
Quote from: Cramulus on November 03, 2008, 05:03:33 PM
valid and often applicable
The trick is to look for wedding rings, and what kind of car they're driving.
Speaking Yiddish would be another dead giveaway too, right? :wink:
I wish I would have had a similar game when I worked in food service. The only thing I could do to pass the time was make arcane encryptions of the prices of pizza on our menu board. When no one else was in the pizza parlor, I would change the prices, like:
"French Fries: $1" became "$10c^2+2(bit*2)"
Work was never boring after finding the mathematical pack food board inserts.
Quote from: The Reverend Asshat on November 03, 2008, 05:07:00 PM
DIS FREAD IS NOW ABOUT GAY JOOS.
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Gay juice?
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One time, I wanted to join the army, so I rang up and told the woman I was a gay African. She told me to go back to the jungle and do my gay wango tango dance.
The Army is America.
The woman on the phone is Barack Obama
The wango tango dance (with arms below shoulder height) is John McCain.
Quote from: Net on November 02, 2008, 09:50:16 AM
Quote from: sungoldysue on November 02, 2008, 06:51:28 AM
In response to Patrick Goddamn Stewart. No I don't think that most people do this intentionally but supconsciously I think that they think that they are supperior and don't need to bother with manners, treating people like they would like to be treated. I wonder how they would respond if the cashier repeatedly put their change on the counter for them to grovel at and pick up if they handed the money to the cashier? And to the Scarlett Reaper, you may have your glut on my anger and I would still have more to share with anybody else who wishes to partake.
Suppose those people would prefer you to put the money on the counter and you're the one being rude by handing it to them?
:mittens:
Quote from: sungoldysue on November 01, 2008, 01:33:13 AM
I really hate rude people.
Well, maybe we don't like you, either.
Quote from: Cramulus on November 03, 2008, 05:14:42 PM
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I would like some of that there Gay Wango Tango, please.
here you go:
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:coffeemonitor:
Surpisingly lavendar is a good color for you Roger....
And to the OP. I rarely put money in the cashier's hand. I have arthritis and my hands don't always do what I want and I tend to drop change and such. As a result, it is much easier for me to lay the money out on the counter.
Maybe back up and look at it from the CUSTOMER's POV and stop being so judgemental.
Quote from: Khara on November 04, 2008, 04:04:48 PM
:coffeemonitor:
Surpisingly lavendar is a good color for you Roger....
:thanks:
Quote from: Cramulus on November 04, 2008, 03:42:26 PM
here you go:
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SQUUUUUUUUUUUEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAA!
Quote from: Manta Obscura on November 03, 2008, 04:35:56 PM
Quote from: YattoDobbs on November 02, 2008, 02:03:47 AM
I used to pay for food at the supermarket in all coins, until they forced me to goto the coinstar machine first.
If you make a fuss about it, they can't force you to go to the coinstar. Since a lot of those Coinstars force you to pay a fee to convert your money, they can't obligate you to use them, because that would be akin to them obligating you to lose a portion of your money.. Plus, since all money printed by the government declares itself "legal tender for all debts, public and private," every store must take whatever form of legal-tender currency you have available. The only exceptions are, of course, online and over-the-phone orders which have disclaimers about what types of payment may be used.
I routinely pay my grocery bills in all coins, because that's what I usually have. The grocer made a fuss the first few times, but after standing my ground they relented.
I didnt really care
I was a prick about it, since he was the guy that always would pack my bags SOO wrong
eggs DO not go into a bag with freezer items it makes the cardboard soggy :argh!:
or refuse to credit my bags cause they werent made in fucking china like the rest of em or whatever
Quote from: YattoDobbs on November 04, 2008, 06:32:28 PM
Quote from: Manta Obscura on November 03, 2008, 04:35:56 PM
Quote from: YattoDobbs on November 02, 2008, 02:03:47 AM
I used to pay for food at the supermarket in all coins, until they forced me to goto the coinstar machine first.
If you make a fuss about it, they can't force you to go to the coinstar. Since a lot of those Coinstars force you to pay a fee to convert your money, they can't obligate you to use them, because that would be akin to them obligating you to lose a portion of your money.. Plus, since all money printed by the government declares itself "legal tender for all debts, public and private," every store must take whatever form of legal-tender currency you have available. The only exceptions are, of course, online and over-the-phone orders which have disclaimers about what types of payment may be used.
I routinely pay my grocery bills in all coins, because that's what I usually have. The grocer made a fuss the first few times, but after standing my ground they relented.
eggs DO not go into a bag with freezer items it makes the cardboard soggy :argh!:
I hate it when things like that happen. That's why I insist on doing the bagging now. Last Thanksgiving, some brilliant bagger decided to put the turkey in the same bag as my eggs and bread, resulting in a bad of crushed bread and a dripping, soupy glop of chicken embryo.
also,
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I knew that'd come in handy. :D
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Some people do prefer to not have direct hand-to-hand interaction,
Very true! I have a guy here at work who doesn't like to be touched or to touch other people. He won't eat in front of other people, and never uses a pubic restroom, even here at work. He is very aware of 'personal space' and won't get near others unless specifically asked to. Very odd.
