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Started by Cainad (dec.), January 06, 2010, 05:43:23 AM

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LMNO


Richter

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Quote from: JohNyx on January 07, 2010, 03:09:51 PM
Isnt that the associated in the sense of definition to "addiction"?; "Its only addiction when it impairs your functioning and wellbeing"

And yes, if "normality" was defined as "functionality/satisfaction of needs" i wouldnt have a problem with it.

Addiction has connotation of tolerance, percieved need, and withdrawl symptoms beyond the basic need / function view of it.  "Functional addiction" is a bit of a psychological cryptid, IMHO, since it's very hard to accurately observe and report on. Ethical hell would result from trying to do a serious study of this, and that's only IF you could get said highly functioning yet addictive behavior individuals to own up to their vices. 

It's sort of the more serious side of the pills discussion with TGRR.  I start to doubt if many people can naturally cope with the anxiety and stresses of some job expectations without some for of medication, perscribed or self, which further introduces the environmental complications to a discussion of normality, pathology, or addicition.  (I had a job once myself where I was functional only by virtue of the drink.  Very possible I buzzed alchoholism, but I was still doing the job.) (Beyond addiction, even, you have to consider environment in just about ANY analysis of people.  Even pedophiles can site environments where they are "Normal".)
Quote from: Eater of Clowns on May 22, 2015, 03:00:53 AM
Anyone ever think about how Richter inhabits the same reality as you and just scream and scream and scream, but in a good way?   :lulz:

Friendly Neighborhood Mentat

The Johnny


Very complicated issue; im just gonna agree, because i only have my personal experiences without much systemization.

<<My image in some places, is of a monster of some kind who wants to pull a string and manipulate people. Nothing could be further from the truth. People are manipulated; I just want them to be manipulated more effectively.>>

-B.F. Skinner

The Good Reverend Roger

Quote from: JohNyx on January 07, 2010, 02:10:21 PM
Quote from: NotPublished on January 07, 2010, 05:50:40 AM
I know I am gay, but alot of the times I get questioned if I am just going through a phase

I think everyone here got questioned in this manner about our quirks at one time or another.


Still do.
" It's just that Depeche Mode were a bunch of optimistic loveburgers."
- TGRR, shaming himself forever, 7/8/2017

"Billy, when I say that ethics is our number one priority and safety is also our number one priority, you should take that to mean exactly what I said. Also quality. That's our number one priority as well. Don't look at me that way, you're in the corporate world now and this is how it works."
- TGRR, raising the bar at work.

The Johnny

Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on January 07, 2010, 03:53:25 PM
Quote from: JohNyx on January 07, 2010, 02:10:21 PM
Quote from: NotPublished on January 07, 2010, 05:50:40 AM
I know I am gay, but alot of the times I get questioned if I am just going through a phase

I think everyone here got questioned in this manner about our quirks at one time or another.


Still do.

Well duh, Roger, its just a phase, you just havent got over it yet.
<<My image in some places, is of a monster of some kind who wants to pull a string and manipulate people. Nothing could be further from the truth. People are manipulated; I just want them to be manipulated more effectively.>>

-B.F. Skinner

LMNO

Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on January 07, 2010, 03:53:25 PM
Quote from: JohNyx on January 07, 2010, 02:10:21 PM
Quote from: NotPublished on January 07, 2010, 05:50:40 AM
I know I am gay, but alot of the times I get questioned if I am just going through a phase

I think everyone here got questioned in this manner about our quirks at one time or another.


Still do.

I still think Roger's heterosexuality is a phase.

Richter

Quote from: JohNyx on January 07, 2010, 03:51:05 PM

Very complicated issue; im just gonna agree, because i only have my personal experiences without much systemization.




:|    :cry:
Quote from: Eater of Clowns on May 22, 2015, 03:00:53 AM
Anyone ever think about how Richter inhabits the same reality as you and just scream and scream and scream, but in a good way?   :lulz:

Friendly Neighborhood Mentat

The Johnny

Quote from: Richter on January 07, 2010, 04:25:16 PM
Quote from: JohNyx on January 07, 2010, 03:51:05 PM

Very complicated issue; im just gonna agree, because i only have my personal experiences without much systemization.




:|    :cry:


Well, lol, i didnt want to stir shit again on that issue.

I personally just feel the need to smoke and use Ataraxtm, to cope with stress and to relax (and be able to sleep while under stress; also to counter my allergic reaction that happens in my eyes because of the contamination).

I quit cocaine and pot some years ago; cocaine because i feel its too harmful, pot just because i dont have junkie friends anymore and its not readily available, i would like to smoke a bud about once a month.

And in my case, i think i am able to cope with life without any other substances than the ones im using; even so, cigarrettes are my crutch in times of crisis and pressure, and i manage to quit in periods of 6 months with relapses of 3 months.
<<My image in some places, is of a monster of some kind who wants to pull a string and manipulate people. Nothing could be further from the truth. People are manipulated; I just want them to be manipulated more effectively.>>

-B.F. Skinner

Dysfunctional Cunt

Potato - potato.....

The real question to me is "Why give a flying fuck?"

