Open letter. A few thoughts.

[Phox]

I'm still having trouble seeing the part where Nigel=Lynch Mob, to be honest.

Me too. I didn't read any of that thread as Lynch Mob. 

I saw it as "hey, someone's fucking with me via Pm, what do?"

[BadBeast]

Look Nigel, I was out of the blue, deliberately dropped into a fucking horrible situation that had nothing to do with me, where I could see no other options other than to react like  I did. I'm not a Saint. I don't respond well to being fucked with like that. (Although I think that's probably loud and clear by now)
And when I said I don't do grudge, It's the truth. I'm not keeping any shit list, or waiting for a chance to get some sort of revenge. That ain't me at all. I'm not even angry. But all I want to do now, is draw a line under it. This has had some bitchin fallout. I am offering my hand now, with every bit of grace I can. I am genuinely sorry about this, but all I can manage at the moment, by way of apology is a sincere promise that as soon as I feel any remorse or twinge of conscience over calling you nasty names, I'll apologise.

[AFK]

Yeah, what with the whole internet thing and all,

ALERT: FREEKY IS ABOUT TO HAVE A WHITE AND PRIVELEGED MOMENT

"racist" doesn't even seem like a terrible word anymore.  But "snaggletoothed whore" is always a personal attack.  I really would like WHN to tell me how racist is worse than snaggletoothed whore, which is why I asked him those questions.

Under advice of counsel I'm staying out of this deal.  If you really want to know feel free to start another thread.  I will only say that I strongly disagree with your opinion as represented in this post. 

[navkat]

Look Nigel, I was out of the blue, deliberately dropped into a fucking horrible situation that had nothing to do with me, where I could see no other options other than to react like  I did. I'm not a Saint. I don't respond well to being fucked with like that. (Although I think that's probably loud and clear by now)
And when I said I don't do grudge, It's the truth. I'm not keeping any shit list, or waiting for a chance to get some sort of revenge. That ain't me at all. I'm not even angry. But all I want to do now, is draw a line under it. This has had some bitchin fallout. I am offering my hand now, with every bit of grace I can. I am genuinely sorry about this, but all I can manage at the moment, by way of apology is a sincere promise that as soon as I feel any remorse or twinge of conscience over calling you nasty names, I'll apologise.

You don't have to feel remourse, you know. Sometimes "I'm sorry" means "I agree that was a dumb way to handle things and kind of mean and even though I'm still angry at you, I wished I'd made better choices expressing my frustration."

And that's fair because I don't think Nigel or Dok necessarily feel remourse either but I'm sure in a few days with no further incident, they'll feel "normal" towards you again. You make good contributions here.

This is the internet--fecal matter occurs. Save your remourse for those 7-year-old, transgendered Korean sex-workers you have hidden in your crawlspace IRL.

[Doktor Howl]

I hadn't ( To my knowledge) upset anyone, or said much of anything really, recently. So I log in, to that thread. And fucking hell! I'm under attack here. And they're using my friend as ammo.

Jesus, are you really that self-centered?   

[Prince Glittersnatch III]

Look Nigel, I was out of the blue, deliberately dropped into a fucking horrible situation that had nothing to do with me, where I could see no other options other than to react like  I did. I'm not a Saint. I don't respond well to being fucked with like that. (Although I think that's probably loud and clear by now)

Damn.  You have shown me the wrath of Badbeast. I for one will never make a thread that mentions you in the title and then has nothing to do with you.

And when I said I don't do grudge, It's the truth. I'm not keeping any shit list, or waiting for a chance to get some sort of revenge. That ain't me at all. I'm not even angry. But all I want to do now, is draw a line under it. This has had some bitchin fallout. I am offering my hand now, with every bit of grace I can. I am genuinely sorry about this, but all I can manage at the moment, by way of apology is a sincere promise that as soon as I feel any remorse or twinge of conscience over calling you nasty names, I'll apologise.

You know apologies arent magic contracts that burst in to flame if you really dont mean them. Very often in social situations you will find yourself apologizing for things just to cool the drama down. Then again, seeing as you created an entire thread dedicated to drama Ill wager thats the last thing you want.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

I'm still having trouble seeing the part where Nigel=Lynch Mob, to be honest.

I'm huge. I'm like, 30 people.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Look Nigel, I was out of the blue, deliberately dropped into a fucking horrible situation that had nothing to do with me, where I could see no other options other than to react like  I did. I'm not a Saint. I don't respond well to being fucked with like that. (Although I think that's probably loud and clear by now)
And when I said I don't do grudge, It's the truth. I'm not keeping any shit list, or waiting for a chance to get some sort of revenge. That ain't me at all. I'm not even angry. But all I want to do now, is draw a line under it. This has had some bitchin fallout. I am offering my hand now, with every bit of grace I can. I am genuinely sorry about this, but all I can manage at the moment, by way of apology is a sincere promise that as soon as I feel any remorse or twinge of conscience over calling you nasty names, I'll apologise.

Sorry, I don't speak sociopath.

[East Coast Hustle]

I'm still having trouble seeing the part where Nigel=Lynch Mob, to be honest.

I'm huge. I'm like, 30 people.

Yeah, The Slingshot Lounge told me that next time I bring you there for drinks I need to reserve the entire back room. And they wanted to know if you could please not all go to the bathroom at the same time as the pipes don't have sufficient diameter for that.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

I'm still having trouble seeing the part where Nigel=Lynch Mob, to be honest.

I'm huge. I'm like, 30 people.

Yeah, The Slingshot Lounge told me that next time I bring you there for drinks I need to reserve the entire back room. And they wanted to know if you could please not all go to the bathroom at the same time as the pipes don't have sufficient diameter for that.

[Doktor Howl]

I'm still having trouble seeing the part where Nigel=Lynch Mob, to be honest.

I'm huge. I'm like, 30 people.

Yeah, The Slingshot Lounge told me that next time I bring you there for drinks I need to reserve the entire back room. And they wanted to know if you could please not all go to the bathroom at the same time as the pipes don't have sufficient diameter for that.

Nigel qualifies as an entire statisitical sample for the US Census Dept.

[navkat]

I'm still having trouble seeing the part where Nigel=Lynch Mob, to be honest.

I'm huge. I'm like, 30 people.

Yeah, The Slingshot Lounge told me that next time I bring you there for drinks I need to reserve the entire back room. And they wanted to know if you could please not all go to the bathroom at the same time as the pipes don't have sufficient diameter for that.

Nigel qualifies as an entire statisitical sample for the US Census Dept.

One, giant pocket of snaggle-toothed cunts in Portland.

Put a bird on it.

[Doktor Howl]

Nigel is a human wave attack, just waiting to happen.

[LMNO]

I'm still having trouble seeing the part where Nigel=Lynch Mob, to be honest.

I'm huge. I'm like, 30 people.

Yeah, The Slingshot Lounge told me that next time I bring you there for drinks I need to reserve the entire back room. And they wanted to know if you could please not all go to the bathroom at the same time as the pipes don't have sufficient diameter for that.

Nigel qualifies as an entire statisitical sample for the US Census Dept.

One, giant pocket of snaggle-toothed cunts in Portland.

Put a bird on it.

WE CAN PICKLE THAT!

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]