Nevertheless, rude people piss me off. Like those who are rude to 'underlings' while being civil to 'equals'.
And especially people who continue to talk on their fvkng Bluetooth headsets while also talking with me. I just want to slap that headset right off and kick their ass!
Me never use pubic restrooms either. Too hairy.
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I can't eat in front of people who are not my close friends or family.
Quote from: Manta Obscura on November 04, 2008, 09:05:55 PM
Quote from: YattoDobbs on November 04, 2008, 06:32:28 PM
Quote from: Manta Obscura on November 03, 2008, 04:35:56 PM
Quote from: YattoDobbs on November 02, 2008, 02:03:47 AM
I used to pay for food at the supermarket in all coins, until they forced me to goto the coinstar machine first.
If you make a fuss about it, they can't force you to go to the coinstar. Since a lot of those Coinstars force you to pay a fee to convert your money, they can't obligate you to use them, because that would be akin to them obligating you to lose a portion of your money.. Plus, since all money printed by the government declares itself "legal tender for all debts, public and private," every store must take whatever form of legal-tender currency you have available. The only exceptions are, of course, online and over-the-phone orders which have disclaimers about what types of payment may be used.
I routinely pay my grocery bills in all coins, because that's what I usually have. The grocer made a fuss the first few times, but after standing my ground they relented.
eggs DO not go into a bag with freezer items it makes the cardboard soggy :argh!:
I hate it when things like that happen. That's why I insist on doing the bagging now. Last Thanksgiving, some brilliant bagger decided to put the turkey in the same bag as my eggs and bread, resulting in a bad of crushed bread and a dripping, soupy glop of chicken embryo.
What gets on my nerves more than that is when they put poisons or cleaning solutions in with food.
Quote from: Shadowdaemon on November 05, 2008, 11:00:36 PM
Quote from: Manta Obscura on November 04, 2008, 09:05:55 PM
Quote from: YattoDobbs on November 04, 2008, 06:32:28 PM
Quote from: Manta Obscura on November 03, 2008, 04:35:56 PM
Quote from: YattoDobbs on November 02, 2008, 02:03:47 AM
I used to pay for food at the supermarket in all coins, until they forced me to goto the coinstar machine first.
If you make a fuss about it, they can't force you to go to the coinstar. Since a lot of those Coinstars force you to pay a fee to convert your money, they can't obligate you to use them, because that would be akin to them obligating you to lose a portion of your money.. Plus, since all money printed by the government declares itself "legal tender for all debts, public and private," every store must take whatever form of legal-tender currency you have available. The only exceptions are, of course, online and over-the-phone orders which have disclaimers about what types of payment may be used.
I routinely pay my grocery bills in all coins, because that's what I usually have. The grocer made a fuss the first few times, but after standing my ground they relented.
eggs DO not go into a bag with freezer items it makes the cardboard soggy :argh!:
I hate it when things like that happen. That's why I insist on doing the bagging now. Last Thanksgiving, some brilliant bagger decided to put the turkey in the same bag as my eggs and bread, resulting in a bad of crushed bread and a dripping, soupy glop of chicken embryo.
What gets on my nerves more than that is when they put poisons or cleaning solutions in with food.
You buy poisons at the same time you buy food?
Quote from: Manta Obscura on November 06, 2008, 02:33:29 PM
Quote from: Shadowdaemon on November 05, 2008, 11:00:36 PM
Quote from: Manta Obscura on November 04, 2008, 09:05:55 PM
Quote from: YattoDobbs on November 04, 2008, 06:32:28 PM
Quote from: Manta Obscura on November 03, 2008, 04:35:56 PM
Quote from: YattoDobbs on November 02, 2008, 02:03:47 AM
I used to pay for food at the supermarket in all coins, until they forced me to goto the coinstar machine first.
If you make a fuss about it, they can't force you to go to the coinstar. Since a lot of those Coinstars force you to pay a fee to convert your money, they can't obligate you to use them, because that would be akin to them obligating you to lose a portion of your money.. Plus, since all money printed by the government declares itself "legal tender for all debts, public and private," every store must take whatever form of legal-tender currency you have available. The only exceptions are, of course, online and over-the-phone orders which have disclaimers about what types of payment may be used.
I routinely pay my grocery bills in all coins, because that's what I usually have. The grocer made a fuss the first few times, but after standing my ground they relented.
eggs DO not go into a bag with freezer items it makes the cardboard soggy :argh!:
I hate it when things like that happen. That's why I insist on doing the bagging now. Last Thanksgiving, some brilliant bagger decided to put the turkey in the same bag as my eggs and bread, resulting in a bad of crushed bread and a dripping, soupy glop of chicken embryo.
What gets on my nerves more than that is when they put poisons or cleaning solutions in with food.
You buy poisons at the same time you buy food?
It's called a grocery list. Sometimes you need things like
Eggs
Milk
Tuna
Bread
Hamburger
Wasp Spray
Drano
etc etc etc
because you need all of those things and making a separate trip to the grocery store for food, then poison, then cleaning supplies does not make sense.