Fine, I think we're ready for that ridiculously over-consumed punch-line: given how I'm not yet equipped to do better, the best I can be is a serial monogamist. That is not to say polyamory beats swinging, I just want to figure how holy a threesome needs to be in order to count for either, or, how fast can I switch between partners before I no longer qualify for monogamy. But there I go, lowering the bar again, right? Just say the word and I'm out.So what exactly is a swinger?
Urban dictionary just says someone who sleeps around, but I didn't think there's communities of that.
Otherwise monogamous couples who like to have sex with other people. Differs from poly because it's pretty much just sex.
That's weird as fuck. How can you enjoy sex when it's with someone you just met?
Oh, there are swinger clubs, where everybody knows each other. And group sex, etc.
The rule is that you can't get emotionally attached to people other than your main partner. Just fuck them.
Um, maybe it's just my view, but isn't sex without emotions even less pleasuring then masterbation?
Some people seem to be into that. Personally, I've tried it, and it just makes me feel weird and depressed. Like, sex is supposed to be a bonding thing for us humans, it's one of the things that it does naturally, and while it's possible to disconnect the chemical sensations from the person I'm having them with, it seems to be really not good for me psychologically at all.
What the fuck is even wrong with you? You just seem to be here to snipe at other people's sexuality and relationship preferences. None of this has ANYTHING to do with "holiness" or monogamy being better than polyamory or any such shit, the whole conversation is about people violating other people's boundaries. Which you seem to be all about, given your posts in here. Fuck off.