Yesterday was a great day... mostly.
See, there was an SCA demo. This is where we go somewhere and do what we do in public, with people who AREN'T us walking around, asking questions, and generally getting in the way. It's part, "come, see what we do," part, "hey, wouldn't YOU like to do this, too," and, usually, part publicity stunt for whatever group asked us to do a demo for them. Big guys in armor smacking the hell out of each other with sticks is always a crowd pleaser, go figure. We are, after all, an EDUCATIONAL organization, so, once in awhile, we go out and try to inflict some knowledge on the mundanes.
Besides, it's fun. The look on the face of a teenager when you hand him an 18 pound helmet and they realize, "they put this on their HEAD?!" is priceless. (The trick is, learn to support 18 pounds with your arm straight out and your wrist straight. Let 'em get their hands under it... and DROP the whole fucker on them at once.) Cub Scouts are, by the way, the most bloodthirsty little bastards you'll ever see.
Anyway, we're doing this demo. Richter's got his buddy's forge and is busy turning busted scrap metal into useful sharp things and pretty things. Suu's got a couple of her best outfits out on display and is fielding questions at the Arts & Sciences tent. Me, I'm out fencing, and having a ball. The king and one of the other knights borrowed some gear and came to fence, too, good time. We had a tavern brawl (well, four of 'em). Set up a table with some extra stuff to parry with... Couple of candlesticks, a pot lid, some fake food, mugs... A stuffed cat... (Yeah. My friends are sick bastards, sometimes.) We'd've done more, except the table got busted when we flipped it over and one of the girls broke it with her head.
Anyway, good day... except for the point where I turned around and realized my NYEX-husband is there, and he brought the little whore with him. Pretty much instant mood crash.
I pulled my shit together... Grabbed something to eat, and went back out on the fencing field with the couple of the guys who I know can handle things if I lost it out there. (Did NOT go out against J or SA, they're both new, and my control was off. I was pissed, but not at THEM. O and E knew I was upset and pissed, and are both capable of making sure I didn't do anything stupid to them.) Usually, I'll refuse to suit up at all if I'm angry... I know who I'm angry at, and it's NOT the person across the field from me.
So, took out some aggression on my friends. No damage of which I'm aware was done, which means I probably laid a bruise or two on 'em, but nothing bad enough for them to bitch about. Dunno if either one of them heard my cussing while I did it... but it helped. Got some support from friends, some who just saw I was upset, others who saw them there and figured I would be.
I ignored the both of them, except when he tried to wave and say hi, he just got a glare.
Rest of the day after the demo was awesome... Shower, hike over to Richter's for dinner, movie, some of which I slept through on the Couch. (I don't think I got a LOT of sleep, but I slept like a bloody rock, one of those naps where you close your eyes, open them again a second later, and realize you've missed half the movie. At least it was one I've seen before.)
Glad I got that nap... Came home and spent the rest of night staring at the ceiling.
See... here's what I can't figure. I sure as hell do not want him back. Not if he came crawling with a thousand apologies and confessions of stupidity.
So why the fuck does seeing them together feel like somebody's tearing out vital organs? Why did I run my shower out of hot water this morning standing in there crying over this shit?
At a guess and feel free to correct me if I'm wrong, I'd say it's a question of ego. He left you for someone else? Or when you broke up he found someone else quicker than you expected? That's a kick in the teeth any way you look at it. Breaking up with a steady partner is a big upheaval, even if you hated the cunt by the end. So you're all fucked up and wondering what the shit you're going to do with your life, right? And you're maybe a bit bitter and trying to remember how much you hated the dude just so you don't feel so bad about being in this fucking limbo that your life has suddenly turned into and the only thing that keeps you sane is the thought that he's doing worse than you, right? So when you have to face up to the injustice that he probably isn't, it smarts a bit.
Like I said, I dunno if this is true for you or a mile off but I've been there. Getting wasted and/or laid a hell of a lot helped take the edge off.
He started seeing her behind my back. Exactly when, I'm no longer really sure of... He claims I caught them the first time he actually saw her, I suspect that's another lie, but who knows.
Yes, being left for the town whore stings. The fact that I was worth so little that he'd rather trade me in on HER was a kick to the ego that I don't know if I'm going to get over at all, much less when.
On the plus side, I can't say my life is a limbo. I'm so busy, I'm turning down invites because I'm already double-booked, some days. I'm doing more than I did back when I was with him, and having a hell of a lot more fun.
Getting wasted doesn't help... or at least, it's not the drinking that helps, it's the company I'm keeping when I DO drink. (Dad is alcoholic, I do NOT drink at home alone.) Example, Friday night was awesome, out at the German Club with Richter and EoC. (Thanks, guys!)
Yeah, part of it, at least, is the reminder that I was valued so little. I fucking deserved better.
If it were me . . . Not only would I be pissed he left me for the town whore, I would be fucking embarrassed that the guy I picked turned out to be so fucking stupid.
Quote from: Cardinal Pizza Deliverance. on May 15, 2011, 04:39:42 PM
If it were me . . . Not only would I be pissed he left me for the town whore, I would be fucking embarrassed that the guy I picked turned out to be so fucking stupid.
Yeah, there's that... plus the fact that he has do display said fucking stupidity in front of everybody.
The problem was, you were channeling your anger in the wrong way, so all the built up tension in you has come out as sadness, when instead you should have had a go at him for being so fucking nonchalant about your space and your feelings.
Maybe.
I hope, in the end, you can at least get NUMB to the rejection and the pain this asshole has caused you. Sounds like you have so much to look forward to and enjoy in your life, letting his cruelty and selfishness ruin that for you would be an utter shame, if it continues on. Bitterness from others' actions is like a slow poison that can seep into other joys and happiness that you indulge in and NEED in order to survive...sounds like you've figured that out and can, in the main, embrace it.
But give yourself time to not only wholly enjoy those things you richly deserve but also to get over this fucktard and his betrayal. You love deeply and with a lot of loyalty, it seems...so the pain probably goes way down deep as well. I'm so happy FOR you that you have great awesome friends like Suu and Richter (and now EoC!! :D ) to help you through these nasty times when the doubt and bitterness creep in.
You're an awesome person, Luna. It's all his loss, man...
Quote from: Luna on May 15, 2011, 04:03:37 PMThe fact that I was worth so little that he'd rather trade me in on HER was a kick to the ego that I don't know if I'm going to get over at all, much less when.
Yeah, you will. Takes a bit of time is all but the human brain is fucking excellent at bouncing back from shit like that. In the meantime you're doing all the right shit - get on with your life, fill it up with shit that makes you feel better, eventually it'll do just that - make you feel better. Lot of people (myself included) opt for the - wallowing in self pity - option, initially at least. Get out there and take a big fucking bite out of life.
I'm damn near 20 years out of a relationship that fell to fucking pieces and pretty much took me with it. Nowadays I remember the good bits. Even the fights and the heartache is kinda - comedy of errors - funny now. Took a while, tho. Totally sucked at the time.
Thing is I WAS the classic loser-ex. Seeing how much better her life got, pretty much as soon as I walked out the door forced me to face up to a lot of shit. Made me decide to be a better person. Also made me determined to never take the slightest bit of bullshit in a relationship evar, coupled with the resolve to make sure I never gave any bullshit back. That made shit a lot more fun in the long run.
Quote from: Lies on May 15, 2011, 05:29:55 PM
The problem was, you were channeling your anger in the wrong way, so all the built up tension in you has come out as sadness, when instead you should have had a go at him for being so fucking nonchalant about your space and your feelings.
Maybe.
Sadly, the SCA can't be considered "my" space. It's where we met, I can't tell him to fuck off and leave. He's aware that I would prefer he did... but I have no right to order him to give it up. So, I need to get used to him bringing her around.
I'll get past it... I just thought i'd be further along by now, is all, I guess.
Quote from: P3nT4gR4m on May 15, 2011, 05:39:35 PM
Also made me determined to never take the slightest bit of bullshit in a relationship evar, coupled with the resolve to make sure I never gave any bullshit back. That made shit a lot more fun in the long run.
THIS.
Also, if she's the town whore, the relationship is doomed anyway. What's that quote Cain had about the bodies of your enemies floating by if you sit by the river long enough? He's going to end up a smelly old man with STD's eating Spaghetti-O's
TM out of a can and you'll long since have hooked up with somebody awesome who will make you want to throw rocks at everybody you knew before. Last laugh = yours.
