I'm unemployed, heartbroken, and may have cervical cancer.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

I was almost okay until Herbert sent me a message.

Then I just came to the conclusion that something is VERY wrong with me if men I love leave me for teenagers.

I think there's a really fine line to walk between recognizing self-sabotaging behavior, and "blaming the victim", as it were. That said, I think there is enormous value in examining how you approach relationships, and trying to find out whether there are patterns you can break.

There are lots of good men out there... hell, look at the men here, and the men you're friends with! But when you primarily seem to be attracting damaged, ambivalent, or immature men, it might be a good time to sit down and ask yourself why, what some early red flags might have been, and what you could do differently... not IN the relationship, but in choosing your relationships.

[Doktor Howl]

I'd lend sympathy, but being male, I'm "inherently a douchebag", so I figure it wouldn't count for much.

[Richter]

just let me know if you want to borrow the throwing knives or spikes.  For entertainment only,of course

[Suu]

just let me know if you want to borrow the throwing knives or spikes.  For entertainment only,of course

Funny you should mention.



The big ones went in on the backspin, I need to adjust my throw, otherwise those little fuckers are PERFECT.

[Suu]

Ack, just caught all 4 on the backspin, wtf.

I tried to go for the door to see if I could, but the knife couldn't penetrate. It DID leave a nice gash. I figure, hell, I'm probably not getting my deposit back because my landlord is a tool, I may as well make a target.

Actually, you got a dartboard in your magic bag?