Sex.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

When I was in high school I was the kid they picked to be both virgin and a slut. I don't know how I did it but I got daily updates on how my sex life was going. Apparently not only was I amazingly frigid to the point of being able to make ice just by touching water but I was known for disappearing under the bleachers to fuck any number of boys, teachers, and gym equipment.

I found this odd since anytime I wasn't in a class, I was in the library.

Bullying, plain and simple.

[Anna Mae Bollocks]

When I was in high school I was the kid they picked to be both virgin and a slut. I don't know how I did it but I got daily updates on how my sex life was going. Apparently not only was I amazingly frigid to the point of being able to make ice just by touching water but I was known for disappearing under the bleachers to fuck any number of boys, teachers, and gym equipment.

I found this odd since anytime I wasn't in a class, I was in the library.

I knew girls in high school who were pregnant for three years.
All fever blisters are known as "syphilis" in high school, BTW.

[Cardinal Pizza Deliverance.]

When I was in high school I was the kid they picked to be both virgin and a slut. I don't know how I did it but I got daily updates on how my sex life was going. Apparently not only was I amazingly frigid to the point of being able to make ice just by touching water but I was known for disappearing under the bleachers to fuck any number of boys, teachers, and gym equipment.

I found this odd since anytime I wasn't in a class, I was in the library.

Bullying, plain and simple.

Meh. I didn't have m/any friends in high school so I spent most of my time trying to figure out what these alien lifeforms were going ON about. Peer pressure didn't work on me because I assumed that they were all mentally handicapped based on the stupid shit they did. But I couldn't think my way out of my own social awkwardness.

So I didn't figure sex out until college and I never did figure out 'the right way' of interacting with people, period.

[*GrumpButt*]

When I was in high school I was the kid they picked to be both virgin and a slut. I don't know how I did it but I got daily updates on how my sex life was going. Apparently not only was I amazingly frigid to the point of being able to make ice just by touching water but I was known for disappearing under the bleachers to fuck any number of boys, teachers, and gym equipment.

I found this odd since anytime I wasn't in a class, I was in the library.

Bullying, plain and simple.

Meh. I didn't have m/any friends in high school so I spent most of my time trying to figure out what these alien lifeforms were going ON about. Peer pressure didn't work on me because I assumed that they were all mentally handicapped based on the stupid shit they did. But I couldn't think my way out of my own social awkwardness.

So I didn't figure sex out until college and I never did figure out 'the right way' of interacting with people, period.

There is no right way.

[Miss Demeanor]

When I was in high school I was the kid they picked to be both virgin and a slut. I don't know how I did it but I got daily updates on how my sex life was going. Apparently not only was I amazingly frigid to the point of being able to make ice just by touching water but I was known for disappearing under the bleachers to fuck any number of boys, teachers, and gym equipment.

I found this odd since anytime I wasn't in a class, I was in the library.

Bullying, plain and simple.

Meh. I didn't have m/any friends in high school so I spent most of my time trying to figure out what these alien lifeforms were going ON about. Peer pressure didn't work on me because I assumed that they were all mentally handicapped based on the stupid shit they did. But I couldn't think my way out of my own social awkwardness.

So I didn't figure sex out until college and I never did figure out 'the right way' of interacting with people, period.

Meh, I was the "ice queen" and relished every moment.  I had a big old car wiht a huge backseat.  All the guys picked on my car(while being awed that I was learning to fix it myself).  My response was "big car, big backseat.  Not that any of you losers will ever personally find out".

[The Good Reverend Roger]

Peer pressure didn't work on me because I assumed that they were all mentally handicapped based on the stupid shit they did.

This is the correct response.

Congratulations on being a biped.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

I didn't have peers.

[The Good Reverend Roger]

I didn't have peers.

Don't feel bad.  Peers live in England, and don't have any chins.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

I didn't have peers.

Don't feel bad.  Peers live in England, and don't have any chins.

[Suu]

I didn't have peers.

Don't feel bad.  Peers live in England, and don't have any chins.

[Bebek Sincap Ratatosk]

I didn't have peers.

Don't feel bad.  Peers live in England, and don't have any chins.

[Wyldkat]

Peer pressure didn't work on me because I assumed that they were all mentally handicapped based on the stupid shit they did.

This is the correct response.

Congratulations on being a biped.

This.  And it sounds like we had similar high school experiences...

[Wyldkat]

So what do you think of sex with anyone, any time you want it?

Not really my thing.  I need a connection for it to work.

Does it/can it lead to problems? Mentally?

People do become addicted to sex, so that could be a possible problem.  It could be used as an escape from issues with commitment.  Jealousy, broken relationships, hurt feelings....  All of that could be involved.  The act itself isn't the issue it's the brains that are attached to the physical bodies doing the deed.

What are the benefits for Monogamous sex vs. random sex? If any?

My first response to this was why was it cut into two choices?  That is no where close to the range of options that are out there.

Monogamy lends itself to familiarity, comfort, dropping of barriers, and it's there when you want it.  Random sex is noncommittal, exciting, new.  

The poly people I've known over the years all seemed happy and well-adjusted. Why are monogamous people always telling them that they have issues with commitment? Commitment is a choice, it shouldn't be mandatory.

Seeing as I never mentioned poly, just mentioned that having sex whenever with whoever could be used as an escape from issues with commitment, the fact that I never specified if I was monogamous or not, and the fact that to my knowledge poly people don't necessarily "sleep around" any more than monogamous people and that many are in committed group relationships I'm sort of confused as to how you came up with your response.

[Anna Mae Bollocks]

Seeing as I never mentioned poly, just mentioned that having sex whenever with whoever could be used as an escape from issues with commitment,

That's an odd phrase...it seems to ascribe some kind of pathology to people who don't want to be cornered in a capital "R" relationship.

the fact that I never specified if I was monogamous or not,

Are we talking about you? That wasn't clear from the OP.

and the fact that to my knowledge poly people don't necessarily "sleep around" any more than monogamous people and that many are in committed group relationships I'm sort of confused as to how you came up with your response.

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/polyamory
People with multiple partners who aren't in "committed group relationships" far outnumber those who are.

[Wyldkat]

Seeing as I never mentioned poly, just mentioned that having sex whenever with whoever could be used as an escape from issues with commitment

That's an odd phrase...it seems to ascribe some kind of pathology to people who don't want to be cornered in a capital "R" relationship.

"Could be" not "is always."  It was in answer to whether that type of sex life could cause issues and was by no means meant to mean that everyone who sleeps with whoever/whenever is trying to escape dealing with commitment issues.

the fact that I never specified if I was monogamous or not,

Are we talking about you? That wasn't clear from the OP.

You responded to my response.  It sounded as though you were taking the response as though coming from a monogamous person who judges non-monogamous people.  If I read it wrong, I apologize.

and the fact that to my knowledge poly people don't necessarily "sleep around" any more than monogamous people and that many are in committed group relationships I'm sort of confused as to how you came up with your response.

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/polyamory
People with multiple partners who aren't in "committed group relationships" far outnumber those who are.

Ok, but that doesn't negate my statement.