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What I said to Alty was wrong. I let the rage get a hold of me, in my time of stress, and it resulted in exactly was I deserved. I have since apologized to him. Here is the proof:




As you can see, I stated in that that I wish you the best. Here is why:

In the other thread, you insisted on attacking the book I wrote, for no other reason than that you were mad at me. As we have dually discovered, anger makes people say and do shitty things. But I am not asking you for an apology. My art is not for everyone. Iím not the Great American Novelist, I made no attempt to be. What I did was an expression of my emotions at the time and it was a way out of a rough situation. That relationship is long over, the story is not, and Iím continuing it. You insist on psychoanalyzing me based on my prose, assuming that it was a way to self-aggrandize. Actually, writing that made me feel pretty shitty about myself and the whole situation I got myself into being a stupid hopeless romantic. It didnít just act as an outlet for my anger, but it also was a wake-up call.

Much like Iím sure the art installations youíve made for your exes did for you. I remember the skeleton for your ex-husband, and the pictures of you crying for Mr. Language, both of which I thought were awesome. No, really, Iím not saying that as a way to patch up, they were awesome. Why? Because you found a creative outlet for your anger and emotions, thatís why. Okay, I admit to laughing over the crying pictures, but I laughed because thatís what was triggered. I wasnít laughing at your pain, I know that pain. That same pain is what made me write the book, as stupid as my choices were to get there. I cried like that. Crying makes us look like idiots. It makes us look weak and unwilling. Hiding behind a piece of art makes us look productive. That is what being an artist is about. If it wasnít for our power to create, bad things can happen. Bad things like saying really terrible things to a person half a world away because Iím having a shitty night and he threw me off the deep end.

None of this matters, though, right? I said something unforgivable, and Iím not asking for that. I havenít forgiven several people in my life, mostly because they fucking deserve my cold shoulder and Iím not of the mind to forgive all. I am not some savior, Iím a raging bitch, and I reserve that right.

I wonít be posting on this board any longer. Thereís no reason. Itís distracting me from the goals I have in life, such as getting this masterís degree, and being a solid rock in my husbandís life while we deal with the curve balls the Navy is already throwing at us. I guess that means itís time for me to grow up.  As far as Iím concerned, the Mods can delete my account as soon as I post this.

Good luck on getting your doctorate.

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He's my gory details, less gory than Roger's:

Alty lamented his lack of friends in open bar, and I simply said, as we all have in the past, as a joke, that he should move. He went on the defensive, and then made this thread, with apparently no intention of calling me out, but still calling me out, because he made the fucking thread.

At this point, Roger and I were sharing WTFs in IM, while I consoled him about his daughter. I was willing to be okay with Alty, and even posted a, "Dude, if you need to talk, I can give you my number" post in Open Bar, but when I saw this, all bets were off. He couldn't have just said, "Suu, joke is old. Stop." Or even a more positive, "Hey Suu, thanks for replying to my melodramatic shitstorm of a life, that means you actually care."

No. He made another thread to call me out.

I don't have enough fucking patience in my life to deal with this level of assholicism. If he didn't want to get a response to his lamenting in Open Bar, he shouldn't have fucking posted to begin with. He's not the only person who had to deal with an abusive marriage, and I get that, I really do, and I was no fucking saint on this board after my divorce, but the limit has been reached. As far as Roger and I go. YMMV.

I'm going to write some papers now.

You overreacted, badly, and said something that is pretty close to completely unforgivable to someone who is stressed and depressed. I'm not saying that Alty was right or that his behavior was grand... you can go to page 1 of this thread to see what I have to say about that, but in no way, shape, or form was his passive-aggressive response to once again getting blamed for his own situation (yes, that IS what it comes across as when people tell him to move) deserving of being told to kill himself.

If you are neither a coward nor a shitty human being, you should be able to see that. Until then, go fuck yourself, you suck.

I already noted earlier than what i said was fucking wrong, I was heated and lost in the moment. Roger and I were both were.

But it's cute for Nigel to be angry, it's not cute for Suu to be angry.

As for the TDS groups, I don't have that kind of energy those fucktards do just to make your life miserable.

Later.



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He's my gory details, less gory than Roger's:

Alty lamented his lack of friends in open bar, and I simply said, as we all have in the past, as a joke, that he should move. He went on the defensive, and then made this thread, with apparently no intention of calling me out, but still calling me out, because he made the fucking thread.

At this point, Roger and I were sharing WTFs in IM, while I consoled him about his daughter. I was willing to be okay with Alty, and even posted a, "Dude, if you need to talk, I can give you my number" post in Open Bar, but when I saw this, all bets were off. He couldn't have just said, "Suu, joke is old. Stop." Or even a more positive, "Hey Suu, thanks for replying to my melodramatic shitstorm of a life, that means you actually care."

No. He made another thread to call me out.

I don't have enough fucking patience in my life to deal with this level of assholicism. If he didn't want to get a response to his lamenting in Open Bar, he shouldn't have fucking posted to begin with. He's not the only person who had to deal with an abusive marriage, and I get that, I really do, and I was no fucking saint on this board after my divorce, but the limit has been reached. As far as Roger and I go. YMMV.

I'm going to write some papers now.

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You know I'm on your side with this. Because I'm equally a terrible fucking human being.

Well, we can be asshats together, then.

:asshat:

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You know I'm on your side with this. Because I'm equally a terrible fucking human being.

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Missed my bus so I stayed home from class today (afternoon class was canceled and the morning class is only an hour long anyway) so I'm watching my professor's lectures on Youtube.

