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Started by AFK, September 10, 2012, 11:27:46 AM

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AFK

Yeah, I have this silly habit of using words the way they are defined in dictionaries, I can see how that would upset people.


Maybe I'm just an odd duck, I don't wish death, serious or in jest, simply when I disagree with someone.  It's disrespectful and definitely closes off debate.  If you can't handle debate without getting hot under the collar, then go find something else to do.  I WILL state my opinions whatever they are, I don't require anyone's approval and care less if I get it, but anyone who is going to consider themselves a Discordian should have a bit more resolve and stability than to try to squash debate simply because they disagree.
Cynicism is a blank check for failure.

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Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on September 10, 2012, 03:07:41 PM
Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 12:07:49 PM
Some points of view shouldn't be tolerated.

Repulsive opinions ought to be mercilessly mocked, raged at, and viciously satirized.

Yeah.  "I keep my wife in line" would be one of those.

In THIS case, however, you are mercilessly mocking, raging, and viciously satirizing people who disagree on one fine point of a larger argument.

It's become a fucking religion.

Maybe.
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The Good Reverend Roger

Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 04:22:16 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on September 10, 2012, 03:07:41 PM
Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 12:07:49 PM
Some points of view shouldn't be tolerated.

Repulsive opinions ought to be mercilessly mocked, raged at, and viciously satirized.

Yeah.  "I keep my wife in line" would be one of those.

In THIS case, however, you are mercilessly mocking, raging, and viciously satirizing people who disagree on one fine point of a larger argument.

It's become a fucking religion.

Maybe.

In my opinion, it has.  We look like Pastafarians, only with feminism instead of atheism.  It's damn near all we talk about, and it's become bitter, angry, and toxic.
" It's just that Depeche Mode were a bunch of optimistic loveburgers."
- TGRR, shaming himself forever, 7/8/2017

"Billy, when I say that ethics is our number one priority and safety is also our number one priority, you should take that to mean exactly what I said. Also quality. That's our number one priority as well. Don't look at me that way, you're in the corporate world now and this is how it works."
- TGRR, raising the bar at work.

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Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on September 10, 2012, 04:26:30 PM
Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 04:22:16 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on September 10, 2012, 03:07:41 PM
Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 12:07:49 PM
Some points of view shouldn't be tolerated.

Repulsive opinions ought to be mercilessly mocked, raged at, and viciously satirized.

Yeah.  "I keep my wife in line" would be one of those.

In THIS case, however, you are mercilessly mocking, raging, and viciously satirizing people who disagree on one fine point of a larger argument.

It's become a fucking religion.

Maybe.

In my opinion, it has.  We look like Pastafarians, only with feminism instead of atheism.  It's damn near all we talk about, and it's become bitter, angry, and toxic.

It will run its course.

There's nothing stopping you from starting new topics or dusting off some excellent material and developing it though, is there?
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Quote from: Rev. What's-His-Name? on September 10, 2012, 04:21:34 PM
[...] but anyone who is going to consider themselves a Discordian should [...]

:lulz:
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AFK

Uh, weren't you just bellyaching about someone removing context from one of your posts?
Cynicism is a blank check for failure.

Verbal Mike

I just looked at it again in context, and it looks just as lulzy.

Anyway, you're right about wishing someone they die. I didn't mean it that literally, I guess, but it was wrong either way.
Unless stated otherwise, feel free to copy or reproduce any text I post anywhere and any way you like. I will never throw a hissy-fit over it, promise.

The Good Reverend Roger

Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 04:41:29 PM

It will run its course.

So does a meatgrinder.

QuoteThere's nothing stopping you from starting new topics or dusting off some excellent material and developing it though, is there?

Yes, there is.  I've lost my muse.
" It's just that Depeche Mode were a bunch of optimistic loveburgers."
- TGRR, shaming himself forever, 7/8/2017

"Billy, when I say that ethics is our number one priority and safety is also our number one priority, you should take that to mean exactly what I said. Also quality. That's our number one priority as well. Don't look at me that way, you're in the corporate world now and this is how it works."
- TGRR, raising the bar at work.

The Good Reverend Roger

Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 03:43:37 PM

Uh, yeah, ignoring my other sentence distorts its meaning.

How?  I mean, I know HOW it can happen, but in this case the distortion caused the message to turn from what to what?
" It's just that Depeche Mode were a bunch of optimistic loveburgers."
- TGRR, shaming himself forever, 7/8/2017

"Billy, when I say that ethics is our number one priority and safety is also our number one priority, you should take that to mean exactly what I said. Also quality. That's our number one priority as well. Don't look at me that way, you're in the corporate world now and this is how it works."
- TGRR, raising the bar at work.

