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Messages - Sexy St. Nigel

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Your arguments are valid.
Good luck with finding him so you can break up.

 :lulz: Thanks.

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Think for Yourself, Schmuck! / Re: Volunteer Thread
« on: Yesterday at 09:58:31 pm »
I just like hotdogs.

Hot dogs are awesome.

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Principia Discussion / Re: Introduction/Flaxscript Idea
« on: Yesterday at 09:57:45 pm »
Looks pretty cool.

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There's also an element of "really? I subsidized you and gave you rides all summer, and you can't even pick a dinner place that's near the halfway point?"

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It's lame, but it's not like I'm in love with him or anything. I just really liked the guy but it's too much work to spend any time with him, and I'm getting weird mixed signals, like he talks about how much he misses me but doesn't make any effort to see me, and basically will NOT come to my house unless he's going to spend the night... which doesn't work for me at all.

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Seriously, what the fuck is wrong with just normal dinner dates? This seems to be an impossibility in his world for some reason. I am done.

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So, my boyfriend has been a huge pain in the ass to spend any time with at all for the last six weeks or so. I think I gotta call it, but it's really hard to break up with someone YOU NEVER SEE.

I thought we had a standing date on Sundays, so last week he was working in my neighborhood and got off at six. I was all "you wanna head over here or should I meet you there?" thinking it was a fifteen-minute walk and then we could do dinner. He says "I'm heading to [restaurant in other part of town] if you want to meet me there".

??? Why the fuck would he LEAVE MY NEIGHBORHOOD and expect me to bus across town for dinner, when he was already here?

This week, he has a friend in town. Friend turns out to be vegan. This is Portland, so every restaurant has vegan options, but apparently she has to eat at a pure untainted vegan establishment. Boy asks for suggestions. I don't fucking know, I don't go to vegan restaurants. Boy suggests they come and pick me up and take me to a bar near my house. I mention that it's more of a hipster bar with vegan food than a dinner place, and mention that if they want a better dining experience that I don't mind bussing and meeting them somewhere. My friend suggests a nice place in SE that's fairly easy to get to from here.

Boy texts me today and says that they're going to a place that's about ten blocks from his house, which has the same owners and menu as the original place he suggested in my neighborhood. So, my attempt to accommodate the vegan so she can have better food now means that I have to take two buses across town and back again for the same lousy food I could have had up the street.

Great.

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I made too many origami boxes. Cookie making is complicated.

 :lulz:

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Me and payne are officially breaking up and shit.

i am sad.

it's all grown up and respectful and civil, and pretty much a mutual decision.

i need hugs and maybe bourbon.

I'm sorry. :(

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Principia Discussion / Re: Introduction/Flaxscript Idea
« on: Yesterday at 08:37:38 pm »
Shit yeah cookies!

Nigel, you did not get yourself on the list this time around. I have some extra boxes and I've barely started the baking, though, so let me know if you want in.

Oh, shit,  my head's been up my ass with homework. Yes please! Do you need me to PM you my address again?

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The Richard Nixon school of ballet and the arts / Re: Spagbook
« on: Yesterday at 08:13:03 pm »


Walked to the store to help myself get use to walking again.
Felt great. In the last 7 weeks of not moving I dropped 30 lbs.
I should be kicking people in the face by Fat Fuck Day.

You guys are ADORABLE.

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My philosophy on that is that if a dude is lying to his wife about something as significant as where he's putting his dick, and using their circumstances as an excuse for seeking sex with other women instead of seeking marriage counseling, there's no reason I should believe ANYTHING he says to me. He has no investment in me, he's made no promises.

Like a promise to you would even matter, look what they're doing to one where promises were made sort of thing?

Yeah, that was kind of my point. If he's willing to deceive someone who he HAS made promises to, I have literally zero basis for expecting honesty.

 :oops: I reiterated to see if I understood the point.

Oh, yes, then. Exactly.

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That said, I can see reasons someone might want to sleep with a guy who's cheating on his wife. They're all pretty selfish reasons, though, and most of them apply equally well to dating someone who is in a legit open marriage.

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My philosophy on that is that if a dude is lying to his wife about something as significant as where he's putting his dick, and using their circumstances as an excuse for seeking sex with other women instead of seeking marriage counseling, there's no reason I should believe ANYTHING he says to me. He has no investment in me, he's made no promises.

Like a promise to you would even matter, look what they're doing to one where promises were made sort of thing?

Yeah, that was kind of my point. If he's willing to deceive someone who he HAS made promises to, I have literally zero basis for expecting honesty.

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