Oh, I'm aware his relationship is doomed, and I'm looking forward to it blowing up in their faces.
I've said it before... "if s/he did it WITH you, s/he'll do it TO you." They both cheated to get into whatever they've got, it won't end cleanly.
"No bullshit" is the way to go, absolutely.
Luna, all those feelings are natural and normal... don't feel bad about having them. Just let yourself feel them, and think about why you're feeling them... you made a commitment to this guy, you had a long-term relationship, and at one time, at least, you believed he was worth it. You have years worth of memories of being a couple. He may have turned out to be a shitheel, but that doesn't erase the belief you once had in your partnership. You're recovering from having been in love with the guy, you're jealous because of the love and exclusivity you once believed in, and you feel betrayed and angry because he left you for someone else who is less than you... even though he wasn't worth having you in the first place. All these feelings are OK. Just give yourself space and time to get over them. You will move on and be a better, stronger, more desirable and worthy person, until eventually when you see him you will feel only pity.
I'm sorry.
Dartmouth Fett wasn't sick. He hates the SCA. It's not his game, and he went for a nap in his car. Naturally, the only person that gave him a hard time was Johan (Mr. Z, the former housemate of mine) so that was enough to give him a bad taste in his mouth.
Actual quote:
Johan: You don't look very medieval.
DF: That's because I'm ALL evil.
I saw NYEx and whore approach. Whore was grinning at me the whole time I was in the list...you know, with swords in my hands...I think she thought I was you until I took off your gear I borrowed. She realized it was me and then avoided me the rest of the time I was still there. I didn't even say hey NYEx. I didn't want the bullshit.
I didn't want to deal with you. I couldn't. I wanted to have a nice day...so I packed up, saying DF was sick, and we left.
This is your battle, Luna. You've seen how Herb and I get along now. It's possible. When Whore finally decides to move on, you'll realize it's not bad, but as long as she's around, there's only two things we can do:
A: Kill her and dissolve her body in a bathtub in So-Pro.
B: Remind yourself that you're better than her, and that you'll never again fuck your newly herpes ridden NYEx-Husband.
-Suu
Shitfaced.
Having things go the way they did hurt. Seeing them together brings back that pain. It's simple association, even though you want nothing to do with him seeing him still brings back the pain and seeing her brings it back worse.
Just like the smell of cherries makes me want to vomit because it smells like cough syrup, same mechanism in your brain. It's not anything to get hung up on, and it should fade, eventually, but every time it hasn't yet don't beat yourself up over it, just let it hurt for a bit.
IT'S BEEN TWO FUCKING YEARS AND EVERY TIME I SEE HERBERT WITH HIS SHORT BLOND DUMB BIG BOOBED THING I WANT TO CRY
and then i remember that he's only in it to titty fuck her and that he'll dump her when she turns 25 makes me feel better
-suu
full bottle of pino gris
I honestly don't know what I'll do the first time Mr. Language shows up to one of FBF's cocktail parties with a new thing. Vomit, cry, attack, hide in the bathroom... it's anyone's guess.
Quote from: Nigel on May 16, 2011, 04:13:27 AM
I honestly don't know what I'll do the first time Mr. Language shows up to one of FBF's cocktail parties with a new thing. Vomit, cry, attack, hide in the bathroom... it's anyone's guess.
You won't do any of these.
You will give them both that flinty eyed stare (you know the one) and continue on as if nothing has happened. :evil:
Quote from: Nigel on May 16, 2011, 04:13:27 AM
I honestly don't know what I'll do the first time Mr. Language shows up to one of FBF's cocktail parties with a new thing. Vomit, cry, attack, hide in the bathroom... it's anyone's guess.
What Grump said. You're tougher than I am, and if I can keep my shit together, YOU can.
Quote from: Luna on May 16, 2011, 04:20:03 AM
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I honestly don't know what I'll do the first time Mr. Language shows up to one of FBF's cocktail parties with a new thing. Vomit, cry, attack, hide in the bathroom... it's anyone's guess.
What Grump said. You're tougher than I am, and if I can keep my shit together, YOU can.
Well, given me, you are both almost certainly right. If I have to, I can probably enlist Space Cowboy to attend as my date. He has a girlfriend now, and I adore her, but he is still the hottest guy in Portland, and my friend, and both of them would almost certainly throw down for me in a pinch. (Especially because she kind of hates social events, and knows I would never do her wrong ever ever.)
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I honestly don't know what I'll do the first time Mr. Language shows up to one of FBF's cocktail parties with a new thing. Vomit, cry, attack, hide in the bathroom... it's anyone's guess.
What Grump said. You're tougher than I am, and if I can keep my shit together, YOU can.
Well, given me, you are both almost certainly right. If I have to, I can probably enlist Space Cowboy to attend as my date. He has a girlfriend now, and I adore her, but he is still the hottest guy in Portland, and my friend, and both of them would almost certainly throw down for me in a pinch. (Especially because she kind of hates social events, and knows I would never do her wrong ever ever.)
There ya go. Having friends there for you can make all the difference.
Hell, even the king made time to take me off to the side and try to cheer me up. (He can't stand the little tramp, she's got a long history of offending people in the SCA.)
Take it from someone who was able to reconcile with someone who manipulated them for eight hellish years.
And I was easily manipulated due to my mental problems, something she convinced me not to seek help for. It's a chemical related issue and you could image how someone who views relationships in terms of power struggles could manipulate that, even without awareness they are doing so.
In fact she was so good at convincing me to ignore it that it wasn't till I totally went psychotic and had to be hospitalized and forced on meds. Only after all that I was able to put my past in perspective.
The trick is simple.
You have to do what seems unnatural and put yourself in their shoes.
The reason this could work is because you probably have built up an image of them in your head that is incorrect. You made them someone who they are NOT, and when it was reviled to you that this image is incorrect the world collapsed around you and that is why you break down when reminded.
I think when you see them for who they are really are and not whom you imagined them to be you will find those feelings will start to dissipate.
I'm friends with my ex right now, and can remain that with no feelings of attraction, ill-will or jealousy towards her.
And we're talking about someone who once held a knife to my throat, and consistently threatened to slit her wrists and once made me feel horrible by saying she the only reason she didn't kill herself was cause of some other guy. And that is just the tip of the ice berg of what went on.
But when I was able to put myself in her shoes and understand who she was, and her past then I lost the attraction, because it wasn't the person I was attracted to when I fell in love with her. I'm still in love with her, but not attracted to her, so I could remain friends now without any negativity on my part (and I'm immune to her attempts of manipulation cause I understand where it's coming from). She does have some redeemable qualities. She is kind when she removed from relationships, she is funny, social, actually loyal to her friends... all good qualities in a friend I never knew existed cause I had built up other qualities in her that she never had to begin with.
Of course you may find that there are no redeemable qualities in the person, but at least you could let go of who you think they are rather then who they are.
Of course this may not apply to you in which case I wasted a cup of late night tea.
I'm probably not making a whole lot of sense. It's not cause I'm drunk or emotional. It's just I'm not really good at these touchy feely stuff
so
There was this farmer that kept finding that his hens where always too warn out to lay eggs.
Then he started to find a few of them dying.
After some investigation he found out that his roaster was so horny that he was literally fucking them to death.
So he said to the roaster, "Watch out. If you don't calm down you will fuck yourself to death."
This did not help and the behavior continued.
Then one day he went outside and noticed some vultures circling his field.
He went to see what they were circling and found his roaster laying on his back with his feet in the hair.
The farmer said, "see what I told you. You didn't calm down now you fucked yourself to death."
Then the roaster turned his head towards the farmer and said, "Shut up! They're about to land!"
:eek:
Interesting theory... but I don't need a friend a friend who has already proven that he will deliberately lie to me, not just once, but over a period of time. I don't need a friend who will do something that he KNOWS will hurt me. I'm too angry to even really think of that as a possibility right now.
Not what I was trying to say
guess it came out wrong
Quote from: Thurnez Isa on May 16, 2011, 03:15:46 PM
Not what I was trying to say
guess it came out wrong
Quite possible I wasn't listening right, too, I'm not really in a good place to be really reasonable about the situation. At least I'm aware of it.
I do see what you're saying... I'm just not ready to try to see what he did as any kind of reasonable from his point of view just yet.
So, I had to send NYEX an e-mail. He responds... His signature quote is:
"Experience is a wonderful thing. It enables you to recognize a mistake when you make it again" - annonymus"
I find myself devoutly hoping that he screws up again, spectacularly. Preferably getting busted cheating in a public venue... maybe with somebody inclined to take video and post it on Facebook.