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Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on September 10, 2012, 05:48:11 PM
Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 03:43:37 PM

Uh, yeah, ignoring my other sentence distorts its meaning.

How?  I mean, I know HOW it can happen, but in this case the distortion caused the message to turn from what to what?

Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 03:43:37 PM
I qualified that sentence with examples of not tolerating opinions via counter-speech, not censorship or force.

How is that Calvinist?
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The Good Reverend Roger

Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 06:16:54 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on September 10, 2012, 05:48:11 PM
Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 03:43:37 PM

Uh, yeah, ignoring my other sentence distorts its meaning.

How?  I mean, I know HOW it can happen, but in this case the distortion caused the message to turn from what to what?

Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 03:43:37 PM
I qualified that sentence with examples of not tolerating opinions via counter-speech, not censorship or force.

How is that Calvinist?

It is LIKE Calvinism.  RWHN's argument was not "feminism is wrong, get back in the kitchen", it was "I disagree that gender is the largest factor."  For that, he should be treated as you described?  Mocked, ridiculed, not tolerated?

What is the motivation, here?  To work towards equality, or make everyone agree on every detail?  Which is more important?  Results, or perfect adherence to groupthink?
" It's just that Depeche Mode were a bunch of optimistic loveburgers."
- TGRR, shaming himself forever, 7/8/2017

"Billy, when I say that ethics is our number one priority and safety is also our number one priority, you should take that to mean exactly what I said. Also quality. That's our number one priority as well. Don't look at me that way, you're in the corporate world now and this is how it works."
- TGRR, raising the bar at work.

AFK

No, feminism isn't wrong, and I strive to be an ally, I just don't want to see people lost along the way because they feel they too aren't allowed to be an ally, or, that they are an ally with baggage.  But please, yes, let's keep,working on gender equality.  I DO have a wife and daughter.  I want my daughter to have every opportunity in the world available to her, and I'll personally stomp anyone who gets in her way, male, female, or otherwise.
Cynicism is a blank check for failure.

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Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on September 10, 2012, 06:41:16 PM
Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 06:16:54 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on September 10, 2012, 05:48:11 PM
Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 03:43:37 PM

Uh, yeah, ignoring my other sentence distorts its meaning.

How?  I mean, I know HOW it can happen, but in this case the distortion caused the message to turn from what to what?

Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 03:43:37 PM
I qualified that sentence with examples of not tolerating opinions via counter-speech, not censorship or force.

How is that Calvinist?

It is LIKE Calvinism.  RWHN's argument was not "feminism is wrong, get back in the kitchen", it was "I disagree that gender is the largest factor."  For that, he should be treated as you described?  Mocked, ridiculed, not tolerated?

What is the motivation, here?  To work towards equality, or make everyone agree on every detail?  Which is more important?  Results, or perfect adherence to groupthink?

No, I didn't articulate myself very carefully.

Opinions and ideas ought to be lambasted, not the person.
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tyrannosaurus vex

Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 06:45:46 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on September 10, 2012, 06:41:16 PM
Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 06:16:54 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on September 10, 2012, 05:48:11 PM
Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 03:43:37 PM

Uh, yeah, ignoring my other sentence distorts its meaning.

How?  I mean, I know HOW it can happen, but in this case the distortion caused the message to turn from what to what?

Quote from: Net on September 10, 2012, 03:43:37 PM
I qualified that sentence with examples of not tolerating opinions via counter-speech, not censorship or force.

How is that Calvinist?

It is LIKE Calvinism.  RWHN's argument was not "feminism is wrong, get back in the kitchen", it was "I disagree that gender is the largest factor."  For that, he should be treated as you described?  Mocked, ridiculed, not tolerated?

What is the motivation, here?  To work towards equality, or make everyone agree on every detail?  Which is more important?  Results, or perfect adherence to groupthink?

No, I didn't articulate myself very carefully.

Opinions and ideas ought to be lambasted, not the person.

To a point, I agree. But when it becomes lambasting ideas just because they don't mesh with your ideas, you've crossed a line. That's why it's important to consider opposing viewpoints. Maybe they know about something you hadn't considered, or maybe you can work with their ideas and your ideas and create some kind of undead Frankenbelief that has legs of its own.

Also the lambasting gets in the way of realizing you're talking past each other, like what happened in RWHN's posts where everyone assumed he was saying there's no such thing as male privilege, but he was actually saying male privilege doesn't cross class lines.
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