Greyface/Cabbage Question

[trix]

You aren't communicating.

This is 110% of why you are getting the reaction you are getting, rather than the one you were expecting, explained in three, direct, inoffensive words.

I had a similar issue when I first got here, and love to dig my heels in even more than you.  If you fix the problem TGGR spelled out so succinctly you will do better.  Or worse, if you are racist or something 

Unless you've flounced already, in which case you wouldn't be reading this, and apparently can't handle some discord when it comes your way.

[hooplala]

It's sort of funny how few can.

[P3nT4gR4m]

We're all of us incurable order junkies on some level