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Sex.
« on: May 11, 2011, 01:48:13 am »
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We're talking sexual morality, we're talking "Sex isn't special if you do it with everyone/too much". I thought it was a worthwhile thing to say, but I'm quite often wrong about that.
Slyph

OK.

So what do you think of sex with anyone, any time you want it?

Does it/can it lead to problems? Mentally?

What are the benefits for Monogamous sex vs. random sex? If any?

*sigh* You have to be kidding me.

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Re: Sex.
« Reply #1 on: May 11, 2011, 01:56:40 am »
 :lol:
- So the New World Order does not actually exist?
- Oh it exists, and how!
Ask the slaves whose labour built the White House;
Ask the slaves of today tied down to sweatshops and brothels to escape hunger;
Ask most women, second class citizens, in a pervasive rape culture;
Ask the non-human creatures who inhabit the planet:
whales, bears, frogs, tuna, bees, slaughtered farm animals;
Ask the natives of the Americas and Australia on whose land
you live today, on whose graves your factories, farms and neighbourhoods stand;
ask any of them this, ask them if the New World Order is true;
they'll tell you plainly: the New World Order… is you!

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Re: Sex.
« Reply #2 on: May 11, 2011, 02:06:23 am »
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Re: Sex.
« Reply #3 on: May 11, 2011, 02:07:58 am »
:lol:

Whatever.

I think the questions are perfectly valid, considering the other thread we have going on.

Suu's opinions (which are horribly prude compared to everyone else. Guaranteed.)

So what do you think of sex with anyone, any time you want it? I can't do just anyone. There has to be SOME sort of connection. Even so, the casual sex I've had before just...never did it for me. It actually left me feeling kinda empty.

Does it/can it lead to problems? Mentally? Depends on the person and if it was a scarring experience. But if I didn't dig it the first time around, there isn't going to be a second. Friends or no.

What are the benefits for Monogamous sex vs. random sex? If any? Aside from catching the HIV? The Clap? The Siph? The Hep? Um, gee...Well, I have to say that with monogamous sex, you do learn more about your partner and how to please one another.  Bouncing around between partners you have a chance to never be pleased at all, so whats the point?













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Re: Sex.
« Reply #4 on: May 11, 2011, 02:11:40 am »
:lol:

Whatever.

I think the questions are perfectly valid, considering the other thread we have going on.

Suu's opinions (which are horribly prude compared to everyone else. Guaranteed.)

So what do you think of sex with anyone, any time you want it? I can't do just anyone. There has to be SOME sort of connection. Even so, the casual sex I've had before just...never did it for me. It actually left me feeling kinda empty.

Does it/can it lead to problems? Mentally? Depends on the person and if it was a scarring experience. But if I didn't dig it the first time around, there isn't going to be a second. Friends or no.

What are the benefits for Monogamous sex vs. random sex? If any? Aside from catching the HIV? The Clap? The Siph? The Hep? Um, gee...Well, I have to say that with monogamous sex, you do learn more about your partner and how to please one another.  Bouncing around between partners you have a chance to never be pleased at all, so whats the point?















They are perfectly valid questions, I just couldn't help myself... sorry.
- So the New World Order does not actually exist?
- Oh it exists, and how!
Ask the slaves whose labour built the White House;
Ask the slaves of today tied down to sweatshops and brothels to escape hunger;
Ask most women, second class citizens, in a pervasive rape culture;
Ask the non-human creatures who inhabit the planet:
whales, bears, frogs, tuna, bees, slaughtered farm animals;
Ask the natives of the Americas and Australia on whose land
you live today, on whose graves your factories, farms and neighbourhoods stand;
ask any of them this, ask them if the New World Order is true;
they'll tell you plainly: the New World Order… is you!

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Re: Sex.
« Reply #5 on: May 11, 2011, 02:14:55 am »
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We're talking sexual morality, we're talking "Sex isn't special if you do it with everyone/too much". I thought it was a worthwhile thing to say, but I'm quite often wrong about that.
Slyph

OK.

So what do you think of sex with anyone, any time you want it?

Does it/can it lead to problems? Mentally?

What are the benefits for Monogamous sex vs. random sex? If any?



Ok, seriously...

1. Yes please.
2. Sex always leads to problems. And yet, one can't help but be pulled into the drama. Is it worth it? I think it is, but it's debatable.
3. What suu said, but also, speaking as a guy, or at least, for myself, I could go either way, but I don't like being tied down right now.

As the great sage Morrison once said, "Variety is the spice of life, that's what the judge is gonna tell my wife".
- So the New World Order does not actually exist?
- Oh it exists, and how!
Ask the slaves whose labour built the White House;
Ask the slaves of today tied down to sweatshops and brothels to escape hunger;
Ask most women, second class citizens, in a pervasive rape culture;
Ask the non-human creatures who inhabit the planet:
whales, bears, frogs, tuna, bees, slaughtered farm animals;
Ask the natives of the Americas and Australia on whose land
you live today, on whose graves your factories, farms and neighbourhoods stand;
ask any of them this, ask them if the New World Order is true;
they'll tell you plainly: the New World Order… is you!