The best feeling in the world is going to be when it happens, and you realize that all you feel is a vague sense of pity.
Quote from: Nigel on May 16, 2011, 08:05:58 PM
The best feeling in the world is going to be when it happens, and you realize that all you feel is a vague sense of pity.
What's going to feel good is when I stop getting ideas based on, "wouldn't he just HATE..."
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The best feeling in the world is going to be when it happens, and you realize that all you feel is a vague sense of pity.
What's going to feel good is when I stop getting ideas based on, "wouldn't he just HATE..."
Yep, that too!
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Quote from: Nigel on May 16, 2011, 08:05:58 PM
The best feeling in the world is going to be when it happens, and you realize that all you feel is a vague sense of pity.
What's going to feel good is when I stop getting ideas based on, "wouldn't he just HATE..."
Yep, that too!
Considered a fairly epic bad idea simply because I knew it would go up his ass sideways.
Decided that I was worth more than that.
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The best feeling in the world is going to be when it happens, and you realize that all you feel is a vague sense of pity.
What's going to feel good is when I stop getting ideas based on, "wouldn't he just HATE..."
Yep, that too!
Considered a fairly epic bad idea simply because I knew it would go up his ass sideways.
Decided that I was worth more than that.
Absolutely.
Have you considered keeping a divorce notebook? You can pour out all your hate and negativity and even the occasional nostalgia for the good times, and getting it out of your head and onto a page helps a LOT. Eventually you stop thinking about him, and when it's been a couple of weeks since you've felt a need to write in it, you can stick it in a box and never look at it again. Or ritually burn it in a bonfire on the beach, or something.
The last thing you need to do is go to jail.
Because I pondered for months if it was worth it for Herbert...Oh, it would have been worth it, but not in the long run.
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The best feeling in the world is going to be when it happens, and you realize that all you feel is a vague sense of pity.
What's going to feel good is when I stop getting ideas based on, "wouldn't he just HATE..."
Yep, that too!
Considered a fairly epic bad idea simply because I knew it would go up his ass sideways.
Decided that I was worth more than that.
Absolutely.
Have you considered keeping a divorce notebook? You can pour out all your hate and negativity and even the occasional nostalgia for the good times, and getting it out of your head and onto a page helps a LOT. Eventually you stop thinking about him, and when it's been a couple of weeks since you've felt a need to write in it, you can stick it in a box and never look at it again. Or ritually burn it in a bonfire on the beach, or something.
Hadn't thought of that, I may.
I'm planning on doing something for me at Vinland, since that Friday would be our 5th wedding anniversary. I've got the ribbons from the ceremony, going to burn the fuckers... then go and get blitzed.
Yes, but is getting drunk and potentially making a scene worth it?
Quote from: Suu on May 17, 2011, 04:02:32 PM
Yes, but is getting drunk and potentially making a scene worth it?
No scene, as long as he keeps the fuckmuppet WELL away from me. My idea of blitzed is a lot more low-key than some.
It seems wise to stay away from anywhere they are for a while, especially if alcohol is involved.
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 04:17:03 PM
It seems wise to stay away from anywhere they are for a while, especially if alcohol is involved.
I refuse to step away from the SCA because they will be there.
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It seems wise to stay away from anywhere they are for a while, especially if alcohol is involved.
I refuse to step away from the SCA because they will be there.
Sometimes, distance helps, and the more mature person gets to establish that distance. After my breakup with Space Cowboy I walked away from my beloved gallery for a few months.
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It seems wise to stay away from anywhere they are for a while, especially if alcohol is involved.
I refuse to step away from the SCA because they will be there.
Sometimes, distance helps, and the more mature person gets to establish that distance. After my breakup with Space Cowboy I walked away from my beloved gallery for a few months.
I understand, I do... But the SCA has been part of my life for a hell of a lot longer than he has.
I honestly understand what you are going thru.
It's harder than people realize to recover (and yes, this is something you have to recover from) from this when you see them on a regular basis. Add in that you have mutual friends and the same extracurricular activities and it becomes even more difficult. Especially if those friends are remaining "neutral" but I won't get into that because my opinion on that is somewhat errrrr... nevermind. Most of the time people are allowed to avoid their soon to be exes from the point of seperation on.
Be that as it may, a little advice from experience.
Don't drink when you are around them, AT ALL. Because even the slightest comment will end up being referred to as a drunken rant when it's all said and done. Even if all you had was half a beer/wine/mixed drink.
Make new or stick with the friends who are your friends and yours alone. Yes a pain in the ass, but you need people who are 100% on your side whenever you have to be around this asshole. You wil be surprised how quickly "neutral" friends suddenly bail when push comes to shove.
Be nice. This is the most difficult and the one which will in the end be the truest test of your own inner strength, but trust me, it will, in the long run, be the one thing that will allow you to hold your head high and walk away as the only one who kept their dignity. Now I'm not saying be all gushy mushy, I'm just saying be polite. If you can't be polite, walk away. If you can't walk away be quiet until you can.
This sucks, and there is nothing to speed up time for you. It will get better. I promise.
Nigel's idea of a notebook is spot on. I have one of those too and it's there for me when I just need it. The most rewarding thing about it too, is years from now when you're settled in with your hot new thing you can look at it and see how far you've come even though it may not seem like much of a journey in the moment. But the feeling that comes over you when you realize that you actually were able to beat that shit in your head is so rewarding and empowering because if you can do that you can do motherfucking anything.
Lizzay,
cant even be in the same room with OF's (aka Herpes, and drama llame) good friends without anxiety. Well...except the one that's now my good friend and hates his guts. I lurve him and am making him a cheesecake!
Two years ago; I hated myself.
Last year; I hated everyone.
This year, I learned that life is too goddamn short for me to give a fuck anymore. Especially when my ex-husband pushed my down the street on top of my drafting table in the rain while we screamed like idiots. Will I ever completely forgive him for waiting 7 years of my life? Probably not, but joint assholicism like that is priceless.
I know it's going to take time... When I don't see them, I do a lot better. I can even manage seeing him without losing my shit, most of the time. (Mostly, we have to avoid the obvious topics that are going to piss me off.)
I'll think about a notebook... Still not great about ranting on paper or keyboard, but... Good practice, anyway.
Just a thought; I know you're attached to the SCA. Nobody's saying you should give that up long-term. And, there is a point of pride in not letting him take your territory. At the same time, one of the best things you can do for yourself in a breakup/divorce is find new territory and make new friends, and do shit that is completely new with no associations with your ex or your relationship together.
AKA, Richter and I don't count. We're in the same territory.
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 05:16:18 PM
Just a thought; I know you're attached to the SCA. Nobody's saying you should give that up long-term. And, there is a point of pride in not letting him take your territory. At the same time, one of the best things you can do for yourself in a breakup/divorce is find new territory and make new friends, and do shit that is completely new with no associations with your ex or your relationship together.
Well, there's you spags. :kiss:
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 06:18:57 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 05:16:18 PM
Just a thought; I know you're attached to the SCA. Nobody's saying you should give that up long-term. And, there is a point of pride in not letting him take your territory. At the same time, one of the best things you can do for yourself in a breakup/divorce is find new territory and make new friends, and do shit that is completely new with no associations with your ex or your relationship together.
Well, there's you spags. :kiss:
Internet doesn't count. The only shit that counts is stuff you have to GO OUTSIDE for.
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Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 05:16:18 PM
Just a thought; I know you're attached to the SCA. Nobody's saying you should give that up long-term. And, there is a point of pride in not letting him take your territory. At the same time, one of the best things you can do for yourself in a breakup/divorce is find new territory and make new friends, and do shit that is completely new with no associations with your ex or your relationship together.
Well, there's you spags. :kiss:
Internet doesn't count. The only shit that counts is stuff you have to GO OUTSIDE for.
Yeah, I know, I know.
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Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 06:18:57 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 05:16:18 PM
Just a thought; I know you're attached to the SCA. Nobody's saying you should give that up long-term. And, there is a point of pride in not letting him take your territory. At the same time, one of the best things you can do for yourself in a breakup/divorce is find new territory and make new friends, and do shit that is completely new with no associations with your ex or your relationship together.
Well, there's you spags. :kiss:
Internet doesn't count. The only shit that counts is stuff you have to GO OUTSIDE for.
Yeah, I know, I know.