It's just as well, because I fucked up my hand on Saturday by getting my pinkie stuck in a door handle while I was walking and almost dislocating it. I'm a goddamn genius. Fear me.

Those fucking door handles.  :argh!:

Almost as annoying as that cunt, gravity.

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Oy, in completely unrelated news, my friend and I just caught a well known "academic" of Roman hair stealing her work on jewelry. She made a video of a tutorial and posted it on Youtube without crediting Konstantia. I called her out on it, and had my post completely deleted. Konstantia took a passive approach, and posted links to her own tutorial, and they were never approved to be shown. Now we have screenshots.

Ruining somebody's career in 3...2...1...

Sounds like she ruined it herself.

She's playing nice for now. She's sending her a message about it. If it can't  be cleared up this way, then it's going to the next level.

I'm stunned she's willing to risk gaining a reputation as a plagiarist rather than simply editing a credit into the video. What a dumbass.

That's the thing. We talked to a lawyer-friend last night, and he said it's still too "coincidental" without absolute proof, because she's stealing a process, and not an actual design, per se. However, in one point in the video, she says, nearly verbatim, what my friend's blog says about 18g wire. So either that's one hell of a fucking coincidence, or she's an intellectual thief.

We've also started putting stuff out on Facebook in hopes that it goes viral.

Even if legally there isn't a leg to stand on, I'd still recommend the viral route.  A blog or tumblr for easy linking purposes wouldn't go amiss either.

That's the issue we're running into right now. Apparently a process cannot be copyrighted per Youtube's terms. But saying things verbatim from a blog post, and then not crediting said post, and blocking comments from those linking it, that's all shady business.

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So, If I'm reading the last few pages correctly there's a substantial market for a "Slap some fucking sense into you" business.

It's a growth area and I'm looking to hire 5 or 6 Attitude Correction operatives by the end of the year. A firm backhand is a must.

Is this a salaried or contract position? I'm looking for part time work.

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He totally flounced, and blocked me on FB, and Howl blocked him.

We're kinda beyond done.

It was very wrong to say what I did, but he hit a nerve last night I didn't know I had. I said one thing, as a rub, and he went off the handle. That's the last time I try being nice to him.

Show me where you see him "flying off the handle" please. Because I'm curious to know how much it takes for you to call him a whiny cunt, tell him to fuck off, and to nut up or shut up.

Are you referring to this thread? When other members of the board ask us not to do a certain behavior, such as Nigel with unsolicited advice, we generally stop. Alty, meanwhile, specifically asked everyone NOT TO DO THIS ONE THING and yet had it continue happening, time after time, for nearly a year.

I don't remember him ever telling anyone to not give him advice. If he didn't want replies, he shouldn't have fucking posted in the first place.

It takes A LOT to piss me off, A LOT. I'm no fucking saint on this board, but I was done. It came down to the Doktor and I talking via IM. I even tried to smooth shit over and tell him to chill out, offered him my number if he really needed to talk to someone, and I got blown off.

He doesn't want help, he wants an audience to his whining.

All of this is in Open Bar.

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Oy, in completely unrelated news, my friend and I just caught a well known "academic" of Roman hair stealing her work on jewelry. She made a video of a tutorial and posted it on Youtube without crediting Konstantia. I called her out on it, and had my post completely deleted. Konstantia took a passive approach, and posted links to her own tutorial, and they were never approved to be shown. Now we have screenshots.

Ruining somebody's career in 3...2...1...

Sounds like she ruined it herself.

She's playing nice for now. She's sending her a message about it. If it can't  be cleared up this way, then it's going to the next level.

I'm stunned she's willing to risk gaining a reputation as a plagiarist rather than simply editing a credit into the video. What a dumbass.

That's the thing. We talked to a lawyer-friend last night, and he said it's still too "coincidental" without absolute proof, because she's stealing a process, and not an actual design, per se. However, in one point in the video, she says, nearly verbatim, what my friend's blog says about 18g wire. So either that's one hell of a fucking coincidence, or she's an intellectual thief.

We've also started putting stuff out on Facebook in hopes that it goes viral.

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He totally flounced, and blocked me on FB, and Howl blocked him.

We're kinda beyond done.

It was very wrong to say what I did, but he hit a nerve last night I didn't know I had. I said one thing, as a rub, and he went off the handle. That's the last time I try being nice to him.

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Oy, in completely unrelated news, my friend and I just caught a well known "academic" of Roman hair stealing her work on jewelry. She made a video of a tutorial and posted it on Youtube without crediting Konstantia. I called her out on it, and had my post completely deleted. Konstantia took a passive approach, and posted links to her own tutorial, and they were never approved to be shown. Now we have screenshots.

Ruining somebody's career in 3...2...1...

Sounds like she ruined it herself.

She's playing nice for now. She's sending her a message about it. If it can't  be cleared up this way, then it's going to the next level.

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Oy, in completely unrelated news, my friend and I just caught a well known "academic" of Roman hair stealing her work on jewelry. She made a video of a tutorial and posted it on Youtube without crediting Konstantia. I called her out on it, and had my post completely deleted. Konstantia took a passive approach, and posted links to her own tutorial, and they were never approved to be shown. Now we have screenshots.

Ruining somebody's career in 3...2...1...

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She'll get over that one when she finally moves out and has to start paying bills. Until then, you're the worst dad EVER.

I was also horrible enough to point out that she'll be inducted into the military long before her first lease is up, which means she strands her friend, which is a pretty shitty thing to do.

At that point, the conversation ended.

Checkmate.

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She'll get over that one when she finally moves out and has to start paying bills. Until then, you're the worst dad EVER.

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