Female sexual dysfunction

[Triple Zero]

I don't understand what's so difficult about saying "yeah, they both suck but they're both also totally different and can't really be compared with each other".

yeah this.

I don't understand what's the whole disagreement about, anyway.

Female sexual dysfunction sucks, and male sexual dysfunction ALSO sucks.

And I'm okay with that I can never truly understand female sexual dysfunction, as they wouldn't ever be able to do the other way around vice versa. (But either party can try to be understanding.)

It's like comparing not having apples and not having oranges.

[Zyzyx]

IMO,

This issue had something of a thinner line between acceptable and unacceptable up to a century or so ago, with the idea that women were supposed to spread for their husbands as a "conjugal duty" rather than a choice. That's where people seem to draw the lack of feminine arousal in sex to rape - in the state of the institution at that point, they didn't really have a choice in whether or not they were going to have sex. Today this is rape.

[BadBeast]

Rich, frustrated Edwardian women used to go to their Doctors to be treated for "Feminine Hysteria". Treatment involved the Doctor performing a therapuetic manual diddling of the Ladyparts, until said Lady achieved hysterical release. This was described in Medical journals as a kind of "pudendal sneeze" often accompanied by a "distinct groaning from the patient". Presumably this was the only occasion that Doctors of the time ever saw a female orgasm, hence the "sneeze" analogy.   

[Zyzyx]

I always found it pretty amazing that people denied female orgasm, especially women. I guess it was just weeded out of women. Now we men-folk have to work extra-hard to undo thousands of years of prudery.

That or thousands of years of inflated egos have left us lacking in the bedroom, and we have had to quickly learn to compensate by being, you know, emotionally intelligent.

[BadBeast]

 Next thing you'll be telling us you've found a clitoris! 

[Zyzyx]

The hell is that nonsense you're talking? Clitawhat?

[PopeTom]

Next thing you'll be telling us you've found a clitoris! 

It exists, I saw one once.

Having a beer with Bigfoot!

[Nephew Twiddleton]

I always found it pretty amazing that people denied female orgasm, especially women. I guess it was just weeded out of women. Now we men-folk have to work extra-hard to undo thousands of years of prudery.
That or thousands of years of inflated egos have left us lacking in the bedroom, and we have had to quickly learn to compensate by being, you know, emotionally intelligent.

Um dude, I've never had to work extra hard.

Just saying.

[BadBeast]

It's a bit like "phantom limb" syndrome, but confined to feminists and their ilk. A fictitious nubbin, the finding of which is supposed to produce  the equally fictitious and mythical female organasm. (Beats me, too!)

[Freeky]

The last few posts made me lol.

There is also the question of whether sex without female arousal is rape, which has certainly been proposed many times.

If she wanted to try anyway, no.

[Nephew Twiddleton]

The last few posts made me lol.

There is also the question of whether sex without female arousal is rape, which has certainly been proposed many times.

If she wanted to try anyway, no.

Like I said, just saying.

[Freeky]

The last few posts made me lol.

There is also the question of whether sex without female arousal is rape, which has certainly been proposed many times.

If she wanted to try anyway, no.

Like I said, just saying.

You best shut yer mouth, afore Freeky rapes yuo.

[Zyzyx]

Um dude, I've never had to work extra hard.

Just saying.

True, the 70s worked wonders. I mean, consider the novel that is the reason this whole place exists. It is rife with non-prudish women, much to our delight!

[BadBeast]

It was the 80's that saw the last of the big scary muffs though, that was a major thing IMO.

Girl. "Why do you look so shocked, what is it?"

Boy "I dunno, but if you pass me that hammer, I'll help you kill it!"

[BabylonHoruv]

It was the 80's that saw the last of the big scary muffs though, that was a major thing IMO.

Girl. "Why do you look so shocked, what is it?"

Boy "I dunno, but if you pass me that hammer, I'll help you kill it!"

eh, shaved vulvas have gone in and out of fashion.  I expect there will be another round of untrimmed muffs being the popular style at some point.