Renamed: GOD. DAMN. IT.

[Freeky]

So I just had a huge text argument with the ex.

A few days ago, his ex brought his kids to him because they were getting kicked out of their apartment. She has since gotten into the hospital.

This morning, a mutual friend brought me Monkey (he was over at the ex's for the weekend). It being 1 o'clock, Monkey's late naptime, I tried to get hold of the ex. No luck, so I called our mutual friend and asked if he knew whether Monkey had had his nap. He said he didn't know, all he did know was that he had fed and changed him. Rage makes me forget details, so I don't remember why he mentioned that the ex got up at 11. So I got hold of the ex (he was trying to call me while I was on the phone with M.F.) who said that Monkey probably needed a nap because he was lying on the floor in front of the tv, with his brothers also watching tv.

Now, I'ma stop here and go over the facts so far. 1. Ex got up at 11. 2. M.F. fed Monkey and changed his diaper. 3. Monkey was lying on the floor like he was about to pass out right then.

After I got off the phone, I remembered a point I wanted to bring up with the ex. "Btw, thats pretty serious to me that you only left monkey with his brothers to watch him while you slept." He called me back and said he didn't want to hear it, that I used to let him run around by himself behind the baby gate while I slept. I jung up on him, because I carry an argument out better if it isn't face to face (or voice to voice), and texted him with a rebuttal. Long story short, he continued to accuse me of being a neglegent mom, I had more examples of him neglecting Monkey than he had excuses and explanations for TODAY ALONE, and he said at the end that he's filling out paperwork this week to take to the courthouse to get Monkey taken away from me.

Today has been absolutely grand, let me tell you.

[Freeky]

Two hours after I told the ex I was done with the conversation, I get two texts, one from the ex and one from the friend who brought Stephen to me. They were within two minutes of each other, and they both said that the friend didn't feed him, the ex did. I suppose I could have heard wrong, but there's tons of things that didn't match up that the ex went on about, and I even said to my friend that I wasn't inclined to believe it, but I wasn't sure why he'd lie. Haven't heard back from him. :/

[Dysnomia]

Let that fucker TRY to have him taken away from you.  He won't be successful, and chances are he just said that to threaten you anyways.  Slam his ass with child support, or a 2X4.  Either works just as well.

[Bruno]

have you looked into getting financial aid, and scholarships if you go to school? That can be a lot of money. I got a scholarship for over $7k/yr for four years, and I only had a 3.4 GPA. This was above and beyond tuition, which was paid for 100% by Pell Grants.

[Freeky]

Let that fucker TRY to have him taken away from you.  He won't be successful, and chances are he just said that to threaten you anyways.  Slam his ass with child support, or a 2X4.  Either works just as well.

I have the paperwork, I just need to fill it out and file it. And its a good thing I haven't seen him today, because option number 2 was foremost in my mind. 

have you looked into getting financial aid, and scholarships if you go to school? That can be a lot of money. I got a scholarship for over $7k/yr for four years, and I only had a 3.4 GPA. This was above and beyond tuition, which was paid for 100% by Pell Grants.

I have, and I have been assigned this total whorebag twat of a caseworker. She seemed determined to fuck me over. Last time I met with her, she didn't even give me the courtesy of seeing me in her cubicle.

PS, your manatee makes me lol.

[Dysnomia]

are you able to turn it in tomorrow?  Because if so, that is my hw assignment for you.

[Bruno]

Let that fucker TRY to have him taken away from you.  He won't be successful, and chances are he just said that to threaten you anyways.  Slam his ass with child support, or a 2X4.  Either works just as well.

I have the paperwork, I just need to fill it out and file it. And its a good thing I haven't seen him today, because option number 2 was foremost in my mind.  

have you looked into getting financial aid, and scholarships if you go to school? That can be a lot of money. I got a scholarship for over $7k/yr for four years, and I only had a 3.4 GPA. This was above and beyond tuition, which was paid for 100% by Pell Grants.

I have, and I have been assigned this total whorebag twat of a caseworker. She seemed determined to fuck me over. Last time I met with her, she didn't even give me the courtesy of seeing me in her cubicle.

PS, your manatee makes me lol.

Is this a University caseworker, or one from some other government office?

OH, TEH MANATEE!!!

[Freeky]

Let that fucker TRY to have him taken away from you.  He won't be successful, and chances are he just said that to threaten you anyways.  Slam his ass with child support, or a 2X4.  Either works just as well.

I have the paperwork, I just need to fill it out and file it. And its a good thing I haven't seen him today, because option number 2 was foremost in my mind.  

have you looked into getting financial aid, and scholarships if you go to school? That can be a lot of money. I got a scholarship for over $7k/yr for four years, and I only had a 3.4 GPA. This was above and beyond tuition, which was paid for 100% by Pell Grants.

I have, and I have been assigned this total whorebag twat of a caseworker. She seemed determined to fuck me over. Last time I met with her, she didn't even give me the courtesy of seeing me in her cubicle.

PS, your manatee makes me lol.

Is this a University caseworker, or one from some other government office?

OH, TEH MANATEE!!!

Its a DES (Department of Economical Security) worker. I'm focusing on getting work right now, because then I can get the hell out of where I live right now.

[Freeky]

are you able to turn it in tomorrow?  Because if so, that is my hw assignment for you.

Yes, Miss SPS.

[ThatGreenGentleman]

I'm really feeling sad that this has happened to you, Freeky. I nearly cried, but then I remembered that my tear ducts have long since dried up like a wrinkly old persons elbows. If you want, I could hire someone to cunt punch the people who have made you sad or angry. I really dislike your mother, if she heard all the things I would say to her, her ears would catch on fire from all the RAGE!!!! 

[Freeky]

I'm really feeling sad that this has happened to you, Freeky. I nearly cried, but then I remembered that my tear ducts have long since dried up like a wrinkly old persons elbows. If you want, I could hire someone to cunt punch the people who have made you sad or angry. I really dislike your mother, if she heard all the things I would say to her, her ears would catch on fire from all the RAGE!!!! 

If it ever gets to that point, I'll look you up.

[East Coast Hustle]

Freeky seems like one of the nicer people on PD.com, and always seems to genuinely have her child's best interests at heart. It makes me angry when people shirk their financial obligation to their family (like it or not, bub, your kid and the girl who gave birth to him are your family now whether you like it or not, and whether you choose to live with them or not does not in any way alter the obligation you have incurred) and it makes me all the more angry when it is done to someone who is actually a good person and has done nothing to deserve that sort of treatment.

you should kick him in the nads.

IN THA NADS.

[ThatGreenGentleman]

Right now I has the rage equivalent to about 56 angry suns that have heart burn from too much RAGE!!!!  

[Freeky]

Thanks ECH, HFLS.

And "in the nads!" shall be my battlecry, until the wanker has been thoroughly defeated.

[ThatGreenGentleman]

It shall be a marvelous battle cry. When you use it on someone, tell us all about it. It would make a pretty good story.