Renamed: GOD. DAMN. IT.

[Freeky]

Crisis over.  It's just a cold or something.  Dr. said if ex isn't going to go with suppositories then a teaspoon of pepto is okay. 

Drama hilarity: He (the ex) is going to use my threat of calling the cops (who would only tell me I'm crazy, apparently) because he wouldn't let me talk to the dr as ammunition against me in court.  I am genuinely lawling at that.

Monday and the opening of the lawyer referral office can't come soon enough.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Crisis over.  It's just a cold or something.  Dr. said if ex isn't going to go with suppositories then a teaspoon of pepto is okay. 

Drama hilarity: He (the ex) is going to use my threat of calling the cops (who would only tell me I'm crazy, apparently) because he wouldn't let me talk to the dr as ammunition against me in court.  I am genuinely lawling at that.

Monday and the opening of the lawyer referral office can't come soon enough.

The fact that he wouldn't let you talk to the doctor is obstruction of custody. His girlfriend making parenting decisions that are counter to your parenting decisions is also obstruction of custody. He is making himself into a "difficult parent", and when there are disputes the court usually takes custody away from the difficult parent and assigns it to the parent they deem least likely to obstruct visitation. I sincerely hope he does tell the court that you threatened to call the police because he wouldn't let you speak to the doctor when your child was in the hospital, because that makes him look like the biggest piece of shit ever.

[Freeky]

Crisis over.  It's just a cold or something.  Dr. said if ex isn't going to go with suppositories then a teaspoon of pepto is okay. 

Drama hilarity: He (the ex) is going to use my threat of calling the cops (who would only tell me I'm crazy, apparently) because he wouldn't let me talk to the dr as ammunition against me in court.  I am genuinely lawling at that.

Monday and the opening of the lawyer referral office can't come soon enough.

The fact that he wouldn't let you talk to the doctor is obstruction of custody. His girlfriend making parenting decisions that are counter to your parenting decisions is also obstruction of custody. He is making himself into a "difficult parent", and when there are disputes the court usually takes custody away from the difficult parent and assigns it to the parent they deem least likely to obstruct visitation. I sincerely hope he does tell the court that you threatened to call the police because he wouldn't let you speak to the doctor when your child was in the hospital, because that makes him look like the biggest piece of shit ever.

I know, right?!    A whole lot of "Wow." going on down here.

[navkat]

WHAT NIGEL SAID.

And yeah, you do NOT want Retard and Ladyfriend knowing you post here. Exes do and WILL gather your shit off the internet to use in court. Judges are (thankfully) finally starting to come around to seeing this as more hesaid/shesaid silliness but I've BEEN THROUGH THIS before they started chillaxing about that stuff.

Also: Google "Reverend Magdelene Custody Case" for more insomnia material than you care to have...and if you ever have a few bucks to spare, go ahead and drop her some. She will be paying the legal fees for her ex's entry of her private and online activities into court evidence (and the judge's profound bias) for loooong after her kid needs a college fund. So much for the "best interests of the kid," eh?

[Doktor Howl]

WHAT NIGEL SAID.

And yeah, you do NOT want Retard and Ladyfriend knowing you post here. Exes do and WILL gather your shit off the internet to use in court. Judges are (thankfully) finally starting to come around to seeing this as more hesaid/shesaid silliness but I've BEEN THROUGH THIS before they started chillaxing about that stuff.

Also: Google "Reverend Magdelene Custody Case" for more insomnia material than you care to have...and if you ever have a few bucks to spare, go ahead and drop her some. She will be paying the legal fees for her ex's entry of her private and online activities into court evidence (and the judge's profound bias) for loooong after her kid needs a college fund. So much for the "best interests of the kid," eh?

Fucking Judge Punch.  Did he ever get sanctioned for that shit?

[Freeky]

Apparently, because he has three children he is a better authority on sick kids and child rearing than I am.

  I'm going to get a heart attack or a stroke or something from all this stupid.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Apparently, because he has three children he is a better authority on sick kids and child rearing than I am.

  I'm going to get a heart attack or a stroke or something from all this stupid.