Yoga, martial arts, a hiking group... hell, start hashing! Just get out, change your life in a tangible way, and meet new people. And don't get drunk on significant dates at events your ex and his new thing will be at.
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 06:38:47 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 06:32:42 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 06:30:42 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 06:18:57 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 05:16:18 PM
Just a thought; I know you're attached to the SCA. Nobody's saying you should give that up long-term. And, there is a point of pride in not letting him take your territory. At the same time, one of the best things you can do for yourself in a breakup/divorce is find new territory and make new friends, and do shit that is completely new with no associations with your ex or your relationship together.
Well, there's you spags. :kiss:
Internet doesn't count. The only shit that counts is stuff you have to GO OUTSIDE for.
Yeah, I know, I know.
Yoga, martial arts, a hiking group... hell, start hashing! Just get out, change your life in a tangible way, and meet new people. And don't get drunk on significant dates at events your ex and his new thing will be at.
Hashing? (Google) That sounds fun, actually. :D
I'm hoping he has the good taste NOT to bring her to the event where we got married, but my opinion of his taste and tact has declined significantly in the past year or two. If he does, yeah, keeping sober enough to keep my shit together and my mouth shut is a good thing.
I'm stunned that you're GOING to the event where you got married, so soon after the breakup. It seems like an exercise in emotional torture.
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 06:57:24 PM
I'm stunned that you're GOING to the event where you got married, so soon after the breakup. It seems like an exercise in emotional torture.
It's something I need to do.
I've spent too much of my life running away, too much time being pushed around, being told what to do, what to feel. Too much time letting other people control where I go.
That's done.
ECH doesn't get to tell me what to like on my pizza. (Though, if he wants me to try it HIS way, I'm game.) Roger doesn't get to tell me what music sucks. (Suggest a band, I'll give it a listen... but *I* get to decide if I like it.) And NYEX doesn't get to decide what I do with my time.
1. I'm going to disagree with Suu & Nigel, here, and tell you to keep doing SCA if that's what you want to do. As for jackass, just ignore his presence.
2. Yes, I do get to tell you what music sucks, as I am a Holy Man™. And a beautiful fairy princess.
Quote from: Suu on May 17, 2011, 05:24:02 PM
AKA, Richter and I don't count. We're in the same territory.
Wow. Right under the bus. :golfclap:
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 07:33:32 PM
1. I'm going to disagree with Suu & Nigel, here, and tell you to keep doing SCA if that's what you want to do. As for jackass, just ignore his presence.
2. Yes, I do get to tell you what music sucks, as I am a Holy Man™. And a beautiful fairy princess.
Yep. His presence upsets me... well, HER presence upsets me, more. Him, I can deal with if she's not around and if he and I don't actually try to have a discussion involving her and what he did.
You can tell me what music YOU think sucks, certainly. I maintain my right to disagree. Hell, I might even be wrong when I disagree, but I can be wrong if I wanna.
And you're a pretty, pretty fairy princess, yes. If I could WOMP, I'd get myself in trouble about now.
What?
We'll still be here for her, but she needs to get out there more. I agree. Something OTHER than the SCA or the same social circles we overlap in. Hell, GS got me into a whole new circle of friends I still talk to despite his assholicism, so you really never know who you're going to meet. There's a world of people out there that deserve her friendship, it shouldn't just be us exclusively.
Maybe I should find her a hot Steampunk gentleman this weekend...?
If you feel like it's important that you do this for your own growth, then do it. Just be careful.
AND GET THE FUCK OUT THERE AND MEET NEW PEOPLE TOO.
I like Suu's Steampunk idea. Get involved with those spags, maybe you'll meet someone hot.
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 07:43:11 PM
AND GET THE FUCK OUT THERE AND MEET NEW PEOPLE TOO.
I like Suu's Steampunk idea. Get involved with those spags, maybe you'll meet someone hot.
I've met steampunks. While it's possible that she will meet someone hot there, that's not how you bet.
:lulz:
I'd say she should stick with the SCA, since she likes thumping people, and then try to find something totally unrelated as well.
In any case, who says she's out to meet anyone hot? Having just lost 180 or so unwanted pounds, perhaps she's just looking to have fun? Or maybe she already has her eye one someone, and if it's someone from SCA, then she definitely shouldn't leave.
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 07:46:09 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 07:43:11 PM
AND GET THE FUCK OUT THERE AND MEET NEW PEOPLE TOO.
I like Suu's Steampunk idea. Get involved with those spags, maybe you'll meet someone hot.
I've met steampunks. While it's possible that she will meet someone hot there, that's not how you bet.
:lulz:
I'd say she should stick with the SCA, since she likes thumping people, and then try to find something totally unrelated as well.
In any case, who says she's out to meet anyone hot? Having just lost 180 or so unwanted pounds, perhaps she's just looking to have fun? Or maybe she already has her eye one someone, and if it's someone from SCA, then she definitely shouldn't leave.
This. And who's to say she can't drag along some old supporters to new stuff? EVERYONE needs to find new things to do.
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 07:33:32 PM
1. I'm going to disagree with Suu & Nigel, here, and tell you to keep doing SCA if that's what you want to do. As for jackass, just ignore his presence.
2. Yes, I do get to tell you what music sucks, as I am a Holy Man™. And a beautiful fairy princess.
1) I agree, otherwise you are still allowing him to have power over you.
Nah, when I'm ready for somebody new, I'll grab him, myself. Could be this weekend, could be months from now, I dunno... Depends on a lot of things. And I'll probably screw up a couple of times, anyway. I'm used to this... but at least I'll have fun screwing it up, in my own time.
I'll get out and meet new people, doing Steampunk this weekend... Next weekend is Trip's visit (so the "you spags" comment is not just here on the 'net... I've already met Cuddlefish, EoC, Saturnine, even TGRR when he was up, though I hadn't been introduced to this place, yet).
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 07:41:59 PM
If you feel like it's important that you do this for your own growth, then do it. Just be careful.
I will be... It's a closure thing, really. Full circle, ending it where it started.
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 07:55:44 PM
Nah, when I'm ready for somebody new, I'll grab him, myself.
That's the spirit.
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 07:46:09 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 07:43:11 PM
AND GET THE FUCK OUT THERE AND MEET NEW PEOPLE TOO.
I like Suu's Steampunk idea. Get involved with those spags, maybe you'll meet someone hot.
I've met steampunks. While it's possible that she will meet someone hot there, that's not how you bet.
:lulz:
YOU DOUBT MY SEX APPEAL?!
Quote from: Charley Brown on May 17, 2011, 07:52:56 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 07:33:32 PM
1. I'm going to disagree with Suu & Nigel, here, and tell you to keep doing SCA if that's what you want to do. As for jackass, just ignore his presence.
2. Yes, I do get to tell you what music sucks, as I am a Holy Man™. And a beautiful fairy princess.
1) I agree, otherwise you are still allowing him to have power over you.
This, exactly, Charley.
It's my life, and nobody else gets to control it without my say-so.
And y'all are posting fast enough to make me dizzy. :lulz:
Quote from: Suu on May 17, 2011, 07:57:16 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 07:46:09 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 07:43:11 PM
AND GET THE FUCK OUT THERE AND MEET NEW PEOPLE TOO.
I like Suu's Steampunk idea. Get involved with those spags, maybe you'll meet someone hot.
I've met steampunks. While it's possible that she will meet someone hot there, that's not how you bet.
:lulz:
YOU DOUBT MY SEX APPEAL?!
Sorry, Suu, despite what we pulled on GS, you're not REALLY my type. :wink:
I'll report back on the temperature of the Y-chromosomed there next week.
Quote from: Suu on May 17, 2011, 07:57:16 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 07:46:09 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 07:43:11 PM
AND GET THE FUCK OUT THERE AND MEET NEW PEOPLE TOO.
I like Suu's Steampunk idea. Get involved with those spags, maybe you'll meet someone hot.
I've met steampunks. While it's possible that she will meet someone hot there, that's not how you bet.
:lulz:
YOU DOUBT MY SEX APPEAL?!
I think you missed the bolded part.
Okay then.
-Suu
Can find the hot men...they just may not want to let go. ;)
SHOVEL TARP
SHOVEL TARP
LETS ALL SING THE SHOVEL TARP SONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:12:07 PM
SHOVEL TARP
SHOVEL TARP
LETS ALL SING THE SHOVEL TARP SONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:lulz: :lulz: :lulz: :lulz:
-Suu
Really only hangs out with the beautiful people. Seriously.
