So today's agenda sees me going to the child support enforcement office, cuz it'' be quicker than waiting 4-6 weeks, and is only 25 bucks.
I'm debating going to the courts and putting in an application for custoday as well, because when the shit hits the fan the ex is gonna go ballistic and probably not let me see the monkey.
How is he gonna do that? He can't even manage the kid on the weekends he agreed to.
Remember what his ex did to him? Took off with the kids for two years, he didn't know if they were alive or dead. That's one of the reasons I believe him, I think he wants to make someone else suffer for what that twat did to him and his kids.
He's already propositioned two friends to take him, and pay them what he ought to give me, just so that I can't say I have him full time. Oh, he might say that it's so I can get a job/work, but that's the upside for him. I don't have him as often, ergo I don't have a valid claim, possibly in his mind. Definitely in mine. And he's MY fucking kid, I don't want to share him if it isn't necessary!
@Jenne: Yeah, I hear you. I asked myself and thought about it, and in the end, I decided that it was possibly the worst thing to do, and not just because I am afraid of the dark, and being outside at night, and being alone in the dark outside at night. Which is what the job basically entails. There was also he could control how many hours I get, so if I did something that pissed him off he could cut me off and then call me an unfit mother, financially at least, he can control what days I work, which considering that my mom has point blank refused to watch him all the time he could use this to his advantage, and a whole host of horrible shit could go down. So I really didn't need to ask. But it gives my mom justification to say that I only go for jobs that I want. :/