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The Richard Nixon school of ballet and the arts / Re: Swingers
« on: Yesterday at 01:01:41 pm »
So what exactly is a swinger?

Urban dictionary just says someone who sleeps around, but I didn't think there's communities of that.

Otherwise monogamous couples who like to have sex with other people. Differs from poly because it's pretty much just sex.


That's weird as fuck. How can you enjoy sex when it's with someone you just met?

Oh, there are swinger clubs, where everybody knows each other. And group sex, etc.

The rule is that you can't get emotionally attached to people other than your main partner. Just fuck them.

Um, maybe it's just my view, but isn't sex without emotions even less pleasuring then masterbation?

Some people seem to be into that. Personally, I've tried it, and it just makes me feel weird and depressed. Like, sex is supposed to be a bonding thing for us humans, it's one of the things that it does naturally, and while it's possible to disconnect the chemical sensations from the person I'm having them with, it seems to be really not good for me psychologically at all.
Fine, I think we're ready for that ridiculously over-consumed punch-line:  given how I'm not yet equipped to do better, the best I can be is a serial monogamist.  That is not to say polyamory beats swinging, I just want to figure how holy a threesome needs to be in order to count for either, or, how fast can I switch between partners before I no longer qualify for monogamy.  But there I go, lowering the bar again, right?  Just say the word and I'm out.

What the fuck is even wrong with you? You just seem to be here to snipe at other people's  sexuality and relationship preferences. None of this has ANYTHING to do with "holiness" or monogamy being better than polyamory or any such shit, the whole conversation is about people violating other people's boundaries. Which you seem to be all about, given your posts in here. Fuck off.

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The Richard Nixon school of ballet and the arts / Re: Swingers
« on: Yesterday at 02:01:22 am »
So what exactly is a swinger?

Urban dictionary just says someone who sleeps around, but I didn't think there's communities of that.

Otherwise monogamous couples who like to have sex with other people. Differs from poly because it's pretty much just sex.


That's weird as fuck. How can you enjoy sex when it's with someone you just met?

Oh, there are swinger clubs, where everybody knows each other. And group sex, etc.

The rule is that you can't get emotionally attached to people other than your main partner. Just fuck them.

Um, maybe it's just my view, but isn't sex without emotions even less pleasuring then masterbation?

Some people seem to be into that. Personally, I've tried it, and it just makes me feel weird and depressed. Like, sex is supposed to be a bonding thing for us humans, it's one of the things that it does naturally, and while it's possible to disconnect the chemical sensations from the person I'm having them with, it seems to be really not good for me psychologically at all.

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Ooooh, that's good! Dark.

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Hi PD! Long time no see. How are the kids? Your aunt's hairy growth return? Who farted?

HI YOU'RE BACK! YAY!

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I don't think it should be outright banned, but there should be guide lines. Like no practicing for more than 40 hours a week or something.

No overtime for tots?

40 hours is an adult work week...

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What about child-shaming videos? Those aren't technically entertainment. They're shining examples of parents getting this discipline thing right...at least according to the disgusting shit that comes across my FB feed on the daily.

That, in my opinion, is flat-out bullying... which when it comes from the parents is child abuse.

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The Richard Nixon school of ballet and the arts / Re: Swingers
« on: Yesterday at 12:35:55 am »
So what exactly is a swinger?

Urban dictionary just says someone who sleeps around, but I didn't think there's communities of that.

Otherwise monogamous couples who like to have sex with other people. Differs from poly because it's pretty much just sex.


That's weird as fuck. How can you enjoy sex when it's with someone you just met?

Oh, there are swinger clubs, where everybody knows each other. And group sex, etc.

The rule is that you can't get emotionally attached to people other than your main partner. Just fuck them.

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The Richard Nixon school of ballet and the arts / Re: Swingers
« on: Yesterday at 12:34:38 am »
An ex and I turned down several invitations to swinger parties from this couple. We finally accepted one to a "kid friendly" party they were hosting. Felt a bit ambushed there. Kid friendly just meant that instead of a party with swinging, it was a party about swinging. About the time the host hubby says to me, "No offense, but I've seen your girlfriend's tits," it was time to go. Very, very, much time to fucking go.

I wonder sometimes, if there isn't a great deal of overlap between malice and cluelessness.

I seriously wonder that, as well. The thing with my housemate actually being LIED TO to get him to go was fucking horrifying. The whole "if I can just get them there, they'll realize they like it, once they relax a little" thing is just kind of rapey.

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The Richard Nixon school of ballet and the arts / Re: Swingers
« on: Yesterday at 12:32:32 am »
ITT: Privilege is more prevelant than you think.

What do you mean?

Also curious.

It's just that the attitude of the swingers in the OP seemed to align pretty closely with how some people are completely unaware of the unspoken dynamics in a situation.

Yeah, they seem bizarrely, almost obtusely clueless. It's often hard to believe it isn't deliberate.

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Literate Chaotic / Re: Excerpts from the Next Great American Novel
« on: May 25, 2015, 09:16:48 pm »
Enjoyable!

Just one comment... in one paragraph you say that the currency glands were designed to prevent people from saving currency, and that the fluid doesn't keep outside of the sacs. But you conclude it by saying that Vinny is saving for a third currency gland. What is he saving?
I think he is stretching his glands manually, wether that would work with these glands I don't know.

That's not what it says.

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The fluid didnt keep outside of glands, so the only way to carry more money was to install more glands. There were people whos entire bodies were covered in bulbous fluid sacks to the point where they could barely walk. Vinny tweaked and massaged his gland openings as he walked, he was saving up for a third gland. He wanted to be a three glands kind of guy.

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I'm pleased the first thing this technology was used for was to crack some suds.

It was right and fitting.

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"Christians who judge LBGT people are sinners".  Damn.  I mean, she aint wrong, and it's always nice to see someone who focuses on the "love thy neighbour" parts of the Bible, but that's a significant lack of word mincing, right there.

And, according to Wikipedia, she is also the godmother of Miley Cyrus.

Dolly Parton has never fucked around when expressing her opinions.

Also, apparently she and Miley are close.

Dolly is all kinds of amazing.

She really is.

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The Richard Nixon school of ballet and the arts / Re: Swingers
« on: May 25, 2015, 09:08:43 pm »
You're probably onto something, there. I suspect that what may tend to happen in swinger communities such as the one in Portland is that once the more boundary-crossing vibe is established, it becomes even more welcoming for people who are prone to crossing boundaries, and a self-reinforcing culture of pushiness starts to emerge in which not recognizing or respecting boundaries is normalized.

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We really need laws that prohibit the exploitation of children as performers. Just as there's no good reason to have underage children working in our factories, there is no good reason to have them working on our stages.

No more Home Alone movies?

SHIT

IT'S A TERRIBLE THOUGHT!

Do you think this one is ready for prime time? Thinking about posting it in some parenting groups and seeing if I can get support.

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