REDIRECT>>>>
THREAD IS ABOUT LUNA
<<<<< END
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:17:41 PM
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
Yes then. Definitely. Though the Whore deserves it more than him. No, I'm not touching her even with a shovel. Shovel with body condom, then BANG!
LET'S SING!
SHOVEL TARP!
SHOVEL TARP!
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:17:41 PM
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
I don't know the shovel tarp song. :(
I don't want him dead, though.
See, the fuckmuppet will, sooner or later, make him miserable. I want to enjoy that.
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 08:23:08 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:17:41 PM
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
I don't know the shovel tarp song. :(
I don't want him dead, though.
See, the fuckmuppet will, sooner or later, make him miserable. I want to enjoy that.
Atta girl.
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 08:23:08 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:17:41 PM
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
I don't know the shovel tarp song. :(
I don't want him dead, though.
See, the fuckmuppet will, sooner or later, make him miserable. I want to enjoy that.
I will have to teach everyone the Shovel Tarp song some year. Maybe Pensic 2013. :lulz:
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 08:23:08 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:17:41 PM
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
I don't know the shovel tarp song. :(
I don't want him dead, though.
See, the fuckmuppet will, sooner or later, make him miserable. I want to enjoy that.
That may be so, but I maintain that he deserves it more, for the comment about "coming back in 2-3 years, when this fling is over".
For that alone, he should be forced to whack off with a debriding glove.
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:25:22 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 08:23:08 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:17:41 PM
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
I don't know the shovel tarp song. :(
I don't want him dead, though.
See, the fuckmuppet will, sooner or later, make him miserable. I want to enjoy that.
I will have to teach everyone the Shovel Tarp song some year. Maybe Pensic 2013. :lulz:
In the meantime....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gw7gNf_9njs
Quote from: Charley Brown on May 17, 2011, 08:24:00 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 08:23:08 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:17:41 PM
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
I don't know the shovel tarp song. :(
I don't want him dead, though.
See, the fuckmuppet will, sooner or later, make him miserable. I want to enjoy that.
Atta girl.
HER, I can wish dead. Preferably of some truly spectacularly painful STD.
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 08:26:40 PM
That may be so, but I maintain that he deserves it more, for the comment about "coming back in 2-3 years, when this fling is over".
For that alone, he should be forced to whack off with a debriding glove.
Yeah, that one stung.
Quote from: Charley Brown on May 17, 2011, 08:27:36 PM
In the meantime....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gw7gNf_9njs
Heh. Got that one on my iPod.
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 08:26:40 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 08:23:08 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:17:41 PM
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
I don't know the shovel tarp song. :(
I don't want him dead, though.
See, the fuckmuppet will, sooner or later, make him miserable. I want to enjoy that.
That may be so, but I maintain that he deserves it more, for the comment about "coming back in 2-3 years, when this fling is over".
For that alone, he should be forced to whack off with a debriding glove.
I have always wondered how people can be that delusional. Like she's just going to be hanging out waiting for his precious ass to come back. :lulz:
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 08:28:55 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 08:26:40 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 08:23:08 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:17:41 PM
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
I don't know the shovel tarp song. :(
I don't want him dead, though.
See, the fuckmuppet will, sooner or later, make him miserable. I want to enjoy that.
That may be so, but I maintain that he deserves it more, for the comment about "coming back in 2-3 years, when this fling is over".
For that alone, he should be forced to whack off with a debriding glove.
I have always wondered how people can be that delusional. Like she's just going to be hanging out waiting for his precious ass to come back. :lulz:
IIRC, Herbert had a similar delusion concerning Suu. :lulz:
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 08:30:11 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 08:28:55 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 08:26:40 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 08:23:08 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:17:41 PM
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
I don't know the shovel tarp song. :(
I don't want him dead, though.
See, the fuckmuppet will, sooner or later, make him miserable. I want to enjoy that.
That may be so, but I maintain that he deserves it more, for the comment about "coming back in 2-3 years, when this fling is over".
For that alone, he should be forced to whack off with a debriding glove.
I have always wondered how people can be that delusional. Like she's just going to be hanging out waiting for his precious ass to come back. :lulz:
IIRC, Herbert had a similar delusion concerning Suu. :lulz:
DOES NOT COMPUTE!!!
Every time I broke up with someone I didn't want them back.
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 08:28:55 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 08:26:40 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 08:23:08 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:17:41 PM
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
I don't know the shovel tarp song. :(
I don't want him dead, though.
See, the fuckmuppet will, sooner or later, make him miserable. I want to enjoy that.
That may be so, but I maintain that he deserves it more, for the comment about "coming back in 2-3 years, when this fling is over".
For that alone, he should be forced to whack off with a debriding glove.
I have always wondered how people can be that delusional. Like she's just going to be hanging out waiting for his precious ass to come back. :lulz:
Yeah, THAT's gonna happen. :roll:
I've got a pretty strict limit of one fucking-over per person. He's had his.
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:32:22 PM
DOES NOT COMPUTE!!!
Every time I broke up with someone I didn't want them back.
He didn't WANT to break up the marriage. He just wanted her TOO, you see.
:vom:
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 08:33:50 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:32:22 PM
DOES NOT COMPUTE!!!
Every time I broke up with someone I didn't want them back.
He didn't WANT to break up the marriage. He just wanted her TOO, you see.
:vom:
Why, you selfish bitch! :lulz:
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 08:30:11 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 08:28:55 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 08:26:40 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 08:23:08 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:17:41 PM
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
I don't know the shovel tarp song. :(
I don't want him dead, though.
See, the fuckmuppet will, sooner or later, make him miserable. I want to enjoy that.
That may be so, but I maintain that he deserves it more, for the comment about "coming back in 2-3 years, when this fling is over".
For that alone, he should be forced to whack off with a debriding glove.
I have always wondered how people can be that delusional. Like she's just going to be hanging out waiting for his precious ass to come back. :lulz:
IIRC, Herbert had a similar delusion concerning Suu. :lulz:
Fuck that noise. What a pack of retards. Life doesn't work that way, and if you try to force it to you end up alone and pathetic.
Quote from: Charley Brown on May 17, 2011, 08:35:19 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 08:33:50 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:32:22 PM
DOES NOT COMPUTE!!!
Every time I broke up with someone I didn't want them back.
He didn't WANT to break up the marriage. He just wanted her TOO, you see.
:vom:
Why, you selfish bitch! :lulz:
I know. So unreasonable.
But, I gotta be me.
Mostly, now, I'm figuring out who that is.
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 08:30:11 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 08:28:55 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 08:26:40 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 08:23:08 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 08:17:41 PM
The shovel tarp song was in reference to Luna's NYEX btw.
I don't know the shovel tarp song. :(
I don't want him dead, though.
See, the fuckmuppet will, sooner or later, make him miserable. I want to enjoy that.
That may be so, but I maintain that he deserves it more, for the comment about "coming back in 2-3 years, when this fling is over".
For that alone, he should be forced to whack off with a debriding glove.
I have always wondered how people can be that delusional. Like she's just going to be hanging out waiting for his precious ass to come back. :lulz:
IIRC, Herbert had a similar delusion concerning Suu. :lulz:
"Welcome back, may I ask what you are doing in my bed?"
"Well I realized I made a mistake and..."
"She threw you out because she didn't know you were married?"
"How did you know?"
*holds up cellphone* I" stole her number when you weren't looking, and sent her a pic of our wedding pic."
"Oh...shit..."
"Couch."
"...Couch?"
"Couch." *rolls over* "Goodbye".
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 08:26:40 PM
That may be so, but I maintain that he deserves it more, for the comment about "coming back in 2-3 years, when this fling is over".
For that alone, he should be forced to whack off with a debriding glove.
I fucking threw up in my mouth when I heard that one.
I know what she has in her medicine cabinet, and I highly doubt he's using a condom.
Quote from: Suu on May 17, 2011, 08:37:06 PM
I fucking threw up in my mouth when I heard that one.
I know what she has in her medicine cabinet, and I highly doubt he's using a condom.
Don't give a damn, either way, he doesn't touch me again.
And if he does, you know there's a small army that want to break his arms.
So, she's got a cabinet full of Valtrex, eh?
TGRR,
Quick on the google.
Quote from: Suu on May 17, 2011, 08:45:07 PM
And if he does, you know there's a small army that want to break his arms.
Yep. I know this.
And THAT, friends and neighbors, is why I'll be sticking with the SCA.
