What is it...

[tyrannosaurus vex]

there is, its called the nemesis list

or if it isnt, wtf is that for?

I found it. So far so quiet...

[Freeky]

there is, its called the nemesis list

or if it isnt, wtf is that for?

nemesis list = buddy list. 

[tyrannosaurus vex]

shit.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

There's also Dickhead Pickle, if we're talking about people who are completely gross and vile.

"Kids whose parents can't work three jobs and teach them deserve what they get," and all that.

I don't even think he's a sociopath, to tell the truth... just damaged and stuck in a really shitty loop.

I've only ever met one sociopath in person, and she is fucking terrifying, not least because it took me close to seven years to realize it. She's not one of my friends, but a friend of a friend. Actual sociopaths are really frightening, and often don't exhibit the kinds of antisocial behavior that people consider earmarks for sociopathy. Which actually makes it that much more irritating/frustrating to me when people use antisocial behavior to try to get attention or to make people think they're cool/edgy/special. People with antisocial personality disorder ARE special; they're fortunately fairly rare. It's just that it's the kind of special that needs to be avoided like you would avoid West Nile virus.

[Freeky]

There's also Dickhead Pickle, if we're talking about people who are completely gross and vile.

"Kids whose parents can't work three jobs and teach them deserve what they get," and all that.

I don't even think he's a sociopath, to tell the truth... just damaged and stuck in a really shitty loop.

I've only ever met one sociopath in person, and she is fucking terrifying, not least because it took me close to seven years to realize it. She's not one of my friends, but a friend of a friend. Actual sociopaths are really frightening, and often don't exhibit the kinds of antisocial behavior that people consider earmarks for sociopathy. Which actually makes it that much more irritating/frustrating to me when people use antisocial behavior to try to get attention or to make people think they're cool/edgy/special. People with antisocial personality disorder ARE special; they're fortunately fairly rare. It's just that it's the kind of special that needs to be avoided like you would avoid West Nile virus.

I don't think he's a sociopath either.  Just vile.

Yeah, real sociopaths are scary fucking people, and I'm glad they aren't more prevalent.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Might as well have.

Why? I know you guys had differences in other threads, but does that mean that "ghost of butthurt" gonna taint everything else?

OP here directly followed reprimanding me for displaying "antisocial" behavior in another thread. I know there's always "plausible deniability" in these things but I'm not inclined to believe it here than from the government.

As for butthurt, eh, no I'd rather have a decent conversation. I'll admit it's partly my fault for disregarding the social temperature and making jokes just to get a rise out of people, and I'm willing to adjust my attitude in that respect. It would be nice to encounter exhibit the Monkey Reflex a little less often though.

wut 

Yes, because I'm the only one here to go fucking nuts and get personal because somebody says something I don't like. Fuck you Nigel.

But that's the end of it. I wish there was a "don't show me posts by this Spag anymore" button.

Try "ignore"

it's in your profile settings.

We all get emotional and fly off the handle, especially when our buttons are pushed. It's because we're people.

If you want to play the "hit people's buttons" game, or the "pretend to be a hardass" game, you should probably learn to cope with the fallout when people Do Exactly What You Expected Them To Do.

Or, you could stop playing stupid games and hitting people's buttons, and perhaps even find the bravery in yourself to admit being wrong so you can stop screeching and start learning. 'Cause I gotta say, screeching is not a good look on you. It doesn't suit you at all.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

there is, its called the nemesis list

or if it isnt, wtf is that for?

nemesis list = buddy list.

shit.

[Freeky]

there is, its called the nemesis list

or if it isnt, wtf is that for?

nemesis list = buddy list.

shit.

That was faust's doing. 

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

there is, its called the nemesis list

or if it isnt, wtf is that for?

nemesis list = buddy list.

shit.

That was faust's doing. 

It's good as fuck.

[Freeky]

there is, its called the nemesis list

or if it isnt, wtf is that for?

nemesis list = buddy list.

shit.

That was faust's doing. 

It's good as fuck.

Isn't it?

[Anna Mae Bollocks]

there is, its called the nemesis list

or if it isnt, wtf is that for?

nemesis list = buddy list.

DAMMIT, FREEKY, WHY'D YOU TELL EVERYBODY????? 

[tyrannosaurus vex]

Thats fine, and if you'd notice I admitted partial blame there and pledged to change my heathen ways. You might acknowledge that instead of finding another pin to jab at me. If it's a question of blame, I share it. But I don't OWN it, and it's not in my nature to limp away with my tail between my legs. So, for the record, I have apologized 3 times now and my Fuck You stands.

[HandsomeGirl]

If you don't care when someone close to you dies, you need therapy.

Yeah, I've been working on that for a while now.  Kind of hard when you're poor enough all you can afford are the therapists that just tell you you need jesus, and that's your problem. I'm working toward being able to afford better help at great cost to my family,  I was just hoping to find a little niche of society that could accept me, weird-ass psychological problems and all.

Figured I should explain that I know I need help, before I'm told by more people that I need help.

I'm supposing that was directed my way at least, as you stated there had been sociopathic behavior around here and I hadn't noticed anyone else saying anything about not being sad when people you're close to die.  I know you're not taking a shot at me or anything, just laying it out there.  I was asked an honest question and gave an honest answer.

AFAIK I wrote the OP before you made your comment about not being sad when people close to you die. You don't come across as a sociopath, either. So far, at least. But you are certainly affirming my snap judgement about being an attention-whore!

I get that way when feeling butthurt. They're temporary episodes and I can genereally admit it was stupid afterwards.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Thats fine, and if you'd notice I admitted partial blame there and pledged to change my heathen ways. You might acknowledge that instead of finding another pin to jab at me. If it's a question of blame, I share it. But I don't OWN it, and it's not in my nature to limp away with my tail between my legs. So, for the record, I have apologized 3 times now and my Fuck You stands.

You have? Sorry, probably didn't see it, as I mostly haven't been reading your posts and it's not like you bothered to PM me.

It's also possible that I didn't see it because I don't read "I'm sorry but You Made Me Do It" as an actual apology.

You might have to tap into your dignity a little and stop making a fool of yourself for it to register properly.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

If you don't care when someone close to you dies, you need therapy.

Yeah, I've been working on that for a while now.  Kind of hard when you're poor enough all you can afford are the therapists that just tell you you need jesus, and that's your problem. I'm working toward being able to afford better help at great cost to my family,  I was just hoping to find a little niche of society that could accept me, weird-ass psychological problems and all.

Figured I should explain that I know I need help, before I'm told by more people that I need help.

I'm supposing that was directed my way at least, as you stated there had been sociopathic behavior around here and I hadn't noticed anyone else saying anything about not being sad when people you're close to die.  I know you're not taking a shot at me or anything, just laying it out there.  I was asked an honest question and gave an honest answer.

AFAIK I wrote the OP before you made your comment about not being sad when people close to you die. You don't come across as a sociopath, either. So far, at least. But you are certainly affirming my snap judgement about being an attention-whore!

I get that way when feeling butthurt. They're temporary episodes and I can genereally admit it was stupid afterwards.

Well, that's a good thing.