Does he have majority custody of any of them?

Because if not, I am kind of excited by the judge's reaction to his line of reasoning.

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

"I'm a deadbeat dad to THREE children and that means I know more than they mommas about raisin' kids"

[Q. G. Pennyworth]

I am so sorry your ex is a shitfaceboogerbraincuntmuffin. Education and medical decisions are the two things that legal custody is all about, if that dipshit admits in court that he was trying to keep you from participating in a medical decision when you have primary, or even shared legal custody, he is going to get a fucking earfull.

It is too bad that they're both incompetent boobs. Kids can pick up on bullshit conflict like this and it's not fair for them to put their egos ahead of the monkey's development.

[Freeky]

Apparently, because he has three children he is a better authority on sick kids and child rearing than I am.

  I'm going to get a heart attack or a stroke or something from all this stupid.

Does he have majority custody of any of them?

Because if not, I am kind of excited by the judge's reaction to his line of reasoning.

50/50 again.  For a while there, when the boys' mom was on meth, he was the better parent. 

The Ex: Better parent than a meth head.

[Freeky]

Oh! Oh! The reason he isn't paying me anything now is because the court told him he had to pay 800 a month (about half of that is two, three years backpay) for his two other kids and he asked the court cancel, cancel, monkey's child support.

HE CANT PAY FOR MY CHILD BECAUSE HE IS BUSY PAYING FOR HIS OTHER TWO KIDS.  SAY IT WITH ME:   WOOOOOOW.

[Doktor Howl]

Oh! Oh! The reason he isn't paying me anything now is because the court told him he had to pay 800 a month (about half of that is two, three years backpay) for his two other kids and he asked the court cancel, cancel, monkey's child support.

HE CANT PAY FOR MY CHILD BECAUSE HE IS BUSY PAYING FOR HIS OTHER TWO KIDS.  SAY IT WITH ME:   WOOOOOOW.

This is going to be interesting, to say the least.   

[Freeky]

He couldn't have like, asked the court for a relief on that payment, for which there are forms.  I've seen them.  No, he had to drop monkey's all together.

[navkat]

WHAT NIGEL SAID.

And yeah, you do NOT want Retard and Ladyfriend knowing you post here. Exes do and WILL gather your shit off the internet to use in court. Judges are (thankfully) finally starting to come around to seeing this as more hesaid/shesaid silliness but I've BEEN THROUGH THIS before they started chillaxing about that stuff.

Also: Google "Reverend Magdelene Custody Case" for more insomnia material than you care to have...and if you ever have a few bucks to spare, go ahead and drop her some. She will be paying the legal fees for her ex's entry of her private and online activities into court evidence (and the judge's profound bias) for loooong after her kid needs a college fund. So much for the "best interests of the kid," eh?

Fucking Judge Punch.  Did he ever get sanctioned for that shit?

He excus...er...I mean recused himself...so he gets and excuse...and a pass, apparently.

Legal shit is expensive...even when your case is a high-profile ACLU type motherfucker and people are rooting for you. Lawyers still have to rape you.

[navkat]

I've been thinking about you, girl. I've got a lot going on myself but I wanted to drop by your Unlimited fread to tell you I'm rooting for you over here, sister.

My own blood sister [sic] is going though her own shit too. I can't say too much here because I guaran-fucking-TEE you that her ex is googling everyone's name in the family, every username we've ever used and trolling every single social networking site for any intel he can use against her. Yeah, it's like THAT.

"...Well, They'll stone you and say that it's the end
They'll stone you and then they'll come back again
They'll stone you when you're riding in your car
They'll stone you when you're playing your guitar
Yes, but I would not feel so all alone
Everybody must get stoned.

Well, they'll stone you when you walk all alone
They'll stone you when you are walking home
They'll stone you and then say you are brave
They'll stone you when you are set down in your grave
But I would not feel so all alone
Eeeeeeverybody must get stoned..."

Errrybody gotta go through they shit. There'll be sunny days a-comin along behind. Batten down, take some Dramamine, roll with the pitches and pitch with the rolls, guh, y'heard?