Some won't take sides. I understand this. Some will continue to be civil and friendly to us both. I would not expect otherwise.
But when support is needed, they're there. And when an ass kicking is needed... Likewise.
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 08:46:34 PM
So, she's got a cabinet full of Valtrex, eh?
TGRR,
Quick on the google.
That's the report.
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 08:46:34 PM
So, she's got a cabinet full of Valtrex, eh?
TGRR,
Quick on the google.
Yep. NYEX IS aware of this.
He heard it from ME before he did from her.
Wow, he's really good at burning bridges. :lulz:
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 08:59:16 PM
Wow, he's really good at burning bridges. :lulz:
Spectacularly.
After they break up you should send him this: http://www.stdmatch.net/
He's on his own.
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:25:26 PM
He's on his own.
Dude, it would be funny. :lulz:
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 09:29:24 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:25:26 PM
He's on his own.
Dude, it would be funny. :lulz:
True, it'd be funny.
Right now, I'm making bets with myself on exactly who she's going to screw around on him with.
It'll either be her new boss at work, or someone with more prestige in the SCA. (My guess is that she thought that his position as a squire to a respected member of the chivalry would be her way back to some kind of respectability in the SCA... She doesn't realize that he was squired because he was seeing ME, so the household adopted HIM.) I expect she'll attempt a member of the chivalry, next.
She does, I'll tag her with the nickname "Crazy Cait II" so fast her head will spin.
I entirely unsurprised that site exists.
Oh gods a tin hat chaser? Ugh
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:32:44 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 09:29:24 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:25:26 PM
He's on his own.
Dude, it would be funny. :lulz:
True, it'd be funny.
Right now, I'm making bets with myself on exactly who she's going to screw around on him with.
It'll either be her new boss at work, or someone with more prestige in the SCA. (My guess is that she thought that his position as a squire to a respected member of the chivalry would be her way back to some kind of respectability in the SCA... She doesn't realize that he was squired because he was seeing ME, so the household adopted HIM.) I expect she'll attempt a member of the chivalry, next.
She does, I'll tag her with the nickname "Crazy Cait II" so fast her head will spin.
People screw around for position in the SCA? :lulz:
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 09:40:51 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:32:44 PM
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 09:29:24 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:25:26 PM
He's on his own.
Dude, it would be funny. :lulz:
True, it'd be funny.
Right now, I'm making bets with myself on exactly who she's going to screw around on him with.
It'll either be her new boss at work, or someone with more prestige in the SCA. (My guess is that she thought that his position as a squire to a respected member of the chivalry would be her way back to some kind of respectability in the SCA... She doesn't realize that he was squired because he was seeing ME, so the household adopted HIM.) I expect she'll attempt a member of the chivalry, next.
She does, I'll tag her with the nickname "Crazy Cait II" so fast her head will spin.
People screw around for position in the SCA? :lulz:
You have NO FUCKING CLUE.
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:40:18 PM
Oh gods a tin hat chaser? Ugh
I refer to them as "belt bimbos."
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 09:40:51 PM
People screw around for position in the SCA? :lulz:
Some have the mistaken impression that shagging someone of higher status confers that status upon them. Technically, it CAN work... if the person they're banging fights for them in crown and wins, she gets to be queen.
However, it is not uncommon to see somebody who could very well
win get his ass kicked, hard, because the lady for whom he fights would be, in the opinion of the other chivalry, unacceptable on the throne.
ETA: Suu, you know at least one of the guys I'm talking about, here.
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:46:23 PM
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:40:18 PM
Oh gods a tin hat chaser? Ugh
I refer to them as "belt bimbos."
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 09:40:51 PM
People screw around for position in the SCA? :lulz:
Some have the mistaken impression that shagging someone of higher status confers that status upon them. Technically, it CAN work... if the person they're banging fights for them in crown and wins, she gets to be queen.
However, it is not uncommon to see somebody who could very well win get his ass kicked, hard, because the lady for whom he fights would be, in the opinion of the other chivalry, unacceptable on the throne.
Yep, I have been in discussions where members of the Chiv will figure out who can beat the guy and make sure they're in Crown Tourney, not to win, just to keep the other guy from winning. Nice to know Midrealm isn't alone in that :D
I have yet to see a belt bimbo go after a green belt though :D
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:48:57 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:46:23 PM
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:40:18 PM
Oh gods a tin hat chaser? Ugh
I refer to them as "belt bimbos."
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 09:40:51 PM
People screw around for position in the SCA? :lulz:
Some have the mistaken impression that shagging someone of higher status confers that status upon them. Technically, it CAN work... if the person they're banging fights for them in crown and wins, she gets to be queen.
However, it is not uncommon to see somebody who could very well win get his ass kicked, hard, because the lady for whom he fights would be, in the opinion of the other chivalry, unacceptable on the throne.
Yep, I have been in discussions where members of the Chiv will figure out who can beat the guy and make sure they're in Crown Tourney, not to win, just to keep the other guy from winning. Nice to know Midrealm isn't alone in that :D
I have yet to see a belt bimbo go after a green belt though :D
They call it "voting." At least in the East, they're not SUPPOSED to do it, if you're not in Crown to win, you shouldn't be in there... but it happens.
I haven't seen them chase after green and yellow belts... but then, I don't hang with as many laurels or pelicans as I do chiv.
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He's on his own.
Dude, it would be funny. :lulz:
True, it'd be funny.
Right now, I'm making bets with myself on exactly who she's going to screw around on him with.
It'll either be her new boss at work, or someone with more prestige in the SCA. (My guess is that she thought that his position as a squire to a respected member of the chivalry would be her way back to some kind of respectability in the SCA... She doesn't realize that he was squired because he was seeing ME, so the household adopted HIM.) I expect she'll attempt a member of the chivalry, next.
She does, I'll tag her with the nickname "Crazy Cait II" so fast her head will spin.
People screw around for position in the SCA? :lulz:
The SCA is a complex social system and there are people with as much sleaze and poor political skill as there are in the real world. The ratio is thankfully lower, and the general response to that kind of sleaze is generally very negative from the rest of the group.
People in the SCA tend to push for ideals like honor and chivalry; belt chasers and the like often end up as the butt end of jokes and part of the general gossip.
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:52:54 PM
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:48:57 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:46:23 PM
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:40:18 PM
Oh gods a tin hat chaser? Ugh
I refer to them as "belt bimbos."
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 09:40:51 PM
People screw around for position in the SCA? :lulz:
Some have the mistaken impression that shagging someone of higher status confers that status upon them. Technically, it CAN work... if the person they're banging fights for them in crown and wins, she gets to be queen.
However, it is not uncommon to see somebody who could very well win get his ass kicked, hard, because the lady for whom he fights would be, in the opinion of the other chivalry, unacceptable on the throne.
Yep, I have been in discussions where members of the Chiv will figure out who can beat the guy and make sure they're in Crown Tourney, not to win, just to keep the other guy from winning. Nice to know Midrealm isn't alone in that :D
I have yet to see a belt bimbo go after a green belt though :D
They call it "voting." At least in the East, they're not SUPPOSED to do it, if you're not in Crown to win, you shouldn't be in there... but it happens.
I haven't seen them chase after green and yellow belts... but then, I don't hang with as many laurels or pelicans as I do chiv.
Yeah, I'll never have a white belt, but I hope someday to have a green one... but there's not really the hot swooning girls for poetry and cooking :D
ETA: Though when I was fencing in hose and a short houppelande, I got several nice comments :D
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:54:09 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:52:54 PM
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:48:57 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:46:23 PM
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:40:18 PM
Oh gods a tin hat chaser? Ugh
I refer to them as "belt bimbos."
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 09:40:51 PM
People screw around for position in the SCA? :lulz:
Some have the mistaken impression that shagging someone of higher status confers that status upon them. Technically, it CAN work... if the person they're banging fights for them in crown and wins, she gets to be queen.
However, it is not uncommon to see somebody who could very well win get his ass kicked, hard, because the lady for whom he fights would be, in the opinion of the other chivalry, unacceptable on the throne.
Yep, I have been in discussions where members of the Chiv will figure out who can beat the guy and make sure they're in Crown Tourney, not to win, just to keep the other guy from winning. Nice to know Midrealm isn't alone in that :D
I have yet to see a belt bimbo go after a green belt though :D
They call it "voting." At least in the East, they're not SUPPOSED to do it, if you're not in Crown to win, you shouldn't be in there... but it happens.