If you are happy with you fuck them.  

If you aren't happy, change what you can and deal with the rest.  It may not be fun, but it's usually better than the alternative.




The Johnny

Quote from: Khara on January 07, 2010, 04:43:14 PM
Potato - potato.....

The real question to me is "Why give a flying fuck?"

If you are happy with you fuck them.  

If you aren't happy, change what you can and deal with the rest.  It may not be fun, but it's usually better than the alternative.

If you dont give a "flying fuck", then why "fuck them" if you are so indifferent indeed?

Oh ok, ill change to fit in, and "spread em" for what i cant change. Yeah, because only pussies are themselves.
<<My image in some places, is of a monster of some kind who wants to pull a string and manipulate people. Nothing could be further from the truth. People are manipulated; I just want them to be manipulated more effectively.>>

-B.F. Skinner

Richter

Quote from: Khara on January 07, 2010, 04:43:14 PM
Potato - potato.....

The real question to me is "Why give a flying fuck?"

If you are happy with you fuck them. 

If you aren't happy, change what you can and deal with the rest.  It may not be fun, but it's usually better than the alternative.





Hey, then you've definitely got plenty of persepctive on the issue, compared to my stint in a bottle.  
As long as you're doing it with intellignet discussion, stir away.  I was more worried I had killed the the discussion getting too clinical.
Quote from: Eater of Clowns on May 22, 2015, 03:00:53 AM
Anyone ever think about how Richter inhabits the same reality as you and just scream and scream and scream, but in a good way?   :lulz:

Friendly Neighborhood Mentat

LMNO

Quote from: JohNyx on January 07, 2010, 04:47:52 PM
Quote from: Khara on January 07, 2010, 04:43:14 PM
Potato - potato.....

The real question to me is "Why give a flying fuck?"

If you are happy with you fuck them.  

If you aren't happy, change what you can and deal with the rest.  It may not be fun, but it's usually better than the alternative.

If you dont give a "flying fuck", then why "fuck them" if you are so indifferent indeed?

Oh ok, ill change to fit in, and "spread em" for what i cant change. Yeah, because only pussies are themselves.

I think there are some vague terms being tossed around.

The real question to me is "Why give a flying fuck about what other people think?"

If you are happy with who you are, then fuck them that think differently than you.  


Hope that helps.

The Good Reverend Roger

Quote from: JohNyx on January 07, 2010, 03:59:03 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on January 07, 2010, 03:53:25 PM
Quote from: JohNyx on January 07, 2010, 02:10:21 PM
Quote from: NotPublished on January 07, 2010, 05:50:40 AM
I know I am gay, but alot of the times I get questioned if I am just going through a phase

I think everyone here got questioned in this manner about our quirks at one time or another.


Still do.

Well duh, Roger, its just a phase, you just havent got over it yet.

Yep.  I've been a freak since I could talk, so maybe another 39 years will cure me.
" It's just that Depeche Mode were a bunch of optimistic loveburgers."
- TGRR, shaming himself forever, 7/8/2017

"Billy, when I say that ethics is our number one priority and safety is also our number one priority, you should take that to mean exactly what I said. Also quality. That's our number one priority as well. Don't look at me that way, you're in the corporate world now and this is how it works."
- TGRR, raising the bar at work.

The Good Reverend Roger

Quote from: LMNO on January 07, 2010, 04:21:30 PM
Quote from: The Good Reverend Roger on January 07, 2010, 03:53:25 PM
Quote from: JohNyx on January 07, 2010, 02:10:21 PM
Quote from: NotPublished on January 07, 2010, 05:50:40 AM
I know I am gay, but alot of the times I get questioned if I am just going through a phase

I think everyone here got questioned in this manner about our quirks at one time or another.


Still do.

I still think Roger's heterosexuality is a phase.

Heh.  I'm so heterosexual that I don't hate gays.
" It's just that Depeche Mode were a bunch of optimistic loveburgers."
- TGRR, shaming himself forever, 7/8/2017

"Billy, when I say that ethics is our number one priority and safety is also our number one priority, you should take that to mean exactly what I said. Also quality. That's our number one priority as well. Don't look at me that way, you're in the corporate world now and this is how it works."
- TGRR, raising the bar at work.

Dysfunctional Cunt

Quote from: LMNO on January 07, 2010, 04:51:00 PM
Quote from: JohNyx on January 07, 2010, 04:47:52 PM
Quote from: Khara on January 07, 2010, 04:43:14 PM
Potato - potato.....

The real question to me is "Why give a flying fuck?"

If you are happy with you fuck them.  

If you aren't happy, change what you can and deal with the rest.  It may not be fun, but it's usually better than the alternative.

If you dont give a "flying fuck", then why "fuck them" if you are so indifferent indeed?

Oh ok, ill change to fit in, and "spread em" for what i cant change. Yeah, because only pussies are themselves.

I think there are some vague terms being tossed around.

The real question to me is "Why give a flying fuck about what other people think?"

If you are happy with who you are, then fuck them that think differently than you.  


Hope that helps.

Thanks LMNO, I thought it was understandable, but I guess not.  :?

S'ok, I'm out of it.