Nigel's possibly slightly less stupid love life

[Nephew Twiddleton]

We did get it on a week ago, actually, and it was pretty good.

Part of me is thinking, shit, it's just a slow process and I should hang in there and be patient and wait for him to be really ready to move on from his ex-girl. Another part of me thinks that will never happen as long as they stay in touch and that romance is being fed via ongoing communication.

And yet another part of me just hates the word "should".

Well, he might need more time, and maybe you can keep that avenue open, while in the meantime exploring other options?
If you really like him it might be worth keeping that door open for when he's ready to walk through it.

Edit: within a reasonable timeframe, naturally.

I'm not burning any bridges, but I'm also going to assume that he's a lost cause. He's going to be around in the periphery of my life anyway because he knows a lot of my friends, but I won't be talking to him.

If he wanted to be ready, he'd be ready. He doesn't want to get over her, so he won't. That simple. I knew this going in, but I want more from a relationship than he has to offer, so it's time to walk.

That sucks. Sorry to hear it.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Thanks. It'll be a hell of a lot better in a couple of weeks, and definitely easier than if I waited six months before doing it.

[Nephew Twiddleton]

Thanks. It'll be a hell of a lot better in a couple of weeks, and definitely easier than if I waited six months before doing it.

Yeah, better to cut it off now before it gets real serious.

In the meantime, you know where to find black metal ukelele for any needed lulz 

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Thanks. It'll be a hell of a lot better in a couple of weeks, and definitely easier than if I waited six months before doing it.

Yeah, better to cut it off now before it gets real serious.

In the meantime, you know where to find black metal ukelele for any needed lulz 

Laughing at shit on Youtube has saved my sanity many a time!

[Nephew Twiddleton]

Thanks. It'll be a hell of a lot better in a couple of weeks, and definitely easier than if I waited six months before doing it.

Yeah, better to cut it off now before it gets real serious.

In the meantime, you know where to find black metal ukelele for any needed lulz 

Laughing at shit on Youtube has saved my sanity many a time!

I'll dig them up as needed 

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

It is possible that me losing my shit and breaking up with Mr. Language was a good thing on more than one level; we are talking again. Not back together, but talking. He has distanced himself from the ex, and is maybe possibly making some progress toward wanting to move on.

I'm not back in until/unless that happens, though. Not expecting anything. But feeling optimistic about whatever friendship/relationship evolves.

[Freeky]

That makkes me

Goode luck, Nigel.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Thanks.

[Dysnomia]

 

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

So yesterday I found out that the reason I haven't heard from Angelo for a month is because he thought I had a boyfriend. I set the record straight and we went out for drinks last night... and then came home and tried on corsets. 

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Annnnd tonight Mr. Language is coming over and we are going for a walk and then watching Deadwood and drinking wine and eating blueberry sorbet! Squeeeeee!

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Holy fucking shit this guy is going to be sitting right on my couch in about two hours!



yes, he makes me stupid.

[Iason Ouabache]

  Nigel is getting it on with Billie Brewer.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Nigel is getting it on with Billie Brewer.

Now I have to go look up Billie Brewer...

I don't get it.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Here is a not-very-flattering picture of both of us:



What is that face I make all the time? I'm making it in about half my pics. It's a face like I put explosive in the cat & everybody's gonna die in a minute.