I haven't seen them chase after green and yellow belts... but then, I don't hang with as many laurels or pelicans as I do chiv.
Yeah, I'll never have a white belt, but I hope someday to have a green one... but there's not really the hot swooning girls for poetry and cooking :D
There may not be fickle belt bimbos lining up for cooking and poetry, but I happen to be fond of a man who knows his way around the kitchen and with a fine command of the language.
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:56:47 PM
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Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:48:57 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:46:23 PM
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:40:18 PM
Oh gods a tin hat chaser? Ugh
I refer to them as "belt bimbos."
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 09:40:51 PM
People screw around for position in the SCA? :lulz:
Some have the mistaken impression that shagging someone of higher status confers that status upon them. Technically, it CAN work... if the person they're banging fights for them in crown and wins, she gets to be queen.
However, it is not uncommon to see somebody who could very well win get his ass kicked, hard, because the lady for whom he fights would be, in the opinion of the other chivalry, unacceptable on the throne.
Yep, I have been in discussions where members of the Chiv will figure out who can beat the guy and make sure they're in Crown Tourney, not to win, just to keep the other guy from winning. Nice to know Midrealm isn't alone in that :D
I have yet to see a belt bimbo go after a green belt though :D
They call it "voting." At least in the East, they're not SUPPOSED to do it, if you're not in Crown to win, you shouldn't be in there... but it happens.
I haven't seen them chase after green and yellow belts... but then, I don't hang with as many laurels or pelicans as I do chiv.
Yeah, I'll never have a white belt, but I hope someday to have a green one... but there's not really the hot swooning girls for poetry and cooking :D
There may not be fickle belt bimbos lining up for cooking and poetry, but I happen to be fond of a man who knows his way around the kitchen and with a fine command of the language.
DAMN ME FOR MISSING PENNSIC THIS YEAR! :D
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:57:51 PM
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Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:54:09 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:52:54 PM
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:48:57 PM
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:46:23 PM
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:40:18 PM
Oh gods a tin hat chaser? Ugh
I refer to them as "belt bimbos."
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 09:40:51 PM
People screw around for position in the SCA? :lulz:
Some have the mistaken impression that shagging someone of higher status confers that status upon them. Technically, it CAN work... if the person they're banging fights for them in crown and wins, she gets to be queen.
However, it is not uncommon to see somebody who could very well win get his ass kicked, hard, because the lady for whom he fights would be, in the opinion of the other chivalry, unacceptable on the throne.
Yep, I have been in discussions where members of the Chiv will figure out who can beat the guy and make sure they're in Crown Tourney, not to win, just to keep the other guy from winning. Nice to know Midrealm isn't alone in that :D
I have yet to see a belt bimbo go after a green belt though :D
They call it "voting." At least in the East, they're not SUPPOSED to do it, if you're not in Crown to win, you shouldn't be in there... but it happens.
I haven't seen them chase after green and yellow belts... but then, I don't hang with as many laurels or pelicans as I do chiv.
Yeah, I'll never have a white belt, but I hope someday to have a green one... but there's not really the hot swooning girls for poetry and cooking :D
There may not be fickle belt bimbos lining up for cooking and poetry, but I happen to be fond of a man who knows his way around the kitchen and with a fine command of the language.
DAMN ME FOR MISSING PENNSIC THIS YEAR! :D
That is a pity, was looking forward to it. Richter and I were talking about bringing fencing gear to the meatup, just before you said you weren't coming, so we could all play. :p
Well my trip to Turkey went from 3 months to 6 weeks... so in theory I may still show up for a weekend, but that all depends on how crazy work is.
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 09:46:23 PM
Quote from: Bebek Sincap Ratatosk on May 17, 2011, 09:40:18 PM
Oh gods a tin hat chaser? Ugh
I refer to them as "belt bimbos."
Quote from: Nigel on May 17, 2011, 09:40:51 PM
People screw around for position in the SCA? :lulz:
Some have the mistaken impression that shagging someone of higher status confers that status upon them. Technically, it CAN work... if the person they're banging fights for them in crown and wins, she gets to be queen.
However, it is not uncommon to see somebody who could very well win get his ass kicked, hard, because the lady for whom he fights would be, in the opinion of the other chivalry, unacceptable on the throne.
ETA: Suu, you know at least one of the guys I'm talking about, here.
I know of 2.
I don't see guys all over my blue belt. Fuckers.
Then again, boy see fighter colors on girls and get intimidated. :)
I wonder if Sir Ankara ever got hit on? She's pretty, and she's also mean as fuck on the field.
And further reasons why I stepped away from the SCA :lulz:
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 10:27:49 PM
And further reasons why I stepped away from the SCA :lulz:
Hitting on female knights and getting the shit beat out of you?
Quote from: Suu on May 17, 2011, 10:35:04 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 10:27:49 PM
And further reasons why I stepped away from the SCA :lulz:
Hitting on female knights and getting the shit beat out of you?
No, the politicing and schemeing.
Female white belts are teh :fap:
Quote from: Suu on May 17, 2011, 10:35:04 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 10:27:49 PM
And further reasons why I stepped away from the SCA :lulz:
Hitting on female knights and getting the shit beat out of you?
Wait. What? They beat the shit out of anyone who hits on them?
Are you guys infested with Susan Brownmiller clones, or something?
No, we were just talking about belt bimbos and I was trying to see if it worked the other way. :lulz:
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 10:38:53 PM
Quote from: Suu on May 17, 2011, 10:35:04 PM
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 17, 2011, 10:27:49 PM
And further reasons why I stepped away from the SCA :lulz:
Hitting on female knights and getting the shit beat out of you?
No, the politicing and schemeing.
Female white belts are teh :fap:
You know, I want to run for baroness next term...and I keep thinking more and more how much of a bad idea it is....then a GREAT idea...and then an AWESOME IDEA.
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 10:41:33 PM
Wait. What? They beat the shit out of anyone who hits on them?
Are you guys infested with Susan Brownmiller clones, or something?
Nah, not really. Running joke.
The politics CAN be ignored, or danced around, if you don't want to deal with 'em. I ignore them, and they leave me alone, pretty much.
Quote from: Luna on May 17, 2011, 11:10:55 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on May 17, 2011, 10:41:33 PM
Wait. What? They beat the shit out of anyone who hits on them?
Are you guys infested with Susan Brownmiller clones, or something?
Nah, not really. Running joke.
The politics CAN be ignored, or danced around, if you don't want to deal with 'em. I ignore them, and they leave me alone, pretty much.
Kingdom level politics killed my barony for a long while when it killed off light weapon, which then made a sizable portion of the population just stop going to the few barony level events.
'WHOOPS SORRY UR NOT PERIOD ENUF 4 US LOL I R STICKJOCK WIFF POINTY HAT WUT I SAY GOZ!!!"
"Lol ok. Have fun setting up events without all the young people helping you set your shit up kkthanxbai"
Coyote, still slightly pissed about it, and not really willing to deal with the majority of stickjocks, wire weenies and pointy hats and their stupid monkyisms.
Yeah, that'd suck, given that I fence, now, and haven't picked up rattan seriously in years.
I just don't need those kind of bruises any more.
The NYEX, however, is apparently getting back into heavy, he had his gear out when I had to stop by the house Monday. This suits me just fine. If he stays on the heavy field, and I stay on the light, we can keep away from each other fairly easily.
Quote from: Luna on May 18, 2011, 03:28:30 AM
Yeah, that'd suck, given that I fence, now, and haven't picked up rattan seriously in years.
I just don't need those kind of bruises any more.
The NYEX, however, is apparently getting back into heavy, he had his gear out when I had to stop by the house Monday. This suits me just fine. If he stays on the heavy field, and I stay on the light, we can keep away from each other fairly easily.
HE IS TAKING UP HEAVIES?!?!?!?!?!
Some how I think he is going to get a series of severe thumpings. :lulz:
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 18, 2011, 03:30:29 AM
Quote from: Luna on May 18, 2011, 03:28:30 AM
Yeah, that'd suck, given that I fence, now, and haven't picked up rattan seriously in years.
I just don't need those kind of bruises any more.
The NYEX, however, is apparently getting back into heavy, he had his gear out when I had to stop by the house Monday. This suits me just fine. If he stays on the heavy field, and I stay on the light, we can keep away from each other fairly easily.
HE IS TAKING UP HEAVIES?!?!?!?!?!