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« Reply #6 on: May 11, 2011, 02:19:19 am »
Are we talking about indiscriminate swingers, or polyamorous people?  I think polyamory can be healthy and rewarding if you (and anyone you're with) are all on the same page, play around safely and selectively, trust each other, and don't have negative emotional reactions about it.  Swingers are just gross.

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Re: Sex.
« Reply #7 on: May 11, 2011, 02:22:46 am »
Yar I left out the STD's.   

Thought that was a given.  :wink:

And I did make this as an aside to the other thread's going round atm.  :D

Just wanted to see what everyone's ideas/morals/whatever on sex were.  :evil:





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Re: Sex.
« Reply #8 on: May 11, 2011, 02:23:04 am »
Just want to explain myself a little in regards to my first post too... I wasn't laughing at OP, I was laughing at my predicament at this moment of time that's been so crazy, I just can't do anything but laugh to stop myself from screaming.

The weekend I had was pretty insane.

Long story short, ended up at a birthday party, ended up making out with the fiancée of the birthday boy, while he was passed out in bed, with us lying right next to him while this was going on.

Anyway, I know this isn't the place to talk about my sex life, jus sayin is all.
- So the New World Order does not actually exist?
- Oh it exists, and how!
Ask the slaves whose labour built the White House;
Ask the slaves of today tied down to sweatshops and brothels to escape hunger;
Ask most women, second class citizens, in a pervasive rape culture;
Ask the non-human creatures who inhabit the planet:
whales, bears, frogs, tuna, bees, slaughtered farm animals;
Ask the natives of the Americas and Australia on whose land
you live today, on whose graves your factories, farms and neighbourhoods stand;
ask any of them this, ask them if the New World Order is true;
they'll tell you plainly: the New World Order… is you!

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« Reply #9 on: May 11, 2011, 02:23:25 am »
Are we talking about indiscriminate swingers, or polyamorous people?  I think polyamory can be healthy and rewarding if you (and anyone you're with) are all on the same page, play around safely and selectively, trust each other, and don't have negative emotional reactions about it.  Swingers are just gross.


This as well.

Whole heartedly agree with all of it.
- So the New World Order does not actually exist?
- Oh it exists, and how!
Ask the slaves whose labour built the White House;
Ask the slaves of today tied down to sweatshops and brothels to escape hunger;
Ask most women, second class citizens, in a pervasive rape culture;
Ask the non-human creatures who inhabit the planet:
whales, bears, frogs, tuna, bees, slaughtered farm animals;
Ask the natives of the Americas and Australia on whose land
you live today, on whose graves your factories, farms and neighbourhoods stand;
ask any of them this, ask them if the New World Order is true;
they'll tell you plainly: the New World Order… is you!

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« Reply #10 on: May 11, 2011, 02:24:32 am »
anyone/anytime sex was fun when thats what i wanted, monogamous relationship sex is fun now that i want that.
both are rewarding depending on what you want in your life at that time.

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« Reply #11 on: May 11, 2011, 02:25:21 am »
anyone/anytime sex was fun when thats what i wanted, monogamous relationship sex is fun now that i want that.
both are rewarding depending on what you want in your life at that time.

I think the key is here. Sex is rewarding based on what *you* want.
- So the New World Order does not actually exist?
- Oh it exists, and how!
Ask the slaves whose labour built the White House;
Ask the slaves of today tied down to sweatshops and brothels to escape hunger;
Ask most women, second class citizens, in a pervasive rape culture;
Ask the non-human creatures who inhabit the planet:
whales, bears, frogs, tuna, bees, slaughtered farm animals;
Ask the natives of the Americas and Australia on whose land
you live today, on whose graves your factories, farms and neighbourhoods stand;
ask any of them this, ask them if the New World Order is true;
they'll tell you plainly: the New World Order… is you!

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Re: Sex.
« Reply #12 on: May 11, 2011, 02:26:52 am »
Sig,
what do you mean by 'gross'?
(furthermore, what do you mean by 'swinger'?)

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« Reply #13 on: May 11, 2011, 02:27:39 am »
Are we talking about indiscriminate swingers, or polyamorous people?  I think polyamory can be healthy and rewarding if you (and anyone you're with) are all on the same page, play around safely and selectively, trust each other, and don't have negative emotional reactions about it.  Swingers are just gross.


This as well.

Whole heartedly agree with all of it.

Ditto.

anyone/anytime sex was fun when thats what i wanted, monogamous relationship sex is fun now that i want that.
both are rewarding depending on what you want in your life at that time.

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« Reply #14 on: May 11, 2011, 02:30:12 am »
Are we talking about indiscriminate swingers, or polyamorous people?  I think polyamory can be healthy and rewarding if you (and anyone you're with) are all on the same page, play around safely and selectively, trust each other, and don't have negative emotional reactions about it.  Swingers are just gross.


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