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[Freeky]

turns out Mr. Africa isn't actually ok just being friends for a while since he apparently really likes me.  But at this point I don't trust myself enough to actually be able to tell if someone is really a good person or not, and I need a break. 

[Mesozoic Mister Nigel]

Well, if he likes you enough, he'll wait. If not, c'est la vie.

[Don Coyote]

turns out Mr. Africa isn't actually ok just being friends for a while since he apparently really likes me.  But at this point I don't trust myself enough to actually be able to tell if someone is really a good person or not, and I need a break. 

Shank him.

[Dysnomia]

Well, if he likes you enough, he'll wait. If not, c'est la vie.

yeah.  it's too bad.  I'm not sure he understands completely.  That he's probably under the impression that I just want to friend zone him, which is not at all true. 

turns out Mr. Africa isn't actually ok just being friends for a while since he apparently really likes me.  But at this point I don't trust myself enough to actually be able to tell if someone is really a good person or not, and I need a break. 

Shank him.

you can take those kind of comments out of my thread thank you very much.

[Don Coyote]

Well, if he likes you enough, he'll wait. If not, c'est la vie.

yeah.  it's too bad.  I'm not sure he understands completely.  That he's probably under the impression that I just want to friend zone him, which is not at all true. 

turns out Mr. Africa isn't actually ok just being friends for a while since he apparently really likes me.  But at this point I don't trust myself enough to actually be able to tell if someone is really a good person or not, and I need a break. 

Shank him.

you can take those kind of comments out of my thread thank you very much.

Sorry.

[Dysnomia]

I really miss my friend.  It makes me so sad when I remember all those times we joked about running off to vegas to get married in the drive thru...he was actually kidding.  I wasn't.   

[Don Coyote]

I really miss my friend.  It makes me so sad when I remember all those times we joked about running off to vegas to get married in the drive thru...he was actually kidding.  I wasn't.   

I've been in that situation before, same role too.

[Dysnomia]

MY TAROT SAYS:


(to be specific this would be the medival scapini deck, aka takes the message then...clubs you with it for no good reason at all)


That break is good, and after my break I'm going to reunite with an old flame in a positive way that grows into a stable, trusting, loving relationship.

OK cool,

as for old flames...apparently all signs point to guy I've dated a couple times now who was a dick about my needle phobia, then most recently was a dick about the ALEJANDRO(original,not version 2.0) and said "oh you were probably just teasing him".  (all of our mutual friends know this because they adore me and think he's a shit for saying that).  wat the fuk? I'm thinking that has to be a misunderstanding on part of the tarot.

[Freeky]

Or it knows something you don't.

[Dysnomia]

then i asked again in a separate thing rather than just tacking on to former reading...and completely different.


I VIRGO


I MUST KNOW EVERYTHING


FUK

[Don Coyote]

then i asked again in a separate thing rather than just tacking on to former reading...and completely different.


I VIRGO


I MUST KNOW EVERYTHING


FUK

It is possible that both readings were true, but things changed.

[Dysnomia]

this is very true

[the last yatto]

Well, if he likes you enough, he'll wait. If not, c'est la vie.

This

Ps could always give him a hint, a gift with a tag that says do not open til xmas

[LMNO]

turns out Mr. Africa isn't actually ok just being friends for a while since he apparently really likes me. 

That's because you're intelligent, compassionate, and a major hottie.

But at this point I don't trust myself enough to actually be able to tell if someone is really a good person or not, and I need a break. 

If you tell him you can't start dating right now but you'd love to give it a shot once you have you shit together, and he says, "okay," that's usually a positive sign that he's a good person.

So tell him and take your break - Either he's good and he'll be there when you're ready, or he's not, and he won't.

Win/win.

[Jasper]

IAWTC