Some how I think he is going to get a series of severe thumpings. :lulz:
He has been fighting heavy for a LONG time, just been out for a bit due to injuries. He's always dropped in and out, this is normal for him. How badly he's thumped is not my problem. I have not done anything horrible, like, say, promise a Guinness per bruise. That would be badwrong.
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Yeah, that'd suck, given that I fence, now, and haven't picked up rattan seriously in years.
I just don't need those kind of bruises any more.
The NYEX, however, is apparently getting back into heavy, he had his gear out when I had to stop by the house Monday. This suits me just fine. If he stays on the heavy field, and I stay on the light, we can keep away from each other fairly easily.
HE IS TAKING UP HEAVIES?!?!?!?!?!
Some how I think he is going to get a series of severe thumpings. :lulz:
He has been fighting heavy for a LONG time, just been out for a bit due to injuries. He's always dropped in and out, this is normal for him. How badly he's thumped is not my problem. I have not done anything horrible, like, say, promise a Guinness per bruise. That would be badwrong.
It would be a terrible shame! :lulz: :lulz: :lulz: :lulz: :lulz:
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Quote from: Luna on May 18, 2011, 03:28:30 AM
Yeah, that'd suck, given that I fence, now, and haven't picked up rattan seriously in years.
I just don't need those kind of bruises any more.
The NYEX, however, is apparently getting back into heavy, he had his gear out when I had to stop by the house Monday. This suits me just fine. If he stays on the heavy field, and I stay on the light, we can keep away from each other fairly easily.
HE IS TAKING UP HEAVIES?!?!?!?!?!
Some how I think he is going to get a series of severe thumpings. :lulz:
He has been fighting heavy for a LONG time, just been out for a bit due to injuries. He's always dropped in and out, this is normal for him. How badly he's thumped is not my problem. I have not done anything horrible, like, say, promise a Guinness per bruise. That would be badwrong.
You would never do such a thing. Ever. :lulz:
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 18, 2011, 03:37:54 AM
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Quote from: Luna on May 18, 2011, 03:28:30 AM
Yeah, that'd suck, given that I fence, now, and haven't picked up rattan seriously in years.
I just don't need those kind of bruises any more.
The NYEX, however, is apparently getting back into heavy, he had his gear out when I had to stop by the house Monday. This suits me just fine. If he stays on the heavy field, and I stay on the light, we can keep away from each other fairly easily.
HE IS TAKING UP HEAVIES?!?!?!?!?!
Some how I think he is going to get a series of severe thumpings. :lulz:
He has been fighting heavy for a LONG time, just been out for a bit due to injuries. He's always dropped in and out, this is normal for him. How badly he's thumped is not my problem. I have not done anything horrible, like, say, promise a Guinness per bruise. That would be badwrong.
You would never do such a thing. Ever. :lulz:
Actually, I wouldn't. Not going to encourage my friends to deliberately hurt someone.
If they come up with the idea on their own, not my problem... but I won't encourage it.
Now, if the fuckmuppet decides to get into armor, I may break out my old kit for serious.
Quote from: Luna on May 18, 2011, 03:41:27 AM
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Yeah, that'd suck, given that I fence, now, and haven't picked up rattan seriously in years.
I just don't need those kind of bruises any more.
The NYEX, however, is apparently getting back into heavy, he had his gear out when I had to stop by the house Monday. This suits me just fine. If he stays on the heavy field, and I stay on the light, we can keep away from each other fairly easily.
HE IS TAKING UP HEAVIES?!?!?!?!?!
Some how I think he is going to get a series of severe thumpings. :lulz:
He has been fighting heavy for a LONG time, just been out for a bit due to injuries. He's always dropped in and out, this is normal for him. How badly he's thumped is not my problem. I have not done anything horrible, like, say, promise a Guinness per bruise. That would be badwrong.
You would never do such a thing. Ever. :lulz:
Actually, I wouldn't. Not going to encourage my friends to deliberately hurt someone.
If they come up with the idea on their own, not my problem... but I won't encourage it.
Now, if the fuckmuppet decides to get into armor, I may break out my old kit for serious.
I would. But I am horrible human being.
Quote from: Canis latrans securis on May 18, 2011, 03:43:27 AM
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Yeah, that'd suck, given that I fence, now, and haven't picked up rattan seriously in years.
I just don't need those kind of bruises any more.
The NYEX, however, is apparently getting back into heavy, he had his gear out when I had to stop by the house Monday. This suits me just fine. If he stays on the heavy field, and I stay on the light, we can keep away from each other fairly easily.
HE IS TAKING UP HEAVIES?!?!?!?!?!
Some how I think he is going to get a series of severe thumpings. :lulz:
He has been fighting heavy for a LONG time, just been out for a bit due to injuries. He's always dropped in and out, this is normal for him. How badly he's thumped is not my problem. I have not done anything horrible, like, say, promise a Guinness per bruise. That would be badwrong.
You would never do such a thing. Ever. :lulz:
Actually, I wouldn't. Not going to encourage my friends to deliberately hurt someone.
If they come up with the idea on their own, not my problem... but I won't encourage it.
Now, if the fuckmuppet decides to get into armor, I may break out my old kit for serious.
I would. But I am horrible human being.
My malice gland is underdeveloped.
Besides, if I want him broken, I'll do it myself.
Quote from: Luna on May 18, 2011, 03:45:54 AM
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Yeah, that'd suck, given that I fence, now, and haven't picked up rattan seriously in years.
I just don't need those kind of bruises any more.
The NYEX, however, is apparently getting back into heavy, he had his gear out when I had to stop by the house Monday. This suits me just fine. If he stays on the heavy field, and I stay on the light, we can keep away from each other fairly easily.
HE IS TAKING UP HEAVIES?!?!?!?!?!
Some how I think he is going to get a series of severe thumpings. :lulz:
He has been fighting heavy for a LONG time, just been out for a bit due to injuries. He's always dropped in and out, this is normal for him. How badly he's thumped is not my problem. I have not done anything horrible, like, say, promise a Guinness per bruise. That would be badwrong.
You would never do such a thing. Ever. :lulz:
Actually, I wouldn't. Not going to encourage my friends to deliberately hurt someone.
If they come up with the idea on their own, not my problem... but I won't encourage it.
Now, if the fuckmuppet decides to get into armor, I may break out my old kit for serious.
I would. But I am horrible human being.
My malice gland is underdeveloped.
Besides, if I want him broken, I'll do it myself.
I would too, but I have no qualms about enlisting aid in inflicting harm.
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Yeah, that'd suck, given that I fence, now, and haven't picked up rattan seriously in years.
I just don't need those kind of bruises any more.
The NYEX, however, is apparently getting back into heavy, he had his gear out when I had to stop by the house Monday. This suits me just fine. If he stays on the heavy field, and I stay on the light, we can keep away from each other fairly easily.
HE IS TAKING UP HEAVIES?!?!?!?!?!
Some how I think he is going to get a series of severe thumpings. :lulz:
He has been fighting heavy for a LONG time, just been out for a bit due to injuries. He's always dropped in and out, this is normal for him. How badly he's thumped is not my problem. I have not done anything horrible, like, say, promise a Guinness per bruise. That would be badwrong.
You would never do such a thing. Ever. :lulz:
Actually, I wouldn't. Not going to encourage my friends to deliberately hurt someone.
If they come up with the idea on their own, not my problem... but I won't encourage it.
Now, if the fuckmuppet decides to get into armor, I may break out my old kit for serious.
I would. But I am horrible human being.
My malice gland is underdeveloped.
Besides, if I want him broken, I'll do it myself.
I would too, but I have no qualms about enlisting aid in inflicting harm.
I wouldn't have to promise beer, really. But, here's the thing. Say I DO make a comment that I'd give a beer to the first guy who lays a bruise on him larger than 3" in diameter. Something stupid happens (always possible in armor) and he gets his stupid arm broken. Now everybody looks at the guy who hit him and thinks he MEANT to do it, and that I put him up to it.
Nope. Not worth it.
So after your event or whatever, take the dude who beat him hardest aside and ask him if he wants a beer.
Quote from: Jenkem and Tomahawks on May 18, 2011, 03:54:56 AM
So after your event or whatever, take the dude who beat him hardest aside and ask him if he wants a beer.
I would... Except I'm going to be too busy having fun fencing to sit around the heavy list field an watch who clubs him the hardest.
Besides, guys aren't a whole lot of fun after they've been out on the heavy field for awhile. Let 'em get back to camp, shower, and rest awhile, or they're darn near useless.